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I recently had a brief but exquisite taste of exactly what I have been looking for. It slipped through my fingers due to distance which was ultimately unsurmountable but it has very much cemented what I am looking for. I am honestly unsure I will find that again.

The TLDR version.

I am looking for a submissive genetic female for a monogamous LTR based on the concept of a mostly traditional relationship with traditional gender roles. I would be the head of the house, my word is final and i have the final say. My principal kinks are CNC sex and having rules and controls over my girl intended to facilitate the CNC aspect as well as keeping my girl safe and letting her feel owned and controlled and loved always. Vanilla on the surface with kinky heavily sexual undertones in private. I will not share you i will not engage in overt public play. I have no interest in anal and although i love kids generally I am at an age where i no longer want any of my own. If you like the idea of being mostly a sexy housewife who is slutty just for her man then keep reading or contact me.


I am a something of a knight in tarnished armour. I have always ended up with the broken girls, the girls who needed help, protection, a safe haven. One such girl loved the phrase a rock to cling to in the maelstrom of her life. I am safe, dependable, level headed and cautious. From an early age I have always wanted a very traditional life. A wife, a job, peace, contentment, security, love. No drama just plain simple domestic bliss and a job I enjoy even if Im never rich.

However. It seems finding a girl who wants to be a primarily a homemaker is harder and harder. this is going to sound controversial but i believe the womens equality movement is to blame. Dont misunderstand me, Im all for women having equal rights as men to choose to do whatever they want with their lives its just i believe the message has become distorted. Too many girls have been educated to think they MUST strive to do everything that men have traditionally done. It leaves women who want to be homemakers and housewives feeling that they have somehow let themselves and womankind down by choosing NOT to have a career but instead to lead a more traditional lifestyle centered in and around the home. Society needs to take a step back and applaud any person equally for wanting to become a captain of industry or a raiser of children and keeper of a happy home.



OK minor rant over. The other problem i have had finding the relationship i want is in part due to my stability as a person. I meet girls who need structure, rules, someone who says no when needed and i provide all that with love, patience and a firm hand when needed. the problem is time and again they take what they need from me to make themselves more complete and then they leave me for someone or something more exciting and less set in his way. I guess you could say Im looking for someone who is mature and stable enough to want me for me as i am, not just need me for a few years till they get their lives together.

I simply wish to have a loving yet obedient girl by side or at my feet if she prefers. I am not a sadist, I dont live to cause pain, if you dont genuinely wish to look after a home and loyal, faithful man who loves you for it - you better move on.Im not after drama and will tire very quickly of a girl who isnt after the same as I. If you displease me i will let you know in a way i feel is appropriate (and hopefully constructive) depending on what you have done. The girl Im looking for though wont require punishment, she may make mistakes (as we all do) but I will help her learn and we will become closer. She wont be the sort of person who constantly tries to wind me up. she will be the sort of person who genuinely loves that she is making me happy and content each day in a hundred tiny ways that make me love her all the more.

I like things just so, a place for everything and everything in its place. In fact what i offer is more along the lines of a 1950s, TiH (taken in hand), HoH (head of household), or DD (domestic discipline) type relationship. I also enjoy the daddy daughter dynamic (not ageplay) That said, I find myself in recently turning away from kink outside certain lifestyle choices mostly within the home such as rules on behaviour and dress and certain controls on everyday freedoms. I am looking for a LTR but Im in no rush, I would rather wait till i find just the right girl and just the right connection before committing.


If you want to impress me

1) Be articulate and not afraid to speak to me so long as you are always truthful and honest

2) Be intelligent as not only do i want to be able to hold a conversation with you but i will want to be proud of you in social situations.

3) Be creative. I will never be cross at you for attempting to find new ways to please me even if you get it wrong.

4) Be attentive as once we are in tune you should know my needs almost before i do.But most of all be content and happy in who you are. I know what it is i want from my woman - make sure you know what you want from me and yourself. If its right then i will lead and you will joyfully follow knowing that you will be precious to me always.



Update 9th sept 2016



After a conversation I had today I realise that in the interest of full disclosure I need to clarify a few things.



The first 35 years of my life were not great. I constantly sacrificed and compromised my happiness and both my mental and physical wellbeing in order to make a string of abusive ungrateful and emotionally damaged people happy (family, friends, girlfriends).



Three years ago I finally slotted the last piece of the puzzle into place and I am now living the dream. I love my job, I love working nights, I love my lil house, Im happy in my own skin and most of all I am happy being single. I am quite content. It has taken a lot for me to get here and i finally got things just right. Ive decided that i am no longer prepared to risk my happiness for anything. If that sounds selfish i really dont care. I am determined to spend the second half of my life content or happy. It is for this reason (and others) that i have decided I no longer want to have children. I realise this is a deal breaker for a lot of women which is why i want to be upfront about it I am happy to wait until i find the right person as i expect she will be a rare gem indeed! If you feel you can enhance my life and feel your needs dont clash with my own then please say hi.

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3/30/2018 5:03:36 AM
formerly lovingmaster29 but that profile developed a glitch making it hidden. this profile is a work around :)

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 Age: 23
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