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Welcome to my kinky corner of collarspace!
I'll get to the main point first! I am not here for conquest! I have been kinky my whole life and the only vanilla thing I can stand is and ice cream cone from DQ. This lifestyle is part of who I am. I am here for energy exchange and to learn more about what the lifestyle has to offer me and also to help pass it on. Yeah sex is great but a good scene with amazing energy transference beats it out every time. So in not so many words I'm not here just to get my rocks off, this isn't a puntang website for me. It is a place for me to learn, network, connect with others and hopefully pass on what I have been taught so the cycle may continue.
So if I have messaged you it is because I have found you interesting and would like with interesting people.
A few years back I became very active in the public part of the lifestyle and was eventually approached by a trustee with Midwest Alternatives and was asked if I would be interested in joining their board? I have always aspired to be on such a board and have the opportunity to help teach others and give back what the lifestyle has given me but didn't expect to be considered to help lead the community in events and education until I was older. I've learned a lot from what I thought it was to being a trustee to knowing some of the In's and outs, and the ups and downs. It was far more work than I ever expected but a challenge I won't stop me.
Now I'm not the best trustee, you can ask anyone who's talked to me I admit I'm a terrible trustee! I'm not the one to ask exactly what is going on cause I can't remember all the details of everything we do at MWA. I'm the fix it guy, I make stuff for the raffle table off and on through the year, I'm the muscle to haul and move our equipment and help other assemble it.
About me:
I am just what my profile says a "kilted farm boy" I've grown up in the ag world my whole life and the level of hard work and dedication that I've learned there transfers to the lifestyle. Now just like in the farming world I wear different hats and I am a switch yes and I know that scares some people. It was pointed out that I wasn't a sub like I first thought when I came into the lifestyle. I've embraced my D/s I feel it makes me appreciate both sides and what each has to offer? Most Dom's are wimps in my book and can't take what they dish out, in most cases I can take what I dish out and usually expect to experience it long before I ever do it to someone else. Being a switch has given me the ability to feel both Dom and sub energy, and both have different effects on me.
The mental side of the lifestyle intrigues me the most and I want to know what one experiences during all different types of play whether it's top or bottom.
I'm a introverted-extrovert ie; I choose to be around people, I choose to be social. I grew up being the unpopular kid and didn't know how to be a part of the clicks. I spent a lot of time in the corner watching people I inadvertently trained myself to read body language and once I was exposed to energy play I discovered the ability to empath as well. I've learned to use this in my journey through the lifestyle to read what others aren't telling you? Especially when doing a scene with someone new they don't always tell you everything that might pertain to them and what might end up affecting them during a scene. Being able to read body language can also come in very handy when you are submitting, with enough study of a Dom I can anticipate what they want long before they say it to you. I had a Dom I was under that stopped me one time and told me she didn't like that I could do that cause she wasn't used to someone reading her the way she read others.
I put many hours in the shop and at the drawing board building and designing all kinds of kinky things from metal and wood, and sometimes other stuff.
My biggest thing is paddles I have a love hate relationship with them! I love wood especially what most would consider ugly and unusable but I like to turn it into works of art people love to this others with. My first creation is the only one I like being hit with but it is not in my toy bag and the design was a one time one Dom creation and one I will never experience again. You can see in my pics some of my work in various stages .
I have plans for furniture but time and money are my biggest problem, some day hopefully?
I love conversation so if you feel like chatting drop me message.
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