MistressTiye

My Fem Domme Society Interview

How do You wish to be addressed?

I prefer to be addressed as Mistress Queen Tiye Or Mistress Tiye. Although my slaves, subs and play toys address me as"Best Mistress" or "My Queen".

What celebrity are You often told You resemble?

Most tell me that I bare a strong resemblance to a Female Rap superstar by the name of "Missy Elliot". Her real name is "Melissa Arnette". I adore her, so it is a true compliment to me.

What do You consider to be Your greatest feature?

My mind. My reasoning is that most, Myself included did not realize that the mind is your most powerful possession. It has unlimited potential.

Once I begin to understand the power of my mind, and learn the laws of the universe. I began to reprogram my subconscious so that I could obtain anything I desire with little to no effort.

What would We be surprised to learn that You have never done?

You may be surprised to know I have never trained with or assisted any of my Sister Mistresses.

What is the best advice You have ever received?

The best advice I have ever received was. "Be a woman who knows what she wants and will stop at nothing to get it".

What are you “totally addicted” to?

Knowledge. Unfortunately I was programmed to separate myself from educated and successful individuals. So I have recently came to my attention that I have the ability to have and do whatever I wish.

What do You not ever leave home without?

A clear mind, and the drive to be a successful and wealthy woman.

What do You wish you could be more of?

I'm no believer in regrets, I have learned tremendously from every single mistake I've made.

However, I wish I could be more of a commander.

How long have You been in the lifestyle?

I have been testing the waters since 2003, But didn't study and frequent the lifestyle in detail until late 2009.

Would You consider Yourself to have had a regular childhood?

Not even close. The details of my childhood is very dark & sometimes heart wrenching. But I'm strong enough now, and is willing to share details upon request.

What is your favorite beverage? (can be hot/cold, alcoholic/non-alcoholic,etc).

Water would be my first choice and ZICO 100% pure coconut water is runner up.

Do you celebrate Christmas or a similar holiday at this time of year, and if so, what do you enjoy most about it?

I do indeed. I live in New York City, so the Christmas and Holiday seasons here can be just magical.

What's the sexiest thing a submissive has ever or could ever say to you?

"Your wish is my command"

Tell Us about Your first Femdom experience, including a detailed description of how You felt

Due to me not having a clue of what I was doing, Most would classify it as a damn disaster.

My sub was polite, respectful and later on I found him to be quite informative. He request permission to enter my play space, keep his eyes lowered, presented me with a printed detailed letter of who he was, what training he has received and reasoning for choosing yours truly as his Mistress to be.

I taken by surprise, I had no idea at the time that a male cold be so respectful. I barely read it, I was unfamiliar with most of the BDSM terms that he was using, I was barking ridiculous orders and task for him to perform. That he executed without question or mistakes.

I was so fascinated with the fact that he was granting my every wish, That I lost total control and authority over my sub. when he left I felt defeated, confused, embarrassed, dumfounded. I was a total fake and I knew it. I have always had a domineering personality but I was no domme.

What is the last book You read?

Business at the speed of Thought. (Bill Gates)

What is Your favorite movie?

Elizabeth: The Golden Age (2007)

Do You consider Yourself a Pro Domme, Lifestyle Domme, or a combination of both?

A Combination of Both.

If You were to choose one word to describe the feeling You experience when Dominating a submissive, which word would You choose?

"Worthy"

What is Your general view of men?

Up until recently this question was always at the top of my list of "I Don't want to talk about it". And finally I am in a place of peace to help me express what my general view of the male specimen.

The first 10 yrs of my life I was what most would consider as a "Daddy's Girl" so my regard for men where very high in them days, I saw all men as I saw my good ole dad. The bread winner, my protector, entertainer. A male who had genuine concern in what I wanted or wished for.

26 years later... My view of men has significantly changed.

To date I consider men to be just another vessels in my pursuit of true Happiness.

His only purpose to exist is to grant me all pleasures I wish for, in the order I desire.

Does Dominating another bring You sexual pleasure?

Yes 100%, Sexual pleasure in my abandoned vanilla life is smaller than a decimal in comparison.

Tell Us about how so and why do You feel this way

In my vanilla life I assumed a role of a passive-aggressive, And sometimes submissive wife. It was a product of my upbringing and what I was taught to do. So I was never able to achieve that superb level of pleasure. It's my belief that it's due to the submissive nature of the role I was playing. Now that I have learned to embrace, Instead of exclude my inner dominance. The sexual pleasure I receive is explosive.

lifestyle books and magazines would You recommend to others?

I recommend any books written by Lady Green or Greenery press. one of my favorites is The Mistress Manual (Mistress Lorelei).

What is Your line of work? I am a trained Holistic Health Counselor, entrepreneur, Mistress, up and coming fetish model, social net-worker, Pro Domme and former nurse.

How does Your work affect Your Femdom lifestyle?

It doesn't it actually complements it.

How do Your Female Supremacy views affect Your attitude within Your work environment?

They don't, I cannot express enough how my female supremacy views can and will only be a plus in my line of work.

Does Your family know of Your lifestyle?

Yes They do, And let me add that the most important person of all my mom is my number one supporter.

I do. Quite a few in fact.

That would be a Yes to this question also. My vanilla friends are very supportive of who I am becoming and how I live my life.

If Your favorite vanilla Girlfriend were to ask You why She should try dominating Her man, what reasons would You give Her?

I would sit her down and congratulate her for finally wanting to take her natural place in life. Otherwise she wouldn't be curious enough to ask me why she should.


Have You ever been to a lifestyle party?

I have, But mostly private parties at a fellow Dommes or Masters homes and play spaces.

Have You ever played in public?

I have and I do. It is very arousing and mentally pleasurable for me.

What is the single most important mistake a submissive man makes when first approaching a Dominant Woman?

For me it's assuming he is equal and worthy. in other words; Not knowing his place is substandard.

I look for obvious signs of respect; Did they Ask to approach?, Did they replying in a timely manner, is their name capitalized, did he send me a nude photo of just his pathetic genitals, is their email have one lined or one word messages. the list is endless.

So... The word of the day is "RESPECT"

Do You currently have a slave or submissive?

I do, many in fact. most live in various places in the world.

Are You seeking other slaves or submissives?

Yes I am. I am always seeking another sub/slave at my feet, by my side and beneath my throne .

I would be classified as a Bi~sexual. That's the Mistress Jekyll and Queen Hyde in me.

Do You prefer Your slaves or submissives to be straight or bi-sexual?

I prefer them to be loyal. sexual orientation is the least of my concerns.

Which rules do You require a slave or submissive to live by? For instance, rules regarding use of furniture, walking behind You, calling in, chastity, and so forth.

I only require that the subs and slaves that hire me as a Pro domme contact me Bi-weekly. But the relationship I demand with my lifestyle subs and slaves are quite different.



They are to contact me on a daily or every other day. according to what part of the world or what duties I have assigned for them to perform. I insist There heads are lower than mine in a private settings. They are to strip naked for inspection and a ritual bath upon my or their arrival.



By pure instinct walk behind me, their eyes are to be lowered while addressing me, they provide weekly tributes, carry my bags. Purse included, they walk my dog, accompany me to events, private parties I enjoy.(Most of the time I keep them hooded I rarely expose the identity of my lifestyle subs and slaves) unless by request.

They pay my bills, shop for my groceries, clean my home, car, pick up friends and relatives from the airport, Pay for my advertisement and web fees for my sites, eagerly entertain my guest.

And the Sub/Slave favorite. Is quality alone time with their mistress.

They don't spend a dollar to complete this task. In short they do whatever possible to make my life easer. As they should and was born to do. It's that special sub space between Fem & Domme.
What is Your favorite lifestyle activity?
Pony Play and Pony training.

Do You feminize Your servants?

In the beginning of my I was quite amused to feminizes my servants, But lately I am drawn towards and prefer a more masculine male being. More like a Ancient Egyptian pharaoh rather than Sissy-Bo-Peep.

Does Your do ination apply to all levels of Your relationship? For instance, do You or would You control Y/your finances?

I will and I do.

Blackmail and Financial Play is one of my favorite things to do.

Do You cuckold Your slaves or submissives with other lovers?

I do, but that request is only granted when they are one of my lifestyle subs not for the submissives who hire me for a Pro session.

Do You live a 24/7 FemDom lifestyle?

Yes I do, But I ave only embraced the 24/7 FemDom lifestyle for less than a year now.


If You are in a 24/7 FemDom relationship, would You describe Your relationship as stronger than a vanilla relationship?

Indeed I would consider it stronger. I always knew I was not cut out for a average, ordinary, vanilla union. The bond was superficial & weak.

When a disagreement occurs between You and your slave or submissive, how is it resolved? Is Your word the final word?

I must say I had to chuckle at the last part of this two part question. To answer the first part of the question; I have a variety of ways of punishment for my Subs/Slaves.

I know it sounds cliche and a bit over said, but what makes my answer different is that my punishment is unique and custom made to every one of my submissive's or slaves.

I prefer to be very personal,  Dare I say mentally intimate with whom I share my lifestyle with. And to reply to the second part of your question. My word has and will always be the final word.


Do You set benchmarks for a male to prove his devotion to You?

I do. Not to do so would be unrealistic. Over the years I have made the mistake of spending a considerable amount of time on persons and things that weren't really important to me. and I will not repeat the same mistakes.

Do You judge a slave or submissive’s willingness to embarrass himself as proof of his desire to serve You?

I do not. Anyone willing to make a total ass of himself to prove his admiration for me will always have a permanent seat at my feet.

What advice would You offer a Woman whose male partner has just asked to dominate him and She knows nothing of the lifestyle?

I would inform her to educate herself in the art of the lifestyle before engaging or participating in any BDSM play. To slowly integrate it into her everyday life. And of course recommend Fem Domme Society as one of the very best sources appropriate periodical for being truly informed of this very complex lifestyle.

How do You discipline Your servant(s)?

I have made some shave there genital area, I have added clamps to anywhere along the breasts, sides, arms, legs, and thighs, zip strips included, made to wear various sizes of butt plugs, chastity belts, restraints, I have feminized a non fem servants, bare bottom spankings ( Brushes, paddles or bare hand), standing nose first in a corner, some are made to stand fast in a cold shower, I have had them cut a slivers of a soap then insert the sliver into where most men consider the holy grail of there manhood. After a few minutes of that It will make urination very painful.LOL

I have made them go a day without consuming any food, I order orgasm restrictions,make them drink and eat from a dog bowl, have had them masturbate to orgasm for my and my guest entertainment.

some have kneeled on uncooked grains of rice, I have made them wear ruffled colorful panties under there clothes all day, made them paint their toes in bright colors and wear flip-flops in public or open toe shoes at events, I have also inserted a small piece of ginger in the anus of a naughty slave. From what I'm told that the burning sensation can be unbearable. I also make them punish themselves via web cam.

My list is never ending and I will keep looking for ways to satisfy the Sadistic She-Beast in me.

Do You use chastity on Your servant(s)?

I do if they have earned my respect enough to be granted that honor.

How do You control the orgasms of Your servant(s)?

I teach them how to unlock the mental chains that holds them sexually captive. I teach them to stop relentlessly obsessing about the orgasm that they might or might not get. And start concentrating on the mother reason for all orgasms; "Arousal".

Do You use strap-ons on Your servant(s)?

No, I do not. But I have in the past for a select few of my servants/subs.

What do the next five years hold for You?

Stay tuned...

Share with Us Your fears when You first became involved in the lifestyle.

In the beginning I had a overwhelming fear of not measuring up to the expectations of fellow BDSM life stylers and game players.

So created a alter ego. The Pro Domme Known as 'Mistress Queen Tiye" . She gave me the courage and the confidence to release my emotional block and overcome any "Reluctant Mistress" Symptoms that I was clearly presenting and were frequently overlooked.

Do You have any words of encouragement for new Dommes?

Be Brave! Move towards your fears and they will get smaller, those fears are only temporary defeats. Accept the challenges, And don't limit your achievement with small thinking. And last but certainly not least... Play safe, Celebrate the success of others. and be willing to move forward alone.