Update: No longer looking, but good luck in your search.
Having relatively recently discovered (or rather acknowledged and appreciated) the submissive side of my sexuality I am looking to develop this with the right man. I am blond, attractive, feminine, petite but curvy (more 'Nigella' proportions than Kate Moss), intelligent, articulate, warm and fun loving.
I am not looking for a casual sexual encounter, but would prefer to meet someone that I can develop with over time. In the same vein, I find it meaningless to leap into the pretence of submission with a stranger online.
I am looking for an experienced Dom who is strong, sexy, intelligent (intellectual stimulation is as important to me, if not more so, than physical - hmmm... but then again, I love the physical), has a wicked sense of humour and who is interested in leading a novice submissive to new mutual pleasures - tinged with depravity of course. I certainly don't believe I am slave material, but I do know that I can be deeply submissive with the right man.
I would also like to meet some one with whom I can share interests and enjoyment outside of the world of Ds/BDSM, and who has emotional intelligence and maturity (we are all complex creatures to an extent, and whilst I would like to meet someone who has many layers to them, I would prefer to steer clear of someone who is high maintenance emotionally).
Being unattached, I would prefer to meet someone in a similar situation. I also have no 'switch' impulses or Domme inclinations.
Please let me know if you think you could help.
