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I know that there is not much that I can say here that I have not said before...so, what I have to say is merely this... first off, know that I WAS a taken Woman... and am here for the friendships only...secondly, know that I am a switch that has been living as a Dom only for many years now because it has become obvious to me that there is Noone out there that I will fit with sub wise. Thirdly, if you feel you need to know more about Me... please do not hesitate to ask. Know also that if I am in a room, please make sure to have the common courtesy to ask in the room to pm before You do or I will not reply....
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i found these on a site that was mine some 6 or so years ago and as i addmitted then i will admit now...the first part is not mine...but i do so agree with the words ...the second part is definately mine and i still feel that way today.... i felt that maybe you all would like to read it....~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
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~ i will communicate with complete honesty of my needs, desires, limits, and experiences to my Dom.
i realize that failing to do so will not only prevent my Dom and i from having the best experience possible, but it could also lead to physical and emotional harm.
i will not try to manipulate my Dom. i will not push to make a scene go the way i feel it should, nor will i place demands on my Dom.
i will keep an open mind about trying things that i have not been previously exposed to and will always be open to expanding my limits. Through this, I will continue on my journey to grow into the well rounded submissive i desire to be.
i will accept the responsibility of discovering what pleases my Dom, and will do my best to fulfill his wishes and desires.
i will not allow myself to be harmed or abused, for i know that being "submissive" does not entitle my Dom to be hurtful or treat me without compassion.
i will be courteous and helpful to all other submissives.
i will endeavour to share my knowledge and my experiences with others in the hope that they will learn and benefit from that which i've come to know. i will be respectful of others who's lifestyle may differ from my own and who's submission may attain a different level that which i have reached.
i will be responsive to my Dom acknowledging that all He/She does, is in my best interest. i will not try to hide what my mind and body are feeling from my Dom. By making Him/Her aware i assist Him/Her in His/Her responsibilities as my authority. i know that Dominants are not psychic and i cannot expect my Dom to know the thoughts or feelings which i have not communicated. i know that my actions reflect upon my Dom, and i will do my best to help others to see him in a positive way. i know that others will note His/Her achievements through the manner in which i present myself thus i will endeavour to be the best i can be. i will not intentionally embarrass or displease my Dom.
i will take pride in who and what i am, and will never show myself in a negative way nor will i ever cause others to think that being submissive means to be weak or insecure. i know that being a submissive is a statement of my belief in myself and my desire to share the gift that of my submission with my Dominant. Above all else, i will wear my title of submissive with great honor. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
What I will do as a Dom/me`
I will guide those that are collared to Me through lifes stresses that happen to work them down.I will always be there for those that are collared to Me when he/she needs a helping hand no matter the help that they need. When in doubt I will give them the courage to face anything head on and stand behind them when they feel that they can not do it alone. I will always protect those that are collared to Me as well as I can and not give anyone an opening to harm them.
I do not profess to be a mind reader nor do I expect those who are collared to Me to be ..... so, know that I will always make sure that My wishes are well known just as I will also make sure that the limits of those that are collared to Me are not pressed to the point of breaking.I know what "no" means especially when it is said in the mode of their "safe word". I will not allow another Dom/me` to press those limits either. For, the saftey of those that are collared to Me is My deepest desire.
I will be strict yet, temper it with mercy and knowledge. I will enforce restrictions and punishment knowing that there is a fine line between an affirming swat or two that brings pleasure.... and abuse....I will remember that whips,chains,ropes and canes can be true instruments of pain and there is a very fine line between pain that causes pleasure and pain that causes breaks. Again remembering that it is up to Me to make sure that those that are collared to Me are always protected.I...am his/her Guardian as well as councilor,confidant,lover and friend.
I will remember that I am the Mentor and in this provide all that is needed to train those that are collared to Me to his/her chosen role in life. In this I will also show them how it is in every event i.e. if one was to dishonor,disrespect or disappoint Me as their Domme` knowing that this will also teach them how to react in all instances in life. Especially around Tthose of Oour lifestyle.
I will take pride in all that I am and all that those that are collared to Me are, knowing that he/she will not knowingly cause another to see Me in a light other than a good one.I will remember that those who are collared to Me are still human and have feelings and though I may well use those to My advantage I will not make it a mental game of stress and strain.
I will do what I can and what I will to please those who are collared to Me, because....I know that I am just as pleased when I see the pleasure on those whom I am attending at the time as I am when one does as I wish to please Me.
This was written by... Mistress EbonyJaguar of HomeFires Above all else, I will make sure that My subs live their lives to the fullest and go to the absolute edges of their limits brought on by intense pain/pleasure....discovering more and new ways to bring My sweet subs know ecstasy in such ways that they no longer need to yearn for it as much as remember it from moments past. My pride is in how My little one's smile in happiness as well as in pure pleasure.
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