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Hetero Female Dominant, 46,  New Jersey
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 ladyofthelair

 Dominant Female

 New Jersey

 46

 Hetero

 Caucasian

 09/25/16

 

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So difficult to find a beautiful mind these days. I'm a sensual mistress for lack of a better word. Although I don't think anyone is all one thing. There are different days and different needs. Creativity is the spice of life and with an intense connection the mundane can become erotic. I adore open men that will 'hand me the leash' if you will and let me take you for a ride, once proven trustworthy. Understanding the power of the female sexuality - respect and desire to service. It is not enough just to be obedient. I need the mental connection, trust & adoration. I recognize the submissive has the control. It's a humbling gift from most if given sincerely. I envy some that can have the meaningless encounters. I wish I was one, to have it be enough to smack your ass and order you about... but my mind too logical and my heart too heavy. I seek your authentic submissive self. Not to play a part. Not to just please me. Not to just get off on the power trip on a Friday night to obey a woman for a change.. or a switch to have a night off. To have it really be a part of you. A sincerity to please and a need to connect and to get lost in each other. The mind is my turn on... the vulnerability - the trust. I understand a submissive's need to be owned. To belong. To be loved. To be cared for. And to serve. Together a Domme and sub make sense. FLR.

I'm intelligent and feel deeply. Love music and the arts and traveling fulfills me. I've always been naturally dominant.. and I am searching for a sub to have it be his confident state of mind.. not something we just play. Strong, independent man in the day... putting down his ego and with me be himself, loving, cared for and owned.
 
 
I'm looking for a submissive that knows no other way to be. It's in his core - innate to him. I don't bring others in. I prefer you straight, well kept, and with a good sense of self. Open to things. A calm demeanor and temper in check. No cd or forced fem of any kind. I prefer masculine. 

Please don't be married or attached and yes, looking for something real. How can I ever properly be dominant to you if you aren't free to give of yourself to me? I don't share well. 

Simply put.. I desire a fucking limitless connection that can only grow with intensity in time. 

“You become responsible, forever, for what you have tamed.” 
― Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, The Little Prince

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