Relationships are all hard. CM is not an easy site to navigate. Some people on here are only trying to scam others. Others have such a high opinion of themselves that they won't even send a "Thanks but no thanks" note.

And then there are those considerate people who will talk to you, message you back, and be upfront.

Which one of these types of people are you?

So, my trusting ways have finally caught up to me. Went to my car and all my chef knives are gone. Bummer. On the other hand, time to go shopping!! Shun knives, here I come.

OK, so apparently, not only can't I get people to respond to me, but I am chasing them away. Sent an email to this lady... She responded. I then replied back. Now, she does not even have an active membership.

I've heard of rejection, but this is ridiculous.

OK, I know that the women here probably get a lot of messages, and many of the creepy (by most normal standards). But, it would be nice if the ladies would at least reply and say, "Thank you for contacting me, but I am not interested."

That's it!! A quick thanks but no thanks would be nice.