Time for a update on this journal i think not done one for a while so what topic can i write about today, lets see oooooh yes, 

Definition of timewasters  

1. (pejorative) if you say that someone or something is a time waster, you mean that they cause you to spend a lot of time doing something that is unnecessary or does not produce any benefit

so many on here accuse people of wasting their time, yet could it be that they are ill matched either via age or distance, 

I think personally those that shout the loudest are the ones that are not what they say they are so if something does not go your way or you do not get what you want of the person that you are conversing with it does not necessarily make them a timewaster or fake come to that but god forbid there is enough of both on this site 

Ok rant over but just my thought on such matters

Well hope everyone is enjoying the start of a new year.

Reading some of the journals that the Doms have put about sub/slaves not responding politely to a message they send even if it is a no thank you your not what i am looking for,

So what is the difference if a sub sends a  polite mails to Doms and do not get  a reply or even delete it unread, do they not think that it is also polite to send a mail of no  thank you etc  or is it just me expecting to much from a Dom to have some form of manners.

 Well it has been a while since I even felt like doing a journal entry, but I thought I would today, so what do I say today well I have been talking to some very interesting people, but there are still the few that think demanding you to do things is the way to go, now is that their insecurities coming out I have to ask?

Why can it be that some Dom's cannot be honest and say they are married, instead of after weeks of chat is it not more honest and open to be up front about it a lot are open and honest about it and either tell you in mail or it is on their profiles just the odd one that does not

Why is it that some Doms live by double standards? or think that a sub should only be communicated with when it suits them? surely it is better to have as much contact with your sub as you can or at least if she has mailed you at least acknowledge that you got it


I know that not all of the Doms fall in this category so although i still stick by my statement above apologies to the genuine ones