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labrysuk

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Update to profile 02/03/2011; "Tributes" & "financial dommes" both amuse me and annoy me in equal measures. I'm sure there are a (very) few guys that get there kicks that way, but not many. I've been around a fair while and I've never met one. Yet there seems to be a plethora of this type of woman on here. If you have any intention of gaining financially fom this, I have no interest in you - if you're the most beautiful, most perfect domme in the world, but you're in this purely to make a quick buck, move on. When in a relationship sub/Domme or other wise, I treat my partner well, I'm not tight by any standards. But pay for someone who'll never be a partner in any way just to abuse me? No thanks, I'll just have a wank. Rant over. For those of you who are genuine, my apologies to you for having to read that, and my thanks for persevering.Please read on for the profile proper. OK, so now onto who I am, and who I'm looking for.
If you'd like to know about the nice to haves, feel free to read on. If you like the idea of just using and abusing a willing sub, well chances are it'll only be short term without having the 'nice to have's, but just save yourself the read and go ahead and contact me anyway!

I've been around for a while now, on various sites, and I've attended various munches and clubs.
I have some experience, though I'm certainly not jaded by any means.
I'm a sub, that's a given, I'm also a cuckold (if I can find the right Domme, and the right Cuckoldress).
Although I'm single at the moment I have experience in both these roles and know that's what I'm looking for.

I have no preference to age, race, build, hair colour, or any of the myriad other things that make us individuals.

What does it for me is that unspoken air of superiority - someone who knows they're my better and will show me that in whatever they say and do.

I'm not saying that I'm not fussy. That's purely my open-mindedness. I will say though, that I'm looking for different things from different people, depending on their sex and their role.
One thing that won't and can't change regardless of who you are though, is that I'm sub.
I've tried to rebel against it and it doesn't work. I have to be honest with myself and admit it, I'm a 100% dyed in the wool sub.

That's not to say I'm a doormat, far from it. That's also not saying that I can't inflict a damned good spanking and enjoy doing so. The whole sub/Dom(me) thing isn't about spanking or being spanked though is it?. It's the way you carry yourself, your mannerisms, your whole persona. Could I be a sub who spanks? Absolutely, given the right conditions (plus a whole lot more - Violet wands, pinwheels, wax, you name it...

I've also discovered fairly recently that I'm fully bi rather than just bi-curious.
It's not something that I live for, and if my eventual owner doesn't find that erotic and wants me to be 100% hetero, I'll have no problem, but if and until that happens I'm very happy to sub to guys and couples, either for their pleasure or the viewing pleasure of my betters.
I've had a (very) few bi experiences.
Although a guy wouldn't be my first choice - I'm very much a female supremecist - I will happily sub to a guy too.
It's the attitude rather than the physical attributes that turns me on.
The male body doesn't turn me on in the slightest, but I can appreciate the aesthetic delight of a good hard cock, and happily worship it.
With women though, it's a different matter. there's not a single part of the female body that I don't adore, both physically and mentally, and would happily worship every square inch.

We all have 'vanilla' lives to lead, so I'm not saying I could lead this lifestyle 24/7 but I'm certainly not averse to having other people with similar feelings knowing about me.

Although I'm a sub myself, I can appreciate the erotic aesthetic of a submissive woman.

To be the partner of a submissive woman would be almost as much of a privilege as being owned myself.

I can imagine being part of a submissive couple where one or both of us is owned, just as easily as I can imagine myself being solely owned.
As I've mentioned a couple of times, it's down to the person and the circumstances rather than some fixed in stone kink. So don't hold back if you're a switch!

Submission to me is a very real thing. Yes, I'll play and have a great deal of fun doing so, but the biggest rush for me comes with doing it for real. That involves meeting someone I can fall in love with, and have a relationship with, and then play with them, hopefully combining our kinks.
That's real.
I'm not foolish enough to believe that will happen overnight though, nor do I believe in rushing into things.
As long as it's understood that that's my ultimate aim, I'm happy to go with the flow, explore people and situations, and see where it leads.

My Ideal Person: I'm looking for fun, interesting and kinky people.
That's it.

It's a small deion of a vast spread of people. If you think you fit the bill please contact me, I'll answer everyone, even if it's a polite "thanks, but no thanks!.

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11/23/2017 10:10:41 PM
Well I think I make it quite clear that I'm not interested in so called 'findommes' in my profile. Unfortunately some of them are to lazy to read profiles, and too dishonest to state that's what they are on their profiles.

For everyone's general amusement, I've pasted a recent exchange below.
  1. I start out nice and polite
  2. I get a polite message back, but the person in question clearly hasn't gone to the trouble of reading my profile. It seems they'll 'domme' anyone with a wallet
  3. At this point I thought I'd have some fun
  4. Abuse - whoda thought it! These people do amuse me. This only serves as encouragement - shame I was blocked, I had a lovely reply - see the end of the exchange below....


labrysuk on 11/23/17 at 3:07 AM:
 
  Very sexy pics, and a very sexy name. Shame you don't give us poor subbies some more info so we can make a more considered approach than just "very sexy". So what is a very sexy BBW wife like you looking for?



KinkyBBWWife on 11/23/17 at 2:13 PM:
 
  Nice and polite message, Thank you kindly for taking the time to write. I require a discrete submissive, who is after something long term.        The basis his to start online.    I do monthly £100, tribute via amazon.co.uk .        This covers one month 16 sessions, around an hour duration, in each session 3 to 4 per week.       After the month, or depending on how busy that week, it may be longer, to complete all 16 sessions, the one month is a guideline, should everything run accordingly.       Of being online it helps to see,  if we are both suited for each other, and  in  the sessions, to be  enjoyed  by both parties, Dom & submissive.   As well as each others company.  Should we enjoy, and be compatible we would then meet,  for a coffee to discuss taking things further and how deep we wish to go, as i am married the need to be privacy  and  being discrete is  paramount.

labrysuk on 11/23/17 at 3:42 PM:
 
  I'm not sure £100 is enough for me - I'll have travelling expenses etc. Could you stretch to £200 a month, that will ensure you've sent me enough for me to travel in style to come and see you.
KinkyBBWWife on 11/23/17 at 3:58 PM:
 
  Penis breath dipstick ugly as well

Sorry,

I don't recall asking you to describe yourself. If you're really into self-humiliation (which I guess you are, since you're basically a whore - asking for money for something that people find sexual) I'm sure you could do better than that at your advanced age.

5/27/2011 3:04:46 PM
So I've just met the rather lovely AltMistress. It was just a meet. Not a date, certainly not play. I have no idea what she thinks of me, if anything will come of this, or if we'll even meet again. I'll give no further details than that, and I'll certainly give no details of her, that's her perogative if she wishes to do so. All I want people to know, is she's definitely real, and very lovely. If you're lucky enough to get the chance to meet her, don't let her down!

5/22/2011 1:29:00 PM

Getting rather tired now of 'Dommes' who string you along, finding minor fault after minor fault of why they'll 'never meet you', then after doing the decent thing and retiring gracefully, you're contacted by them again!

 

I love this lifestyle. I love BDSM, female dominance, the whole shooting match, and I love all the people that I've actually met in the lifestyle, both those that I contacted online and have since met in person, and the others that I've met at munches and clubs.

 

It just kills me though, how there seems to be a greater andgreater majority of people - 'Dommes' in particular, ruining it for the genuine people online.


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 Age: 22
 Leicester, United Kingdom