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Vanilla:

I've led a life filled with exhilarating experiences, from pushing the limits on two wheels to navigating the fast-paced world of healthcare technology. While I may have once chased adrenaline on a motorcycle and skydived more times than I can count, these days, my adventures are more grounded.

By day, I'm a dedicated interface developer, working remotely from the comfort of my home office (okay, maybe it's just the kitchen table). I'm entrusted with the responsibility of ensuring the smooth flow of patient transactions for a large hospital network, always mindful of the importance of privacy and security, even if it means resisting the temptation of peeking at Tom Brady's health records.

Outside of work, my passions lie in cycling and fitness. Though my racing days may be behind me, I still find joy in pushing myself on the bike, whether it's indoors on the trainer or exploring the open road. I'm equally committed to maintaining a healthy lifestyle, from hitting the gym to meticulously planning nutritious meals with organic ingredients, thanks to my collaboration with a nutritionist.

When I'm not sweating it out, you'll likely find me engrossed in a captivating book or indulging in a bing-worthy TV series. But make no mistake-I'm far from a couch potato. I thrive on activity and adventure, whether it's a challenging hike, a scenic road trip, or an impromptu escape to a far-flung destination.

Seeking a Dominant Lady for a Kinky Lifestyle

I am new to this lifestyle. Though I understand that many Dommes prefer experienced subs, I must be honest and always will be. I cannot change my past, but I choose to live in the moment and pursue the road less traveled. As someone raised Catholic, it took me a long time to reach this point, but now that I am here, I am committed to finding a Dominant.

I seek a Dominant, Mistress, or sadist for a long-term relationship. I am willing to give her control over my body, mind, and spirit. While I prefer a monogamous relationship, I am open-minded as long as we are safe. Being active in the local kink community would be nice but is not a requirement.

Kink interests: sapiosexuality, affection, caressing, cuddling, kissing, nudity, femdom, rules and protocols, domestic service, body worship, foot worship, cunnilingus, edge play, cfnm, chastity devices, anal training, collar and leash, bondage, torture, humiliation, degradation, objectification, strap-on.

Limits: scat, urine, permanent damage, public humiliation, ball torture, urethra, ass licking, hair pulling, blood, cutting, choking.

My thoughts on submission and service in a D/s relationship: I believe that service to a Domme would enhance my life by allowing me to embrace my true self in a way I haven’t been able to before. I’m hoping to gain deeper understanding, connection, and fulfillment from a dynamic where I can surrender to someone who truly understands and appreciates my desires. A D/s relationship, for me, is an opportunity to experience a deeper level of trust, honesty, and emotional intimacy that goes beyond what I’ve been able to experience in other relationships. I consider myself a psychosocial sexual man, seeking an intelligent, beautiful lady to serve. My desire to fully embrace who I am in the presence of someone who understands what it means to be human—both in strength and vulnerability—is at the core of what draws me to this dynamic. I was raised in a Catholic family as the oldest of five children, and I had a difficult childhood where I often felt misunderstood. It wasn’t until I joined communities like FetLife and started building connections that I began to fully accept myself. I can’t fully explain why I’m submissive, but I’ve come to realize that when I embrace my submission, I feel more complete. I can be an alpha in the world, but I dislike that role and it often leads me into situations I don’t want. My parents, though they were loving and supportive, were not equipped to understand or guide me through my struggles, and I often acted out as a result. Through therapy, I’ve come to understand their flaws, which has helped me process my experiences. What I’m seeking now is a woman who can provide the control and direction I never received growing up. I identify with my mother, who was the intellectual force in our family, and I long for the opportunity to be guided and molded by someone who understands my needs. My hope is to establish a fulfilling, enjoyable relationship with a Domme —one where I can share my most intimate thoughts and desires. I want to give her pleasure and dedicate myself to her satisfaction. I believe that through a deep, trusting connection, we can experience a level of fulfillment that’s often absent in more conventional relationships, where there are walls and secrets. I want to be the submissive who helps bring her fantasies to life, within the boundaries she will establish for us.

I am hetero however it would be my pleasure to be trained as bi for good owner(s) who are DDF.

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