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J here, hello:)
Not sure what to put here, I hate filling out these free-form "tell me everything important about your life in a text box" things... structured personality quizzes are much better!
I guess I'll start with this: if you're a "findomme" (aka disgusting scam artist) or the type to immediately demand being called Mistress or Madame or whatever little pet name gets you off or will talk to me in our first messages like a child or a mindless piece of dirt, kindly move along:) I'm an extremely intelligent (I can almost guarantee I am more educated than you are), passionate, real, sexual, romantic, an vivacious man and you should want me for all of those qualities, not for how easy I am to beat into shallow submission.
A little more about me: I'm a virgin. Yup, I said it on an online sex site. If that's a problem, well tough luck because that's how it is:) Please, do NOT read this as sexually inexperienced, lack of desire of opportunity, or anything else. I'm extremely picky with who I date and have chosen thus far to abstain from vaginal penetration. I've literally done everything else imaginable. Almost:P That being said, I have an extremely high sex drive, that's just a part of who I am. I don't think I let it control me and turn into a mindless cock-zombie but I do find the need to masturbate usually several times a day and it's just a central part of my personality. I doubt that will be a bad thing here?
And a little about you: (Whaaa? Subs can't make demands of their dominants, back in your cage, whelp!) Yup, I'm picky. I'm not your chew toy (yet) and have some standards you'll need to meet if we're going to build a connection and relationship together.
1) You're in shape. I said it. I don't care about supermodel .5% body fat marathon running, I'm talking about healthy proportions. I'm in excellent shape and take excellent care of my body/diet/daily gym routine, and you should be able to follow suit. Everyone has "a few pounds" to lose, I'm not talking about this. I'm talking about if you've let yourself go to the point that you don't respect your own body as the temple of a goddess, how am I supposed to respect you at all? I don't see this as a shallow requirement, health is extremely important to me and it says so much about you on the inside how you look on the outside.
2) You're intelligent and can spell most of the time. Everyone makes typos, but if you don't know the different between its and it's I will probably just link you to a grammar education website. If you can't stimulate my mind, we're not going far. (If you *are* dumb, you had better be smoking hot so at least I have something nice to look at while I cringe at your 6th grade reading level:P )
3) You are respectful of my own limits and desires, while assertive and stable in your own. For example, you're not getting a face pic of me or my personal phone number etc. for a loooooooong time. I'm looking for mainly online right now, building a connection and learning/growing together on this medium. I don't care where you live.
4) You can hold a conversation that doesn't revolve around your vagina or me licking your boots or something. D/s to me is never a fake show or mask put on over oneself. It's who we are, how we're wired. I will see *right* through you if you are not a natural dominant, and I will test you and run you like a dog if you're a fake. I'm looking for my missing half, my opposite that compliments me in every way and just fits so naturally with who I am and what I need. It shouldn't be a forced thing.
Well, that turned into more of a novel than I intended! Please don't be shy; even if you do not meet my grueling list of requirements, I am always happy to make friends and have conversations. Send me a message if you'd like to talk or just to say hello, I'm happiest when I'm making other people happy! |
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Pretty close to giving up here... |
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My new favorite thing: running reverse image searches on profiles that look/sound suspicious and mailing the results to the guilty parties. Surprising how every one of them just ignores me and keeps trucking with a blatantly fake image! tineye.com in case you'd like to join me, it's a real blast. |
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Only been here the better part of a week, and already becoming overwhelmingly depressed by the apparent epidemic of the so-called "findomme"! It seems 9/10 profiles here are simply looking for a paypal buck. Children are starving, people are dying all around the world in poverty and destitution, and some pathetic excuse of a human being (mostly male) makes a domme profile here thinking some slightly less pathetic excuses are going to wire their hard earned dollars to them just to be able to say hello?
Really getting upset... Whoever started this embarrassing trend needs to be taken out and shot in the face. Are there any REAL dominant women out there or am I looking for a non-existent needle in a paypig haystack? |
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