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We are all capable of doing quiet awesome and amazing things. To inspire and to drive is a source.of my happiness..

Amazing how brave many are from far away but if I have the ability to leave you naked in front of a computer passed out. Imagine what would happen if you are close.  

If your going to play with fruits and veggies, remember to toss in them away afterwards. 

Sessions are like parties. Everyone likes a party but true friends help setup and cleanup afterwards..

Just before Easter, the bunny anal toys were sold out for some strange reason laughs..

Do not care if your not a true submissive. I can forge you into one. What do you mean your too busy holding your privates and running to the hills. Laughs 

Give out homework and watch some scatter. Not the fun kind of home works. Lol

I am strong enough to change a person's sexuality but wise enough to know the problems that will occur. 

It takes more than want to become mine. While I am capable of much, i do not leave a wake of broken souls. 

To those who seeks that person who knows everything about them, that is a fantasy. I will let you in secret. If you want someone to know, communicate until understanding is established.

For a session aftercare a blanket and something to drink but a relationship aftercare is quiet a bit more involded depending on how attached they are to you. You got to weenie them off of the all encompassesing influence.  If your the reliable and the rock of the relationship they have to get thier feet underneath them so that they can continue.  It so easy to just to slam the door and live a broken soul desperately trying to get thier act together. Sometime a month or two until the influence can be stopped soon the phone calls slow to a stop and the contact goes away. 

Some people look at structured events and freak out. A well plan event is carried out smoothly without much drama or issues.

Can we talk about laundry? Separating the whites colors and darks makes the clothes looking better for a longer time. Washing them on time makes sure you have clothes to wear when you need them. Washing them during the right time means the cost of electricity maybe cheaper during off hours. Ironing dress shirts. Checking the amount of soap makes sure reduces the likely hood that you run out of soap. Doing a yearly cleaning and inspection of the washing machine reduces the unexpected break downs. Knowing the make and model will give the information about the availability of parts. 

Now if I can get a maid to iron a dress shirt. I would be happy laighs

Some people pass out when they have an strong orgasm. This passing out become annoying after a while.  Awake orgasm and gone. Repeated through out the weekend. You figure that having that many the submissive would be appericate but no. A lot of complaining. 

Sometimes pulling weeds from a garden is a lot more calming and fun.  Laughs

While I have the strength to mold a person, If changes do not occur from with in. Those changes just vaporize. I like changes to last forever

 I am odd in this way. 

While tieing a person upside down in a chair can be fun especially with legs wide open. Chairs are not designed to stay balanced in that way. So if you decide to give a chair a spin. Expect your sub to end up on the floor. Play safe, play well..

Communication Communication did I mention Communication.. laughs

Communication with the goal of understanding. Is different from just making noises that fall on deaf ears.

When the moment come on and the muscles tense up and suddenly releases. The mind is blow to the point when it just feels the sensations..

There is the point of absolute trust. This is way you celebrate a great relationship.

What is mine is a reflection of time effort and passion. I major characteristics I seek is the ability to grow learn and understand. 

For some submissive's a few cardboard boxes gives them great joy. Cat subs can be fun to spoil.

Old souls cry the hardness, tossed away by those around them. They wander through life loosing bits of themselves with each failed attempt to connect they slowly turn into a shadow of once was.  I do not isolate them. I tend to build groups not becuase of the need or want of many. It easier to create a family than to build one. I always find it difficult to be me but yet I appericate what my hard path innlife has done for me.

Cry hard, cry ugly, move forward and inspire others to carry on.  

Bondage and moive night. Interesting way to train a submissive to have learn how to quietly ask for popcorn or soda.

Train them hard and train them well. Inspire them to greater levels of passion. Create awesomeness. Yes, you will have to deal with others trying to steal them. Some will grab thier privates and run for the hills. But in chasing down results of time effort and energy. The ones that are loyal will become extremely and uniquely a source of happiness.

I still warn people how addictive I can be. It not the pain or sex that drives me. It is to bring out the best submission you can give. Powered by the passion that can be generated. 

If I can not inspire you to become more, I am not the one for you. 

What do you mean you do not know the tie off points for your bed?  sofa? Chair? Kitchen table? Floor?

Does that spot by my feet look interesting? Can you handle the attention that it brings? Will you being there, will the value increase? 

You can concentrate on the bad and be critical about it or focus on the good and expand it..

Flavored ball gags, tend to over produce drool. 

While I know there are submissives who are strong enough that that they do not need help, trying to shield me from the crap of everyday life doesn't please me.  If you only limit a relationship to the highs, the lows never strengthen the relationship. 

I train a submissive to have strength when life gets tough. Life isn't always easy.

Life is an adventure, infect others with happiness. Spoil the special ones with trips to sub space. 

Without trust, the value of words spoken is reduce to the same value of noise. 

Without passion there can not be excellent service. 

Without strength to defend, your relationship is exposed to others destructive behaviors. 

We do what we do cause we believe it the right thing to do. That means we do take the chance of being hated. Fear of failure prevent learning from mistakes. 

Being a great submissive over rides body and old age issues. 

If I can not make you expose your soul and make you cry ugly, I am not the one for you. 

A physically and mentally sprung soul will crawl to you just to cry and pass out next to you. 

Yes, I realise with all my faults and issues that I am still addictive. 

Yes, I warn not only fellow kinksters but vanilla people I run across. 

What make me who and what I am, makes me an odd human with even odder habits. 

My motivation is not control, it is an odd sense of art where the human soul is the canvas and the kink is a paint brush. 

You can be amazing even tho, you do not.see that. Strive to be happy.

Yes, there are chew sticks for humans. 

Are you the best that you can be?  If not why not? What is stopping you? The curse of a bad memory? The fear of rejection or the fear of success?  Sometime you just need to try and fail to reach what you are capable. 

Learn grow and become the best. 

Are we back on line? I hope so! 

Some where some  one is having a heck of a great time. Shouldn't it be you?

How to get a submissive's heart to race. Start looking at vegetables as cheap sex toys.

Some people are a joy to deal with. Some play silly games and get rewarded with silly prizes. 

Attention energy should always be focus on the joys of life. 

Do I have to drag your sorry behind to be happy and fulfilled?  Some people with time and effort can be lead other need to be pushed over the cliff. Laughs

Pudding

Having a submissive eat out of a bowl on a floor is a pet thing. 

They do have silicon pet bowl that takes effort to eat from to stimulate the pet.

I could make a silicon mold of thier privates so they would eat a meal off of thier own privates. 

With hands tied behind thier backs thier faces would be a mess. 

A great opportunity to bath them afterwards..

A great submissive inspires a dominant person. Made up drama just chews up relationship energy and distract a dominant from leading the relationship. 

An inspiration from the past. People have an orgasm face and a pain face. A great submissive inspires art to be creative enough to produce a statue of both faces.  That art work is donated to a museum of the blind where blind people now have this image in thier heads of this submissive's face. 

Now go and squeeze your privates and show the world your submission..

I am no knight in shining armor. I am no hero. I am just me. Labels are useful for general description but not individuals. Assumptions are find but one has to be responsible for being wrong from time to time.  

Yes of course it is safer to read about the life style than to live it. But it takes being brave to be who you are.

I delight in bring out the best in a submissive. 

Training always beings confusion. It takes time to learn how to communicate to create understanding. 

You put on a large strap on on to a submissive. It funny how they attempt to stuff it into thier clothing. 

Excuse me I think your buzzing over there. Laugh

Changing how a submissive smells is a spring thing. A coffee smelling sub will attract attention on those office Mondays mornings. 

A well used submissive will release smells that will attract others. Keeping the relationship tight is important to prevent them from wandering off..

A great submissive is an extreme source of joy, happiness and fun. It is fun pour in the time and effort and see it reflect back. 

If you fill your life with anything or anybody, you won't have time or the energy to pour into that something special when you find it.  Having a great life is better than having a life full of excuses..

With just the right training, your submission can be glorious. If I make you too sexy, you be chased by many. 

Breath cause I know you are stronger than you think you are.

Scream louder cause it make orgasms better. 

The ropes are tied tightly cause I know how strong you pull..

You can read about the life you can have or be in the life you want.

If you can fight for the life you want that speaks volumes.

I am not for everyone, I do not change to fit into your dream. 

Sessions so hard that you end up with a sobbing mess of a person. I have heard way too much at times and sometimes I am stand offish due to the confessions of others. When you ride the emotional state of a another person you can either create a peice of heaven or scar them with things that would take therapist a life time to straighten out.

Sex with no goals is just masterbation with another person. Much like the e ticket subs, the action is greater than the relationship. It just none fulling and hollow.  

I rather be alone with the possibility of having a great relationship than have my life filled with a relationship that is going no where. 

Once something has been experienced,.you can not.claim to be innocent. People are like pandora's boxes. 

Walk with purpose, walk with pride, bow with respect and kneel with reverence. Dealing with reality is harder and riskier than book fantasy. 

Do you find your special connection or do you  create that special relationship. 

I am not.the escape for a poorly lived life.  I am not here to solve your life issues. I am not here to punish you for past sins. 

A weak submissive is easy to save and fix. 

A strong submissive is reliable strong and is an honor to be lead. 

Your submission is a journey of growth trust and communication. It is an intense relationship that can not be hidden or boxed in. Why many crave and desire few know how to create and defend. Given time one can teach but without patiences and effort an intense relationship is doom to failure.

But don't be sad for the failures. They are learning and hopefully growing. 

If you tie a submissive to a furniture dolly, they make wonderful pull toys. If you tie them on all four, racing them down a slope increases thier blood pressure. 

Relationships take time and effort without the investment and dedication of time and investment, the relationship suffers and shrink away to nothingness.  

Many people produces excuses instead of results.  

Intensity of a relationship comes from the passion of having a person in your life.

There is a difference between finding your happiness compared to creating your happiness.

Do something amazingly awesome and share it with someone special.

The ability to protect a relationship is a skill that you should have. If you allow the internet and the news to influence you. You have to think is this influence good for you. The news thrives on drama to gain attention to push commercials. Stay strong with your relationships. Be informed. Remember happiness is the goal.

I keep mentioning a great relationship, words that roll easily off the tongue but it not easy to accomplish is the person you want doesn't have the skills to create it from scratch. If there is enough time and the passion is high enough. Yes,  one can teach those skills to create instead of find.  This makes relationships so hard to deal with from time to time. 

Never tell me me you will do anything I want lol.

Do something amazing in your eyes and share it with me. 

Learn how to officially serve with honor and pride.

If I can not forge you into a great submissive, I am not the one for you.  Not everyone wants to be turn into being the art version of a submissive. I am not interested into turning a submissive into a low level sub human. I am not interested in being your punishment for past bad deeds. Submission throught degradation is not my way. I enjoy seeing a happy face sitting at my feet. 

I have been offered sex and kink before. But rarely have I been offered a soul to be driven to the height of what a person can achieve. 

Yes, I desire a submissive but I need to have someone who can achieve the kind of greatness that the gods would be in awe. 

We all can be artists. Some use the medium of paint or clay. My medium are the soul of the submissive that decides to become a part of my life. 

I am not looking for the perfect match as funny as that sounds. I am looking for someone who can create a strong relationship. Someone who know that there is value at the base of my feet. Value come from spending time.and effort. Struggles make a great relationship. 

While it easy to degrade and debase a person but honestly a broken person submission has very little value. 

Eye wide open with pride of ownership that kind of submission is more beautiful.

You do realize that if you become sexual addicted to what I do to you, that masterbation may not bring you the relief you search for? 

To many are looking to find that perfect match. Laughs.  I know I can train mine to be what I need and want. 

You do realize that at this moment there are naked people touching themselves having fantasies about you doing nasty things to them. Laugjs

If you are happy, how can you run away from that?  Fear is easy, hate makes it simple. Happiness makes is hard unless your self destructive. Laughs

If I can not inspire and encourage you to be better, your not the one for me. 

Laughs.  I have to remind myself that I play differently than most. 

Sex to confusion...

Too many orgasms is exhausting, given enough trust a submissive will give up control of saying stop that too much. A high level of submission to trust your master to so that your sexuality is given to another to be lead to higher heights.  It does have a habit of spoil masterbation too a point where it does not satisfy. 

Metal and leather will give your submissives that cool kind of look. 

Who would have thought little flower magnetics are now a hard limit. 

Hard to look Gothic cool with splotches of colorful flowers.  

Laughs

If I can not influence you to become more of submissive, I am not the one for you.  Travel deep in to that rabbit hole.  I need trust, I need understanding. I need communication. I need faith.  I do not delight in grinding you down. I am one of those crazed individuals who grows and push to improve.  Your submission when your at the lowest in your life is no prize. 

Sex is easy, kink is easy. Relationship that you concentrate on is hard to do. 

It not the bringing out the best of a submissive that I have doubts of. It the question of will you be happy being that submissive to someone who leading you in life?  I am not for everyone. I do scare many away cause I know that what I need from a submissive is a person who is happy and has a passion to submit.

Adding weighs to the chest of a sub tends to make them crawl more often. 

Stronger than the issues on your life. The screams you hear are from the terrible ripping sounds pulling you away from them. They all scream give me back my problems. I had them for a lifetime. I do not know what to do without them. 

Freedom to serve with clarity of mind comes at a cost. 

Does a structure life really mean less freedom?

If your know what your going to have for food, planning in advance can be much easier. 

If you have dietary issues they can be addressed. 

Keeping a person on a regular schedule sleep and exercise allows your life not to give you alot of mental stress.

Knowing what to wear, when to do laundry, when to shower, keeps you clean and ready for life.

While other see these as restrictions, it a life where you are kept strong and ready for life. 

With passion come the heat.

With heat comes the forge..

With skill comes something awesome.

Happiness comes in being you.

Some one wanted to become my maid. You do realize doing domestic chores is part of that role. Wearing white face. Attempting to be neat and clean would be a challenge. 

Your not getting what you want? Maybe your hunting skills are off.  Understand your prey. 

Permanent owner ship mean if I am traveling to another state or country, I am dragging your sorry ass with me. If you are taking care of relatives. I am dragging thier sorry assess with me also.

If you read my profile, it is poorly written, it not design to attract the most attention. Those who read my journal have the task of trying to decipher the rambling of a mind that races around. 

But my words are mine alone and my thoughts come from me.  

I do understand relationship and draw people with my rambling. 

I warn people that what I do is like going down a rabbit hole. It kind of odd to warn someone who has hope of tangling with me.

I am attracted to people who struggle to be understood. 

Some people have a talent to produce excuses. While confrontation is relatively easy to do. My point is why invest more energy into a relationship that failed.  Save the passion for the next person. Don't get cursed of to what might have been. Don't let the past steal the time away from your future. 

Don't let the past steal time from the future. 

It always easier to place blame and to complain. Some people are wonderful about the production of noise. Laughs.

I valuable submissive is one who not only is aware of issues but comes up with solutions. I see a few who volunteer.

Could I find subs to wilt and get crushed under my drive and passion? Easy simple but I am a pain to deal with and I seek a soul who thrives under my nature. 

Peddling fear, it an old trick use by many. To be threaten to create high energy situation. The old horror movies used it. The monster that is not quiet dead at the end of the moive, the current news use it and even advertisements use it. 

The problem with fear based reactions is that we grow accustomed to it and grow numb to it. The current news cycle is experiencing a lack of trust and popularity. 

My advice is to question why someone is telling you anything? Motivation is important to understand.

Be a better you. Remember to strive to be happy. Enjoy your kink with amazing people.

Run fast and run far.

If I can not inspire you to submit to me. I am not the one for you. Yes, I can paint a picture in your brain to get you to notice me but be8ng looked over by superficial people is a blessing and removes those who want to gain my attentions. 

I communicate weirdly and it takes effort to understand me but than again I am attracted to those who struggle to understand to be understood. 

I take work and time. I enjoy my passions of my life. If my submissive wants to be in my life. There is training and learning that going to need to happen. 

Some run away from what they are. They fear of what they will become. Scared of becoming absolutely depended on another. They fear the darkness of them selves and what they could become.  Sex and kink is easy but sex and kink are only the topping of a great relationship. These are my truths. They may not be yours but in your life you must find your own path. 

Peeking into someone's life isn't the same as being part of it. 

If you can not find what your looking for, spend  the time and effort to create it. Laughs. 

One does not find quality laying on the ground. The raw materials are there. You just have to have the dream and passion to make it happen. 

 You got to be strong enough to follow your dreams. 

You can live a life through books you read. 

You can live a life through the fantasy is in your mind.

You can live a life shelter and hidden.

But to really live, you need to face forward. 

There are no guarantees for happiness.

Life just give you a chance.

Yes, your happiness is worth the fight.

Even after all I put you through. I offer my hand and you put your face into it and smile 

I do not find the perfect match. I create. I teach. I demand. It is my nature. Use what ever label you wish. I don't live to be a label. I am true to my self. Lump bumps warts and all.  Laughs

Inspired to the possibilities of the greatness of you submission. 

You would think I would create the most perfect profile and post the best journal entries in order to attract someone who want to tangle with me. I warn people about me.  Laughs

Have strength to be who you are. 

Every pet needs needs a master to take care of it.

While 500cc implants is a practical implant, there is a risk to sensitivity. Sensitivity is more desirable than size.

Stand up straight and walk with pride..

Do you find the right submissive or do you create the right submissive. Training leading and forging. 

It chased a security bit that rolled under the washing machine..

I smiled, it pleased me.

Some submissive are like butterflies. They flutter into your life to be admired and enjoyed.  While there is a strong desire to cage them. They are best to let them go wild as that is what is best for them..

Some sit on my lap,

Some sit by my side.

Some sit by my feet.

Some sit very far away.  Laughs

What do you mean you Don't want to share your sub drop with me?  I don't  allow mime to experience sub drop on thier own.  The roller coast of emotions isnt fun to recover by yourself.  

Training, transformation and transitioning.  It not an easy path to take but these are not the glue that holds a relationship together.

Trust, building understanding loyalty and the willingness to invest time and effort. 

Time is the great truth revealer. If very little is risked it translate to very little value. 

I must be asking for the world. Understand compassion  and empathy and the ability to create a relationship and not to find it. 

Laughs. 

Why I do not train others? People are like a pandora's box. Once they are open, it is impossible to put them back in their box back to their orginal forms. 

They learn how to please and interact differently than your typical vanilla relationship. Once they are comfortable in the lifestyle, going back is hard to do. There is comfort in knowing what is expected and knowing what needs to be done to please and to perform add stability to a mess of a life.  

It difficult deal with those who are left alone without that strong influence in their life.  They tend to flounder a bit before they can create their own structure of a life. Relationship after care is more important than after care after a session. 

Your submission should be awesome. While there is no doubt that I can make your submission envious of others, I do warn you that others will come sniffing around in attempts to steal you away. Lazy people steal.  I create. You become art to be admired. 

If your submission inspires, I will create a nude bronze statue of you and donate that statue to a blind museum. So others would have an image of your naked body in their minds.  Lumps bumps warts and wrinkles.

Now that is inspiration. Laughs

The submission from a submissive should be a joyful event. 

Phyiscal maturity is easy to determine Emotional maturity is comes from dealing with the daily crap we go through and surviving.

I am not wise I just been through more than you. 

I was called a rare find today. 

I responded rare doesn't mean valuable.

Left socks are rare if they go missing.lol

Rare doesn't mean valuable..

Of course rare doesn't snap a collar and leash on you.

Rare doesn't delight in you panting and drooling.

Rare doesn't make your body ache..

Just give me a heart so I can give it the experience of burnning. 

Give me a soul that can thrive under my intensity. 

I am truly madding and quiet implusive. 

I drag souls with me to see what mischief we can get into.

I relate to those who struggle but I also realize that you can not help those who refuse to help themselves. Calling for help isn't the problem, it calling for help and refusing to accept help when it comes. 

Do not settle for less. Your happiness has value. Submission form misery is easy.  I do not take the easy path.

  Which Submission is sweeter from the mindless or the intelligence? 

Abandoned sub and slaves, it seems I always encounter those poor souls. I swear I could build a community of these lost souls.

You do realize that recovery time is going to take time right? An intense session does take time to recover. Some recover quicker than others. If you drain someone's emotional energy. It will take more that a drink, a warm blanket and a nap to recover..

If you let others who do not have your best interests at heart have a say in your life. You will never be that awesome person you can be. 

Of course I can solve a huge amount.of problems but problems are not the glue that holds a relationship together.  Truth does communication to create understanding does. 

A loyal sub is has an extreme value. A sub that wanders to the greener lawn isn't worth investing time in.

There a certain cruelty about teasing a person in chastity. The shaking, the drooling and the mumblings of begging for release. No you don't please me. You haven't suffer enough.  Your body hasn't reacted enough.  You have not sweated enough. You called me sweet and kind. Heck I am a curse.  

New years is the time for maids, cleaning task are abound. Service with a smile is a must! Clean and pressed uniforms..

May you Service at great parties! 

If you tell me you do anything for me, you will be tested, who is up for tap dancing? Laughs 

Poor slave,  wanting to be anything I want to be.  It will dress anyway I want it to be. It will do anything I want it to be.  Leading someone with no desires other than to please isn't as easy as it sounds. 

I know it sounds cruel but I am a clothes  tossing sob. This is horrible for those who clothes are important to them.  Going on a proper shopping spree means the worn out, the ugly clothes go away. 

A happy submissive sinks deeper into submission.

Slave undercover or yelling to the world this one is own?  Knowing which kind of slave you have is important. Some bloom with the added attention  others will run in fear for being exposed.. know which they are is important. Making the wrong choice will negatively affect how deep thier submission is toward you.

Some people just don't make good coffee tables. Laughs 

I Display mine not to show control more pride in owner ship.

Every one loves parties but few stay behind to clean up the mess.  Laughs. Those who break promises do not get an invite back. 

A structure life is not for everyone.  In the beginning the learning is steep. 

May you all be cursed with happiness and health.

If you can not build trust, your not ready for what comes next. 

It not the size or the age it about the sweet honest submission that flames the passions. 

Wrinkled old battle scared body that is sensitive to my touch is better than any youthful body that numb the sensation to touch.

Just because you wander off doesn't mean I am going to chase.  

While having nude submissive around constantly might be amusing. The reality is that any furniture that comes in contact will need to be cleaned more often.

Mental note, if you have too many naked submissives tied under a tree. They are going to attempt to have an orgy and blame you when they make a mess..  laughs  Merry Christmas..

You have to be this tall to ride this ride. Laughs.

Some people can not handle the word NO.

If you crowd your mind with fantasies, there is no room for reality. 

If you use your life to build walls and you got your goal. Screaming to the world that your lonely should be polite ignored. 

While cutting off underwear sounds kinky. Sometime it just means I grow tired of you wearing crappy underwear that doesn't fit or is causing you issues. Lol

If the goal is happiness, why do you self sabotage yourself  from achieving your goal? 

Just because you have a problem doesn't motivate me to step in and fix it. 

Some people can not handle being playful. It hard for them to submit to someone who think it fun to dress up a submissive. Their image is sitting on the floor in chains always.  

Cursed with happiness is a term I use to about being  happy and in order to get rid of it. It takes great effort. 

I refuse to hate what does not work out. I rather have them move on before they start trashing something that had great potential. 

So what kind of maid are you? 

Metal? Leather? Chain? Pain? Rubber? Naked? Leashed? Bondage? Suspended? Chased? Motorized?  

A good relationship makes you want to constantly interact with them. They are a bright spot in your life.  If you starve that relationship with the attention it deserves, who are you going to blame when it crashes and burns. 

Sometimes it not the orgasm that bind the relationship. Sometime it what comes afterwards.

What I offer is not for most people,  while some see it as a restricted life style. I see it a life filled with guide lines. 

Some people will eat highly processed food to an extent that it will negatively effect their health.  Having your submissive go to a nutritionist to give you better health is being responsible for what is yours. Teaching a submissive to have a balance life is not easy and it does take time but once you find yours. Making sure it going to last maximum amount of years is important.

Time has the ability to expose the truth.  Pretty words are just pretty words until they are backed up by the truth.

It is easy to judge and classify. It how our brain works in an attempt to cope with massive amounts of information. 

Pick your favorite color. Now try to judge and classify it. 

Your expectations and experience with the color is mixed in with your judgement. 

It a difficult to judge and classify the color. The more detail the answer the more of a chance of creating misunderstanding..

Sharing the experience of color is more of an effective way to create the understanding of color. 

Experiencing a relationships is different that reading about it. If a simple description of color can cause misunderstanding. The complexities of a great relationship is literally indescribable to create understanding. One must experience it. 

If your sub has issues with it's privates.  Using a vaccum chamber to make it grow is definitely a new hard limit. 

A great relationship is a source of joy and happiness. Yet people play games and they start to do damage to the thing they claim what they want. 

How strong is your Submission and does it grow with my dominates? 

The most well chosen words means very little if understanding hasn't been created. 

If I own you, this doesn't mean just the orgasm generating sections of your body. This means all of your faults and issues. Yes, I understand that issues and problems create a crumbling foundation for a relationship. 

Creating an environment where bdsm can happen isn't difficult. The biggest issue is protecting it from forces of the outside world and the forces from inside.  Drama and egos are toxic

I stare into it's soul. Trying to connect. It tells me what it think I want to know and not reality of want it is. It has learned through a tough life to lie to itself and others. I stare at it with it's wall that it has built.  Yes, walls keep you safe but it prevents you from connect to a soul you really want.  

Tearing down walls is scary for both parties. 

My Christmas tree farted. There a temptation to ignite the fart but I rather smell pine scent than burning farts laughs.

Suspension in ropes. Tied to a singular swivel point. Battery operated Xmas lights..

If you can balance the sub correctly, a riding crop can easily spin the sub around and around. 

Yea yea upside down would look cooler but that shorten the time frame for observation. 

I really need to create a leather harness so I can flip and twirl with easy.

Some relationships take very little effort. Unfortunately my relationships takes more time and effort. 

Intensity has it costs with time and effort.  Communication breeds understanding between souls. Yes, you have the right to limit those who interact with you but attempting to find what one wants and needs takes a huge amounts of time.

My kind of lifestyle is not for everyone. It consumes attention and energy that it can affect other relationships in your life and life events.

If I pinned you to the floor with your hands pin above your head, would it scare you or excited you? 

A great relationship is like art work. Beautiful to experince. Hard to produce. Criticized by many.  Laughs.

Never Hire someone you can not fire. Cooks, maids, gardeners, mechincs, programmer, electrical technicians, hvac people and the list goes on and on. 

A submissive who has poor skills is harder to fire. Much like bad performing relatives in business. Laughs..

Waiting isn't life.  Sharing the ups and downs is life. 

When forging a strong relationship, the question comes up of how much time do you have to invest in this relationship?  Little time and effort produces very poor results. 

If you do not invest the time, the relationship you want will be like chasing clouds.

For some the need for submission is greater that it's own sexual classification. Some people's submissions are a joyful event. Given support and a safe place, they bloom big and bright.  Never been a fan of dark fearful submission. 

It might sound creul to say but I do not wait for others to catch up. I am not stationary in life. I am constantly learning and growing. Yup I am a freaken moving target. I am a kind of person who grabs a hold and leads. I am not fearful of failure because I know recovery from horrible things is part of life. Who I am and what I am isn't for everyone one nor do I wish to be that way. 

Kink and sexual rapture is fun and enjoyable but building a solid relationship is more satisfying to me. It not the ropes, toys or fuels my passions. It the depends upon me and the responsibility of a sub's life which motivate and drives me in life. 

If you meow at me, I will put a bell around your neck. Laughs

Have I ink my subs? Only for breast reconstruction surgery. Breast cancer does a number on a subs self worth.   

Stepping on a oxygen hose is not breath control lol 

Farting in the intake on a breathing machine is only fun if the submissive laughs or complains. 

If surgery can be used to create a hole, surgery can be used to tighten one up. 

Is it cruel to feed your submissive food that gives it terrible gas just so you can fart.bomb friends and family. Laughs

Tape and tie bells on a sub, just so it can be trained to play Christmas music naked.  Jiggle for me!

Submission given is sweeter than taken.  It last longer and is stronger.

Hard path.  

Yes, there will be times when you feel like I just ran you over. Your demons and issues will become my delight in dealing with. Your issues and problems will run off to the hill naked clutching thier privates.  Laughs 

Why the skirt?  Easier to lift. Laughs

Got submission?  Laughs. 

If you tell me your a pig, I will play banjo music while you are greased and squealing. Laughs..

If I feed you beacon? Do I call you a cannibal? Laughs..

Remember a pig in a mud pit can't run very fast lol 

While I have great problem solving skills, problems are not a solid base to a relationship. 

Some of the easiest things you can say is very difficult to do. 

While this society produces many princesses, it produces very few princes. Thanks disney laughs.

Finding that winning lotto ticket is different than making that cash with hard work. 

It is easy to bind the legs open. It take someone special to hold them open when extreme orgasms are happening.

I lead, you follow. If you don't follow you will be left behind.  Is that a bad thing? Not in the slightest. Some people are like butterflies. Enjoy them while they are close and let them fly to find thier happiness.  

I am difficult to serve. 

If you think doing stuff for me is going to make me slow down and rest. That doesn't work. Cuddles work tho laughs

I am not superior, I just been through more than most.  Life moves forward so trying to connect with another is always been a moving target thing so this waiting game people play to attempt to catch up doesn't work. If you caught up to what was, you caught up with the ghost of what was.  So how do you keep up? Grab a hold and build a life together. Build a relationship. 

Is it a curse to ask your submissive to experience 10 thousand orgasms. I will have to push them around in a wheel chair afterwards. I will have to learn a new language of grunt and groans to communicate. There going to be a lot of drooling I bet. I will have to sponge bath them. Plan meals, dressing them everyday.  With that kind of experience I bet diapers are going to be needed. 

Just because you can, doesn't mean you should but if your going for the extremes be responsible for your behavior and actions.

Why the large mirror?  So that it can look in the mirror and admire the changes that are happening. Every submissive should have a extremely large closet.

There are many who desire that special relationship but few understand what it takes to have another human value the ground that you walk on.  

The reason why I rush about?  There is so much life to experince and so many adventures to have.  Waiting for another is extremely frustrating. Laughs

I mean really if you ask someone to show you thier issues, the are going to throw up a huge wall and tell you to go away. Laughs

I wished the ex sub  a happy birthday. 82 is an amazing age to reach.

I use to joke with it about having it carved in stone naked and donating the art work to a blind museum. So blind people will know what wrinkles it had. 

If your privates are now my stress ball release toys, how would deal with it? Would you smile or run for the hills? 

Nutritionist are used to make sure your eating healthy. I change your life style cause your bad habits are slowly killing you. 

You wearing a cowboy hat and boots is just for amusement and maybe Christmas cards laughs

Just because I bound your wrists behind your back and fold you over the sofa doesn't mean there going to be sexual activities.  Sometimes I just want a little peace and quiet. Laughs..

While I can not erase the hell you been through, I can change your future. Hope is amazing that way. It a hard path I choose not because it is simple, it is because it give me a chance to live the life I want to. 

Life no matter how long is always too short.  

Being the responsible type, I have to make sure you are in a safe place to grow I that way. 

I would be much of a leader and  protector if I put what is mine in harms way.

Some people just can not keep up and wander off. Laughs

There is just something deliciously rude about legs being tied wide open. The quivering voice of a submissive begging for any attention. The need just driving them slowly mad spending hours being exposed. How cruel it would be if subspace was denied. 

The extra padding under the carpet isn't for the comfort of my feet but comfort of an older submissive. 

Someone needs a short leash. Laughs. Dam thing keeps wandering off. 

You would think that a cabin in the woods would allow a person the ability to have outside orgasmic screams without too much troubles. Laughs. 

If your  cabin has a view, you be surprised how far sound can travel. Expect a visit from concern neighbors, forest Rangers, the police and odd stares from the locals.. laughs.

Once the shaking screaming and hate Peter's out, then come the hope and dreams

There is something to be said about adding jingle bells with rope harnesses during the holiday season. 

How to make yours dress well.  Dress them funny. 

I do not doubt my ability to train and transform but I do doubt the ability of some to stay afterwards. 

The destruction of you will never be my goal, you being happy to submit is my goal. Fear and anger are effective tools but painting a canvass with minium color ls is self limiting.  

Do not put me on a high mountain top and bow at my feet.  I will roll down the hill laughs. A good life is a fully engaged life. 

I shine brightly in dealing with responsibilities. 

You deserve to be happy, do not allow anyone tell you otherwise. 

If you suspend someone in a skirt make sure the dress isn't too long.  You miss the surprise look when you blow up the skirt with the electric leaf blower.

Miss opertunities will give you regrets, laughs

So you have nude photos of yourself, do you really think that is going to keep a relationship based person interested for long? Laughs

Training and transformation isn't a walk in the park. It a hard path to choose but the rewards are amazing.

If your scared of making the wrong choices you won't be brave enough to leap when you need to.

There is something special when you grab yours and put them on the counter. The heat, the heart racing and the  wild look are better in person than read on line. 

 If you trap your mind in a book, you miss the life you could have had. 

There is a difference between being a reader of a book compared to being the muse for the book to be written.

What do you mean nude bungee jumping is a hard limit?  

If you deal with hardened souls, binding them high is rather boring. Drop them a few feet bounded in ropes and suddenly their senses are highten. 

It is all  fun and games until the sub ends with pee up thier nose. The hazards of upside down bondage. 

If your future is bright the shadows of the past fade in time.

If you want intensity, you have to be ready for it. 

If you leap from relationship to relationship and are never alone, when you find someone special you might be too busy to spend the time to create that relationship you want.

Do not let fear and hate dictate the life you want to be happy.

Yes, you can scream loud but can you create understanding?  Entertaining news isn't very entertaining or news worthy

 laughs. 

What makes us strong isn't those easy sunny days, we get stronger by the storms that the world send our way. We will survive this and we will all get stronger. Keep your friends close and protect what is important to us. 

Gothic clown nurse, Time to chalk up something new to somebody's list of hard no on.  So you think Your mommy dresses you funny just wait until the sheer blown panic sets when you are sent shopping dressed in something that will draw attention to you and most likely end up on some website. Laughs.  Remember the internet is forever. 

With passion come creative kink. Metal maid, metal uniform, task performanced in time with metal music. 

What kind of maid are you? If you do not know, you need to find out.  Now strike a pose metal maid. Laughs

Welcome to the bdsm version of a life coach. Laughs

You can not lead from behind, leading from the front will cause you troubles. You can not assign everyone's opinions at the same level. You have to trust your gut and forge ahead and be an adult when things fail. 

It a troublesome and painful life at times but it the only way that have a full life with very little regrets.

There is something fun about tossing refrigerator magnetics on to metal underwear. 

Bottle opener on metal underwear. Kind of a fun thing for parties. 

I do not expect you to endure the things i have in store for you, I expect you to fail spectacularly but with failure comes growth and strength. Weakness is the fear of trying. 

If I smack your ass, how high would you jump and what would you do to get another smack? Laughs.

Unloyal ones get the life they truly deserve. 

Of course you have problems, we all do. It how we handle them that makes is who and what we are. Yes I can grind you down but if you represent my time, effort and skills. A useless meat puppet is an insult of who and what I am. 

Do not let your issues and problems be that chain to bind you to a life you do not want. 

Of course I expect you to fail. Do you really think you could succeed every single time?  Harshness and punishment doesn’t mean I do not care. It means I know you can do better than you think you can. If you dictate your own ceilings aren't you putting limits on what could and should be? 

Why to bondage? Have you ever over stimulated someone? They buck pretty dam hard. Laughs

Rigging is an art form it strans and moves with the person. Thin ropes thick ropes and of course there the colors.  Tie point and pivot points.

It the adult version of arts and crafts with sexual tension mixed in. It easy to find a willing subject but sharping your craft on a temporary subject is well just that temporary. 

Can you tap dance? 

How good is your research skill on under water power generation systems? 

Could you buck a woody doll off your back in a humbler with a remote sex toy in you? 

Be awesome and amazing.  Do not travel alone in life. Some Experinces only come once in your lifetime. Sharing them with the right relationship make a life a bit of heaven.

People assume I am too soft and too friendly. I am one of those who follow the hard path in life. An open pair of legs won't impress me. Being mine does equate having an easy life. Ruling by fear and hate is easy for me. What I search for is not easy. I am not fearful of failure nor hate. Why am i supportive of what is mine? Cause it makes the submission a heck of alot sweeter. 

You can not learn from easy and perfect is boring and delusional. Life is full of emotions and passion is amazing. 

The ability of improvement is important. The ability to create understanding. Knowing how to build a relationship. These are important to me.

The lovely tourment of orgasms is an art form but it in celebration of a great relationship. Way too many want to take the easy way. Celebration without the hardest work you ever been through.

It is amazing to reduce yours into an exhausted lump of sweaty mush and instead of it crawling away.. it crawls towards you and croaks at you one word again. 

I know I ask alot and demand a lot and running toward the hills is easy but than again I am not looking for easy. Laughs

So you like to be humiliated? Making a mold of your privates and creating an odd looking jackolantern is certainly amusing.  

What do you mean wearing cat ears and singing soft kitty is a hard limit? Laughs

So you think your broken?  What you think as broken I find interesting. 

So you ashamed of your nakeness? That is your judgment not mine. Do not project  your faulty judgements on to me.

Too big, too small? As long as you smile when you feel my touch, it doesn't matter.

A ball gage isn't just to shut you up, it allows you to think before you speak. Choose your words well think of thier impact and review the results.  Do you create understanding or put another brick in the wall?

What I do to you is addictive, I keep your eyes open so you can judge if this is the kind of life you want.

If you are tied in ropes, sometimes people pass gas. Do not try to light those farts, trips to the er is never fun. 

Are your  responsibly enough to handle things when they go wrong? 

Some people are like  butterflies, enjoy them while they are in the hear and now.

Submission from a lowly broken soul is easy. Submission from an awesome amazing person is dam hard but worth the struggle.

Servicing me does not equate to abandonment of the things and causes that you hold dear to your heart. 

It is easy to share your sexuality but it so hard for someone to share the bad parts of it's personality. 

Short term verse long term. Shall we talk about retirement? Where are ypu going to buried?  Funeral costs? Life insurance? Long term care? Aftercare after sessions? After care of at the end of the relationship?  Many people desire subs kneeling at thier feet. Few are responsible enough to take care of them long term. 

Fear will tie you to the life your have and not life you want. 

So it like being restrained. I dragged it to take a sand bath. I teased it and said look there a dog peeing on the trash can. It panicked and i laughed.  No there wasn't a real dog. Dog can't give you consent lol

If you Increase the sensitivity of your submissive's skin, holding hands can be very amusing. 

If your a joy to be around, people will flock to you. 

There is nothing like a pointed stick to do a proper inspection. Something flexible but yet strong enough to give a poke when needed. Something wide enough to be use as a thump but small enough to give a sting to correct bad behaviors.

It's not the duration that counts, it the dedication and the desire to stay on task which is important.

In control or an attempt to have some influence over the random crap that flows through a life.  Laughs 

While I am capable and responsible enough to implement my influence to guide a person to a better life, this can not be the bases of a relationship. 

If you were sleeping and i decided to play with your body I wonder what kind of dreams you will have. 

Glow in the dark body paint makes a simple Halloween ghost very interesting. Laughs

If you amp up the connection with yours and it wants to crawl into your clothes just to be naked skin to skin, it kind of your fault. Laughs

A session is like building a roller coaster. A life style is like building an amusement park. 

 Be someone's source of happiness and joy. Scrafice only to the ones who appericate.

It just not getting control of another which is important but it also being responsible for the results of taking control. 

The potential for growth, the ability to create understanding, apperication of time and effort is greater than a pair of legs opening up and hoping your going to find someone or ones special. 

People tell me thier body shape and size, like that is going dictate how they submit. Lol

Sorry, I am not interested in training other people Doms, Subs or Slaves. While others may state that I am losing a opportunity for kink, I look at  it as creating free time to invest my energy into someone special. 

A stone carving of your naked body on display in a museum of the blind. How many blind people will know what your body shape is like? 

A wall of silicone molds of your privates on the wall maybe a little pump to get them all oozing..

Xmas cards with your orgasm face might be amusing.

Some stumble across thier one. Others find compatible one. Others change to attract one. 

It is another ball park to create yours.

With struggles and walking the hard path. Life has greater meaning..

It not always easy to create an environment so you can be who you are but it well worth the struggles. 

If I fail to train you, is it really your fault? Since I am the responsible type, the fault is on my shoulders. 

So you think you can not keep up?  Laughs  what do you think training is for? 

Some people are easily lead by a collar. Others you just have to tie them to a furniture dolly and pulled along naked.

The perfect foot stool. Now where is that remote control? Hey foot stools are supposed to be quiet and not leaking.

Laughs.

Been asked what I can do and be for you.

Response. 

Succeed in being happy.

With Extreme Emotional releases it wears out the soul.  Crying screaming bawling the emotional out pour is amazing. 

All without pain or sexual components. A great sub is an open book. Interactions are though provoking. A great model inspires masterpieces of art.  

Be amazing and stay curious. 

Yes, Yes, I can make a cage that you can sleep under my bed.. but sleeping intertwined is a treat.

Tits up and be the reason why your god get worried.

When things begin to grenade apart, emotional maturity show the most. 

I know I know I generally never post about politics but I do grow tired of the parties of hate and the tiresome ways they attempt to attempt of manipulation. If you can not build a bridge and build respect you should not be in the poltical system that also ring true in bdsm relationships.

If my goal was kink and sex, my life would be a whole lot simpler. Laughs

Do I just go after broken ones? I do not think so at least that is not my intentions. Problems do not make for a great foundation for a relationship. Problems get solved and suddenly there is nothing to work on together. 

Words spoke in sincerity and in truth, should always be valued but stolen words spoken,  are hallow and those people should avoided. 

Intensity is not because I want to nor need too. It is inspired to do so. 

When DS relationship matures with time, it becomes an art form.

Doing what we do and being who we are, you would figure that judgemental attitudes should be tempered but no. You just end up with smaller groups of judgement people..laughs.

Before having grand ideas of changing society, shouldn't you have the knowledge and the ability to create one? 

The wonderful internet is the grand social experiment on how humans react towards each each others. 

What my kink? 

I am a freaken happiness junkie.. laughs

With most things practices and hard work create wonderful results. Yet there are those who seek that perfect relationship without doing any work.  

Is there the one or shouldn't you seek one that is willing to grow with you. 

If you are going to crawl down that rabbit hole, I am going to dress you like a bunny!

Laughs. What do you mean, too much is wrong with you and that is just another excuse for you to run.  How are you going to run when your bounded to me and I delight in chasing your demons that plaque your life.  You hug your demons so close cause you do not know how to be without them. 

Blind folding is a blessing to be earned. There is something to be said about recording sessions.  Not for masterbation material nor to share it with the world. More of a self discovery of who and what you are and is this is the path way you want to be. What are you feeling? What is motivating you,  is there something you could have done better?  Imagine if your sessions were improving every single time. Better aftercare? I did not like this but I loved that and of course can we do something longer? 

I demand more from you, not because i want to see you fail but because i know you can succeed..

If howling at the moon eases your pain, we might have something in common. 

If the world knew the kinkiest thing have done, would you run and hang your head in shame or would post and brag about it? 

Did you know extreme commitment has requirements that need to happen before requests are even considered? 

Intensity demands understanding. Responsible requires trust. A great relationship equals mind blowing sessions. Passion and compassion are on the same side of the coin.

Trust found isn’t the same as trust earned.

Greatness is not found it is grown and earned. 

If your relationship died, did you starve it? Did you take it for granted? 

Some people fill thier lives with made up stories instead of really experiencing them. I feel sorry for them. A life filled with imagination is just a hallow life. 

I am not your source of your next made up adventures, I choose to be alone rather than to waste time.

Following someone else's teachings isn't following your own self discovery.  Most people can act but few really understand about being.

Alone gives one opportunities. A full and busy life limits what truly amazing things you can accomplish.

Many people desire the person at thier feet but they do not understand how to get a person there. 

Can you cook and clean?

Can you communicate to create understanding? 

Can you share the monsters in your head? 

Can I play with you in ways that make other people to runaway?

Can you live a life where you never shower alone?

Can you live a life where not only your privates are not your own but your brain is not yours also?

If you can not fight for what you need and allow the world to steal it away from you. Who fault is it when your find yourself alone? 

Would you rather find that great relationship or create it?

Why many can go 90 mph down the road. Steering and braking is important to have to go where you want to go and brakes makes sure ypu stick on the road. 

Do you keep your broken toys? If they are n loved very well of course.

There comes a time when things become irreplaceable. Train well Train hard.

There a reason why your urn is sitting on the shelf.

People think I have to grind someone down so that they can follow. Heck I pick them up so they can keep up. Laughs

I rather have it show me it's ability to learn and understand compared to naked pictures.

So you won't do this or that. Well I respect that request but honestly there are more terrifying things I can do to you without it showing up on a xray.  Your therapist will look at you as a source of money and most likey name a condition after you.  Laughs

With great power comes a greater responsibility. How to make a room full of submissives scatter. Walk in and state I am bored.. laughs

Lots of people can not endure but that is OK. 

I walk on egg shells so I don't shatter people around me. 

Passible or non Passable? Ears perk. Side ways look.

In this judgmental world, bounded by hate, run by mob rule.

You seek approval of these people?  You just have to be you. Lump bumps warts and all. It is more pleasant to deal with the truth than a masked one. I do not seek approval, I seek the truth and understanding. Some are just not capable of it. Arguements only work if both parties come into it to seek common understanding. 

I understand it tough to stand up for yourself but sometimes you have to to protect the relationship you have worked so hard to get a real submissive truely works hard to find ways to submit and a dominant works hard so that submission is easier to do.

Remember eye hooks in the ceiling are fun but eye hooks max weight rating lessen when the load is at an angle.

Words that seem to upset some. 

Make me a sandwich..

I am voting for...

Get ready in XX minutes

Where do you want to eat?

Does it matter what the world thinks of your relationship? 

If you going to ride a bike, your going to have to eat a lot of bugs. If you going to hang around bdsm people, someone is going to look at your brain as play ground.  It may never happen but some one will think it.

If you avoid and hide from the world I understand but if you hide from me, you endanger the relationship. A lot of people can not create the relationship they want and need. Old cursed damage prevents people from holding out their souls to be bound to another. 

I do not steal another person's submissive.

Asking me to lie is a major red flag.

Can't I find someone close? Of course I can a bit of an ill fit but I can cure those issues. Evil grin.

Of course i demand everything you got. That included those dark secrets you never told anyone about. The things that turn you into the wonderful drooling mess. The cracks and failures that drive others away seem to attract me. 

What I do is addictive and I warn potential partners about the things I am capable of. I am not afraid of failures or problems. I am just not built that way. Any of my exs should be thought of kindly. 

I am the keeper of many dark secrets. I am your Safe port where you can cry to the heavens. Healing is a process. Expression is good for the soul. This doesn't feed the ego, it draws another soul closer. That patch of ground at my feet grows in value. 

While I appericate the opportunity to have a session, without the relationship component,  sessions will start to feel like masterbation using another person as a tool. Fun but lacks in satisfaction.  Just because I can doesn't mean it will happen.

You know when you are getting older when your Safe word is cramp!

Just because you sign up for bondage it does not mean your going to get an orgasm. 

While pallet wrap sounds like fun, heat exhaustion should not be a part of that fun.

While duct tape can be fun, removing the glue from the clothing underneath is a real pain.

You know there are people allergic to the glues in tape.

 Safe words are important but if you play to a point when the mind can not produce words other forms of communication is needed.

Actors and actresses will bow out when the curtains are closed.

It not access to the body I need it access to your brain I seek.

Since I can manufacture bdsm toys and furniture, you would have thought I would have a warehouse full. Nope, why? Would I keep used toys? 

Memmories of sessions past should never be thought of during present sessions.

Inspiration comes from what is current.

Being an intensive junkie,  it a good thing to avoid Friday night, weekend end submissives. It not the session which causes issues, it the aftercare recovery length time wise. Healing the body is easy compared to the mental state. Some people take a much longer time to recover 

Coffee analogy. Laughs..

Making that perfect cup takes time and effort.  Instant coffee is never good as the really stuff. It take time to make, find and buy that perfect maid outfit.  Proper high heels with legs tied close enough to shuffle with small steps. Part of serving coffee is knowing it is more than just coffee. Presentation enhances the experince.  Servicing coffee is an art form. Many want the experience of being served but few understands how to make it happen.  

Some people walk with style and grace, other people walk like a zombie. Other people walk like a cat on a leash. Laughs

A muffled orgasm is not as fun as a scream your lungs out orgasm. Ear protection is important. 

I have been accused many times of being controlling. General I laugh it off. Other people's opinions only have value if I give it value.

But I happy to explain the who what and where..

I have dealt with others with mental issues. Now keeping someone sane isnt always easy but those techniques does will work well with submissives.  Sleep is important. A structer life brings focus.. creating a more effective submissive is more fun. No more guessing what needs to be done. It is explained and been taught how it is done. A better life, a more focus life..

Making a submissive wear jiggle bells and taking them shopping is always fun..adding a shock collar makes waiting in line at star bucks a blast. Now is that the remote for the collar or the remote for the anal plug?  Laughs

So many people want but very few prepare to get what they want.  

Sometimes it a blessing that they run off.. they are not ready for what is offered to them.

You need time and you need to put in the effort. If you want someone to get you, you got to have conversations that create understanding. 

If you think orgasms and pain are the only tools in my tool box. You poor thing you still have a lot to learn.

Crying is a tool and well as screaming.  Stripped of your manners and sanity what would left? a mental session needs some pretty intense aftercare. 

I don't train other people's projects, I rather concentrate on my own. 

The wants and needs makes us go crazy. That is why people in isolation are always a bit odd. Isolation is a punishment. Corner time, cage time, being ignored all tend to affect people so much.  These social media companies are like drug dealers feed us and creating want and need. 

Now let's add the social needs with sexual kink needs. How strong of a bond can be created?  Happiness is stronger that rope and chain.

Lots of people say they are but few prepare for it. Laughs

Grabbing the privates on a submissive tends to make them focus and doesn't let thier mind wander too far off track. Laughs

If your moldable and trainable being that perfect fit isn't an issues.

Grab your privates and run.  Laughs

Trained for a moment and now your an expert? Oh hardly, laughs 

Are you submissive enough? Can you be trained to perform well? Are you loyal?  Can you communicate to create understanding? 

The fear of addiction keeps some from experiencing everything that can happen. 

A short answer.

? What wil i be.

Answer back..

Happy.

Sometime safe words just don't work, common sense needs to kick in. Being responsible is important, Especially when the other is in subspace. 

What do you mean, you can not keep up. If i have influence from way over here, how are you going to handle being closer.

Saw a hucow today and all I thought was I need a bag of magic beans. Lol

I have received a message of I will do anything for you. While many are willing to jump in my life during the fun times, I see many run off during the roll your sleeves up and we got work to do times.  If I am more that capable of collecting trophies but trophies are only fun when you get them afterwards they sit on a shelf and get dusty.

While there are many who will party with you, there are fewer who will help you setup for an event and even fewer who will help you clean up afterwards. I like hanging out after wards, you meet a better class of people. 

6 hour drive? Hmm 6 hours In a trunk?  Laughs

Are you compatible? Laughs I can train you to become what I want and need. 

The better question  would be:

Can you learn and grow?

Do you communicate well enough to create understanding?

Do you have the time to invest?

Does your submissive nature increase or decrease before during or after?

Are you one of those who looking for the act and the Dom is just a prop?

While acting pales against having the real thing, what are your goals.

How will you react if your passions  go into over drive?

When relationships end, the responsibility thing is to ween the person off of you.  The stronger the relationship, the need for aftercare is important.

Points for emotional maturity..

So how did you end up naked in a car? That right you dressed in something that is horrible and there was a clothes donation bin nearby.

A slave will typical state in a conversation that they have been trained by xyz person or persons. So your trained to someone else's standards. Being denied the opportunity to trained someone to ones own standards is disappointing.

I train to keep on a permanent bases. If I move, I take what is mine with me. One of the reasons why I do not train some one just because they want me to.  Time moves forward. Opportunities open and closes. It would be a shame if you find what you need and want and you had no time to invest..

You want me to what?  Of course I can solve your life issues and problems. I thrive being responsible but issues and problems are not a good basis of a long term relationship.

You are no prize and your social communication skills are laughable. You have no respect and all you know is that you want. 

What is more important is that can you listen and can to stick with someone who going demand things that you will fail at. 

This make most people grab their privates and run towards the hills. I am not for everyone. I bare the scars of many things that has gone wrong. 

Becareful what you wish for. Cause wanting is stronger that having.

That little spot of ground at my feet,  it has value and worth. Strangers who kneel there do not have a clue that  being there can cause drama. 

If your food is trying to kill you, of course I will get involded, a responsible person does those kinds of things. You want what is yours to have a long and healthy life. 

I get asked how many adult toys do I have. None. Why? New relationship, new toys.

When people don't show up or ghost. I celebrate, why? They have self eliminated themselves out of my life and I can spend that time into something else. 

Fleeing thought, I wonder if the meaning of the name Karen has universal meaning?

Some people get upset at others even tho they are not involded in that relationship. Do you know how funny it sounds when someone complains about others? 

If they are happy, leave them alone.  (Of course they are adults).

Inspired to post.  Some people run from failure. I run towards. When the tide of troubles grow deep a person true nature shows up.  The crack and flaws that make us human show up but yet there is something to admire when trouble is brewing. The wonderful defective person is the 1st person to show up.  

Pretty is sweet to look at but loyalty is 1000 percent better.

So you like to be humiliated?, so sing the I am a tiny weenie song on command. 

The results one very red face slave. Laughs 

Labels are quick way to  handle massive amounts of ... but labels are not customized to the individual. If your serious about life, love and kink, you deal with and understand the individual. 

Understand the flaws and cracks that make us human. Perfection is boring, dull and predictable. Life isn't predictable. 

I am a strong influence. It just my nature. Compartmentalizing relationships has never work well with me.

How can one be passionate about a fractional person or a imaginary person.

For some aftercare is a blanket, gatorade and time alone to process and recover. 

For others it is a whole lot of emotional crying, hugging, touching and a long session of a  confession of the soul. 

Connection and head space is important.  Communication and understanding is important not just during the session but before and afterwards.

I am not easily understood, I do not easy to get to know but than if life was easy we would not appericate it.

What do you mean you can not dance like a Korean cheerleader? Time to train!

Submission of a 20 something?  Lots of energy,  So many questions,  a hungry mind wanting to learn. Willing to accept any info as the truth. 

As I always say, your submission isn't always in a book or a web site.  My relationships are based upon the people who are involded. Others who  judge and have nothing to risk, their opinions should always be tempered. The goal should be happiness. What happens between two consenting adults that are happy. They should be wished well and ignored. 

The struggle to become who you are. For some it easy but for others is a freaken tough road to go but the funny thing about tough roads. They tend to polish the soul. Those souls are brighter and have greater depth. 

I do grow tired of those who won't start a relationship due to something they are waiting for. A strong bounded relationship is one where both have gone through the hardships of life. It so easy to find people when things are going well.

The health and care of yours. How serious are you? Low fat, low surgar and low salt is something to consider. Exercising regularly is important.  Emotional and spiritual stability is important. 

Oh there are times where people just wanted a session and the responsibilities would end when the session ended but no, I want long term and that is a hard path, I choose to go towards. 

Wrapped in shrink wrap is fun but not on a hot day. Heat stroke is a hard limit. Laughs

A well trained submissive is always in demand. If you do not prepare them to cope with that kind of attention. The like hood of them leaving is great.

If you train yours to greet you naked and in your position, understand that if you see them in public the urge to perform that form of greeting will still be present. Yea, I have cursed a few with that behavior. Laughs

No limits?  I rather not visit what is mine in the freaking mental ward. Some people just crumble under pressure. My happiness isn't built on crush souls.

I refuse to leave in my wake broken dreams, broken hearts  or broken people. I am usually stubborn about those things.

Short leash. Sometime you use a short leash to give the illusion of a chance to escape. It burns off more calories that way

Yes, I can lead but  what happens afterwards?  I don't want the slave wander around lost. Seen it before. I have heard the screams of a sad and lonely souls before. Aftercare sometimes it take time so that the slave can function by itself.

Recovery is not a 5 gallon bucket of ice cream and years of therapy. 

It is gone not sure where it has went but it is most definitely gone. Limits push to the point where the mind is still there but it just doesn't make sense anymore. Drooling and babbling is all it seems to be able to mustard. Spams come and go. It is sensitive to any touch and any stimulation just rips through it body.  It desperately hold onto a scarf dropping it will cause everything to stop and stubbornness won't allow it to let go. 

Becareful who you tangle with, do not allow dreams crushers and life sucks to steal parts of you away.

It is not question of  whether I have the ablity to train you but what comes afterwards that is more important. Submission is not the goal it a journey.  A session is not the goal it is a life experience. An exploration of who and what you are. 

It easy to find someone to uses you  but it not easy to find someone who going to appericate you and use you well enough that you grow in your submission.  

Sometimes it the little things that triggers pleasant memmories. Bending over a sub and using thier own clothes as  binding.  They jump around when you use thier privates as short leash. It not the act that I miss, it the jumping around which I find amusing. 

If your involded with another, move along and don't waste my time. 

What I do to people is extremely addictive. Structure, submission and managing sexual energy all take time and effort. There are many greedy people who will pretend to be single to get an experience. You cannot  build a great relationship based on a lie. Time has a habit of exposing the actors, actresses and role players. 

I am not going to wait until you get ready. Waiting and not being involded with the solution is just a waste of life and time that should be used to grow a relationship.

Do you really think people are going to wait until your perfect? Work hard on a relationships is a 2 person job. 

I rather have a person with faults and all than a perfect person.

There is something about the struggle that brings out the best in us.

Not everyone can handle a session. This includes pain and pleasure or both. Yes, I know one can know a person close enough to trigger responses that lead to the person passing out. It good to have thier phone number to make sure they are ok. Convincing them that going to bed is what they need. Passing out in front of a camera isn't restful at all.  Sometime fun has to be balanced with responsibilities.

I do not get hung up in labels but you have to be you. You don't define a label you define who you are. 

If I am not your emotional support? Why do I need you in my life? Some people can not handle being that close, it makes them run.

Cruel cruel cruel, it is one thing to send someone to grocery shipping for process food.  Send someone shopping for fresh veggies and protein.  Not so easy being sent out to buy fresh quality stuff.

Why is it crawling on the floor? Sign of respect? Sign of submission or maybe it crawls on the floor cause the legs have failed due to being played with too much. 

Drive the mind and the body will attempt to catch up.

It is one thing to create desire for what I can do. It is another to create a strong craving for relationship that took time and effort to create.

Basic 101. Can we create understanding? 

Of course I am not want you think I should be. Laughs 

But I am who I am.. to be what you want means I am acting lol. 

Some subs get happy when you tell them they are doing charity work. Like emptying out a truck for a some food drive.  Actions and words should always have weight. Relationships take time and effort.

Gaps of silences in a conversation is a good practice to learn.  The old fashion think before you speak. 

Since I don't allow others to mess with prospective slaves having them go quite help the typical emotion response when they communicate. 

Simply like saying to your self why are you attempting to influence me? 

Darn yapping puppies. Most are not worth time. Why? They lack being responsible and they lack the ability to have that strong relationship. 

The spot at my feet has value. If you show disrespect towards it. I have the right to kick you off. Don't waste my time. If you don't have what it takes.

Show me your worthiness and make me proud of you. I want I need that soul that I can scream to the world that one is mind.

Most others are like screaming puppies to me. I am not your solution to your problems. Yes, I can fix them but problems are not the basis anything long term.

I woke alone not because, I can not find just anyone. I walk alone cause I know when I find it. I can pour my time and energy into something that is special. My life isn't for everyone. My personality is rough around the edges. I. Do not seek perfection but the willingness to change for the better.  Dancing and singing take time and practice. Reading books is a hard no for some lol others read books like they have an empty soul. Lol.  Can you spend time in the garden? Can you howl at the moon?  Can you swing dance?  Have you had muscle cramps when you were rigged?   Health circulation, joints and nerves are important.  We all have personal baggage but if you can not handle the bumps in life.

And hold on tight to the relationship you help to create .why should someone spend time to build something that just goes poof. Laughs..

Go find your happiness.

I am not your prince nor I am your monster in life.

Do not follow me blindly. Do not try to mold me into something I am not. 

Do not bother me if you have a person in your life. It might curse you with a desire you cannot satisfy. 

Offers of sex and kink will be politely ignored. If that was my goal it would be  is easy to aquire. 

Do not follow where I go, I follow the hard path. It isn't easy life and it would cause most an unhappy existence.

We all go through life. If we allow others to steer where we go and what we do. You will find your self some place you don't want to be.

Pick carefully those you have in your life. Eyes wide open.  

Little naked sub got surprised by a bathroom door opening. So it bend down and threw up it arms with a fingers sticking up.

Why isn't that one mine? Simple it had a backup Dom, suddenly words of dedication turn meaninglessness.

Seems like a life time ago......

Little urn, little urn sitting on my shelf.

I wonder if the prayers I send to you are getting through?

The life you had was crazy. 

I friend zoned you before friend zone was a catch phrase. 

With all the things you had in your life, you needed a friend.

This digital site is like a virtual grave yard at times.

Visiting profiles reminded me of all those I have run across. 

I don't know what you told your brothers about our relationship 

But they gave me a little gift of you in an little urn. 

Rest well, rest in peace 

Some people sing during.. Some people pass out, some people talk in tongues, Some tinkle, some produce an amazing amount of self lubricant. Some people attempt to want to crawl into your skin to get closer, some stay in a safe corner to hide and others recover in the cage to be safe...

With grace and beauty as it walks.  A great relationship makes it seems effortless but once it is created it become of value.  Once it becomes so valuable, it can be stolen.  Once a  life of hope becomes darken, a certain sadness blankets the day. Time to recover and recreate something you know can create.

When I talk about people self eliminating..

[You cannot respond to this message because the account no longer exists]

Laughs

It struggles so hard to be what the world wants it to be. Behind closed doors. 

I stripped it and broke down it walls.  It is truly naked and is like a raw nerve. 

I gave it acceptance to just to be what is it. 

Under obligation, I have been asked to go to a party. I growl and refuse. I don't like speaking to the great unwashed cause there is always some someone who is happy to sponge off other people's experiences and experiment on some hapless soul.

Are you at least responsible to take responsibility when things blow up in your face? 

Are you doing this in an attempt to fulfill or fix your own issues?  

People self eliminate themselves so quickly sometimes and poof they are gone. We're they even real?  Do not know. Do not care. 

Odd but an amusing conversation.

So you are a writer and are just communicating with me to get ideas for your book?

Great another hack attempting to write a porno. Insert excuses.  I have heard tons of reasons laughs.

So let me get this straight, you are going to attempt to write about someone's else life experience and spread your interpretation through out the world to make a buck. If you write based on stuff you made up and it causes damage to people are you going to be responsible enough to admit that you have negatively affected people?  Insert more excuses.  So it just a made up story from your brain to make a buck.  Just like a porno. 

There a difference from describing a spot on the ground, being given a spot on the ground and from actually earning that spot on the ground.

Noise making ball gags and a rubber band snapping. Sometimes it the simple things that keeps one happy.

How to scare off people.  Laughs.

Read a book and than summarize that  book.

Tap and ballroom dancing lessons.

Sing a song loud and clear. 

I have seen many of feet flee. Laughs

Of course, I can make you feel again. Yes, I understand what you do makes your emotional responses a bit muted. 

So if I understand the why, why can I not give you what you need.

What I do is addictive. It would be irresponsible to do and not think of what happens afterwards.

I do not move through life sailing on broken souls.

That little spot of ground at the feet is only has  importants if it is treated as what it is and not a prop..

If your mind isn't my most favorite play ground. There is something seriously wrong 

If you can not be my canvas, I am not the one for you. Life is more than surviving. It a celebration of existence..

But but I was what you wanted..  laughs did I ask ypu to be? No.

Why do I want someone who pretends or acts? Of course I can direct a scene but an act is an act.

Once you have locked into a soul with real responses. Acting is just a imagination of life.

Have fun and be real..

How to annoy?  Core a ball gage. Insert duck call.

Oh poor thing you can't reach sub space while quacking.

I have met some amazing people here in person from all walks of life.  

There a word that upset a lot of people, it called competition. 

Opportunities only open for a while and without proper attention. Those opportunities close.

It not a threat. It just life.  Building a relationship take time and effort, if you can't or won't. Searching to find someone who is willing is much easier than try to fix problems.  

Zero effort relationship are worth thier weight. 

If you have never fought for what is important to you? 

It easy to find someone to enjoy the good times. It the ones that stay with you through the bad times makes life worth living.

Of course I can push to it breaks, but what kind of life is a life filledwith broken souls?

Can you sing? Can you dance?  What Instruments do you play?

If I am inspired to dress you into something special would you dress for my enjoyment? 

Enjoyment for the moment or a structured composed picture? 

Pray for those who have never howled at the moon.  

It complains too much and yet it screams you don't listen. 

If your goal is to create understanding, screaming rarely works. Laughs. 

Ball gags will slow down and restrict communication but words with thought and meaning are better spoken compared to just human noise.

It cries cause It struggles with the life It wants to have compared with the life It has.  There is a certain cruelty to show someone what can be done now it faces a choice.  To have something you want compared to continue to live your same life..

It can't cook or clean and all it brings is an attitude.  You bring me a broken person in need of serious need of therapy.

And yet I am the problem. Laughs

If you sexual key a slave to get excited by socks, learn to lock your socks up and no shoving them in thier mouth just increases the issues. LoL

Never tell a high emotional strong individual how to react in a session.  Subs will sometimes talk to each other about a session they have even with  the same person. An experince this intense, I never recommend talking to a point  where some one decides to get judged. Nothing comes out good when this happens. 

A submissive who fails to please is a miserable creature.  Adding judgements of others creates explosive out comes.

It not to gathering of people to celebrate a holiday that gets to me. It what happens afterwards. The good byes, the missing of the bodies sleeping in the same bed room.  The house is put back together. A ton of memories were generated. Buying food for one is going to be tough.

I hope.your holidays were filled with some pretty intense people..

Holidays times are fun and exciting times.  Sometimes I reach out to old  subs and slaves and give them some course correcting advice. 

While connecting directly one on one does escape me from time to time, putting together a group is like falling off a log. So holiday are typically fun filled with activities. 

There is something festive about naked people and Christmas trees. 

Large buffet meals served by bondage maids. 

Eating off of naked bodies..

So have fun making topless cookies and squeeze enjoyment out of this holiday season.

How odd it is to create a relationship that on one hand it soul is mine to push and torment yet at the same time  to drive that person to seek that safe harbor into my arms.

If I become your drug of choice, will you seek a cure for the addiction? 

While I am capable of administrating therapy, and solving multiple problems at the same time. I am not here to be your therapist nor the solution to your life problems. Relationships based on solving your problems never last very long....

Lots of people want the good stuff but rare is the one who is willing to put in the work.

If the value of the little patch of ground at your feet can be gotten by just asking does it have great value? 

It make a request of me.  Don't spoil me. If your preparing for failure. Obvious there is a trust issue to address before things move forward.

It like art. It turns into a combination of what it is and what I can make it to become.  But the more time you invest the more of a value it has. 

If your trapped yourself in a life you don't want, why is it my responsibility to free you from the mess you made? 

If you stop leading your relationship. Your relationship will change.  It the reason why I don't allow that to happen. If you Abandon your leadership role who is really to blame? . Lead with responsibility. 

It wants my time and attention. Yet I do not give it any. It doesn’t have the time to build something solid. Why lose the opportunity to find what you need and waste it on something temporary.

I do admit, I am not for everyone. You have been you for all your life  I could generate a whole list of things to improve. Bad habits to break. Etc etc. It more easier to find a person with lower expectations. It the easier thing you can do.  But if no one presses your metal. You will never know.

Does the iron know if it being forged into  art? 

The older and cooler the iron the harder the iron must be beaten. 

Yes, most people have problems. Nature of life but you cannot build a life on problems and solutions.

Do I look like I react to promises of easy sexy?  Laughs.

It use to be I would take a person to the local bdsm event and see how they react.  Now I take them to the gym instead lol

I lead, you follow. If you can't follow, I wish you well and hope you find what you need. 

So why do i forced a zero sex policy?  Control?  Punishment?  Naaa 

To get a person to re focus on what is important.  Sometimes you have to abstain. 

Imagine a life without the things that dull you on how you react with life. 

Instance relationships never last, what do you mean life isn't porno laughs..

Life isn't a Disney story either.  If your not willing to invest the time why are you surprised when things don't work out..

If I push your sexual attributes to higher heights can you handle getting more attention?  Will it make you wander away? 

It wants something  serious but it shows disrespect. I wish it well and tell it to move along. Great relationship take time and effort. If your unwilling to spend time to bridge to create a bit of understanding. There is no way you can adapt to my world. My life is not easy and nor is it not suited for most people. 

In some relationship, the sub has to guess what is required in a relationship. Some view a list of requirements as a control issue.  There is something comforting in knowing what is expected. There is a huge learning curb to learn all that is required. It takes time and commitment. 

There are those who just want the good stuff.  Many want to have.at the feet experience but have no clue to get there..

Some people are just not ready to be tested on thier humanity. While I understand they what they want, this doesn't make it an obligation for me to give it to them. Don't ask to be guided or lead if you can follow or listen.. 

Some vanilla vegan was making comments about cows milk and talking how we should be milking humans.

I had to laugh, ran across someone special who pump out so much milk she donated to her local hospital. 

Milking someone into submission can be a wet and quiet fun experience.  

Just a funny side note, if you train yours to moo when they are smacked on the behind. Leaving a sport arena and smacking a butt will get a whole crowd of people mooing.  Laughs 

Yes, ropes and chains are fun but sometimes getting your submissive to just bounce around house is fun also.

Just another rambling post.  If you don't understand the reasons why please feel free to ignore me. I won't take offense. 

Sorry, you won't get the experience you want from me.  I have run across many boxers those who lives  are like little containers. If this is your lifestyle and it works for you. I am happy you found something that works for you. I know how I am, my influence is a whole life experience.

Meaning just trying to contain the experiences in a room is going to cause issues.

Jury duty. Yippee but I wasn't picked. I don't think the court want to know why I know so many of them.  Seen you before' Seen you and you. Laughs. 

I am stronger than the troubles you have had in your life but some have a strong grip on them. 

A weighted belt tends to make a person crawl on the floor.  A push to the side will make them stuck on the floor arms and leg waving about.

If you don't live in fear that I will take over your life. I am not scary enough for you.

Of course I can push beyond what you can handle but I don't want to leave behind broken people on my wake in life.

To create a life with someone is not as hard as it seems but  Protecting it is more difficult.

Well meaning friends will try to throw thier influence on your life.  Well this is all great and good if your relationships aligns with what you consider a happy life. Most people don't see the value of the little peice of ground around two feet. 

Omg and your naked too with all your attention focused on the person your with? 

These are concepts that are difficult to gr for many. 

People tend to see the kink and not the relationship..

The problem is if you amp up a person's sexuality. Instead of being ready for you at a moment notice. Typical they start searching for satisfaction some where else. 

Yes, given time and effort. I can invade your brain but honestly if your not willing to invest the time your don't deserve that kind of relationship.

Welcome to the Walmart fast food mentality of relationships. 

If course I can teach but teaching irresponsible people just creates waves of broken people.

If you don't listen to my stories, you will never figure me out. Laughs.

How much weight would you loose if I printed your orgasm face at the bottom of plate of food that you use? 

People think it odd that the carpet has extra thick padding. If you have peeps crawling on the floor from time to time. It makes sense. 

Manipulation, while some people flee from it others grovel to have it in its life.

It's life is a bit messed up. It struggles for Structure. So as i organize parts of it life.  It life becomes easier but problems don't make a great foundation for a relationship.  They looking for help with a problems and once help is received, They wonder off.

I know you expect me to chase you when you run but if you can not handle the the simple vanilla things. There is not much hope when the relationship gets intensly personal. So wish them well in whatever hole they hide in. You can't top from the bottom. You can not lead from behind. 

Inspire it to serve better. Attempt to create better communication skills so that understanding can happen. 

If I can not bring you out, you shouldn't be mine.

Hanging up during a conversation is grounds for termination. Lol if you think I am that replaceable please replace me. Free me to tangle with a soul who can handle what i server. I am sure there are big box stores that have what you need and want.

Tied tightly, it struggles  and  the ropes that bind it. Suddenly it passes gas and safeword out. It seems humiliation is a hard pass. Laughs

I love those clothes donations boxes. If your clothes offend in the box they go. 

How do you have a submissive?  After a strong and session, if you ask the question. . Again?  If they slowly crawl away. You just got your self a a kinky person. Laughs

Control is more than just stripping you of Control out of your own life. 

What next is important. Producing clueless people should never be the goal

It begs for me to take control of what it is and what it does. It willing to endure anything I give to it. The major red flag is that it has no clue of who i am.and what am I capable of. Submitting without vetting  just plain stinks of desperation.

Some people can not handle the intensities of a strong relationship. It is sad that it happens but failure is to be expected when seeking special relationships.  I am going to enjoy the extra time and energy. No more indulging in to the submissive's mind and life. It has grabbed it privates and is running towards the hills. I hope it recovers from opening it's pandora's box. Normally I would slow the influence so stopping wouldn't be so jarring to them but some just jump off.  I hope the land well..

If you live up to a label are you a label?  

Sometime the answer is no.  No isn't a cruel thing to say. It allows parties invold to move beyond what is in front of them to a possible of what can be some place else.

Your path isn't always my path.  For some people, a quiet person without any drama issues is desirable.  

I am not one of those, it is my nature to amp up the emotional response.  A quiet life isn't for me. I thrive on wonderful high passionate people. I tend to create them as I have been accused of.

I know what I do is dam addictive.  You need more than just a want. As the responsible type, there is the how is this going to effect you today and tomorrow. 

You would figure, if anyone show an interest that I would be welcoming.  I question your sanity and warn you about me.

What I do is addictive,  while some reduce emotional state, I tend to increase the emotional flow.  

It is easier to have a low energy relationship but I am the hard path kind of person. 

So pray for those who approach, they won't have it easy. 

Did you really lose yourself or are you blaming someone who discovered the real you? 

So what will happen to you once your passions consume you.

Yes, I know loneliness stinks but filling the void with another, you loose the chance of finding the person yoi need.

Opportunity are not always 24/7. Miss opportunities is just that missed.

Crazy and confused.  I keep repeating myself. You just have to be you. Not not what you think I want you to be. It addictive to crying in my arms and confessing to a life not lived well.  Do not live a life your cursed with but live the life you want too.

Can you cook and clean? Funny how many can not or won't. 

There are many offers for bodies to play with and yes I know what I do is addictive. Some people figure that since your an adult that you are adult enough to make that choice.  Being responsible means deal with what happens afterwards.

I warn people about me.  Not because I am brutal but because of the addictive nature of the things I do.

Leading is an addictive to a submissive..

The wonderful thing about scars is that there is a time period where they are sensitive to the touch. Using the echo effect training someone to have an orgasm by rubbing a scare is something fun to do on long winter nights. 

It's a small small world.  I feel eyes burning on my soul laughs. It always fun to run across a person that you had fun with A lifetime ago. Some people, Excuse themselves and run.  Some pretend they have never seen you but stare at you like the last peice of candy in the candy store.

I don't out the people. Life is difficult enough without the whole world being up in your business. Lol

I don't encourage you to be mine, I encourage you to be happy. Stronger than rope or chain.

Of course I am hated laughs. I exposed you to what you are to yourself. You can deny and call me names but you can't run away from truth you really are.

You can't keep my attention by your naked bits. Your truth is more interesting. Your struggles. Your failures and successes are more interesting.  

There a burden in knowing who you really are. I never tangle with angles. I have seen many who have cursed their life to live a life that was thrust upon themselves not the one they have chosen. Freeing a soul to choice a better life is hard but satisfying kink. 

Shave a person?

Wax a person? 

Or pluck the hairs off?

There is a difference.

The artist in me thinks I can create furry art work.

Confusion is the vanilla word for escape. Laughs

There is something within me that loves responsible and to be given  that great amount of trust to lead. 

Of course I will vet you,  why do I want to invest in something fake? Or being used as fantasy fodder? I avoid people who box thier lives cause I know I will tend to want to know every thing about you. This includes all those secrets you are attempting to die with. You are not going to have a fun time being secretive trying desperately to hold on. Letting go is amazing. Become a lock box of secrets is soul crushing. 

Failures happens, what happens next depends on the quality of the people involded.

There is something delicious about intensity. It emotions are on fire. Passion make life worth living.

People always want that person at their feet but many don't realize what it takes to get a person there.

So many souls that I can pick from, what sways my choice?  It the ability to put in effort, the struggle to learn and create understanding. 

The ability to put the relationship before the kink. 

Of course the relationship has to be stronger than normal, if all that is needed is to get along,  that kind of relationship is easy to achieve. If your leading there must be more understanding and trust involded.  Somepeople never get what they want cause they themselves are the limit.

A lot of people are like a Pandora's box. They want to be opened and explored. Before any activities happen, a judgment call has to be made. Can they handle what they will find with in themselves. Things that are capable of doing are extremely addictive. To leave a person alone with a new addiction is cruel and typically causes them to go wanting in dangerous places. 

To become a strong influence in another life, one has to be stronger than the events of thier past. How can you follow if events in your past  drive you in a different direction. This journey I lead in, has a lot of sadness, bitterness and anger.  Some people are never strong enough to completely let go. Letting go isn't the goal. It what happens afterwards which is more important. 

Your tied naked with your legs spread open.  Your waiting for something kinky or sexual to happen.  Unfortunately you ran across someone who not quiet stable. How are you going to explain why your privates look like some demented smurf?  It has eyes that seem to say why am I blue?  Laughs 

Everybody should have access to a sound proof room. 

Emotional expression in a room you feel safe is important. 

The release of anger and pain allow one to move forward expect a lot of cursing and crying. 

Some people are easy to please, I am not one of those.

I get offers of sex and kink all the time. Do you really think those offers are taken seriously?  

Show me you have the time and energy to invest to create a relationship that others will attempt to destroy. Show me your strength to be create understanding.

In order to make something look effortless it take time and effort. If you always take the easy way, you never know what you can achieve.

Are you here for the fun or here cause it cheaper than therapy?  

If I wire you up to a lie detector and ask you dark questions, I bet most will run.  Towards or from is your choice.

Beating a rug clean can make certain people jealous or wet.

What can cut short a bondage session?  Cooking beacon. Too much drool can be choking hazzard.

I am a  insert label.  You are a label?  Labels are the easy lazy way.  It is the brain attempt to create a short cut. 

The problem of replacing a name with a label is that the label is already pre-defined. The name is the perfect match to the person.  It is easy to build a relationship with a name.  If the name changes to the label it is no longer it's true self is different. How does one build a strong relationship with a label?  It so easy to build on something real rather a label.

Don't harrass vanillas, it turns them into wide eye puppy dogs.

Things have value, the harder you work for it, the more value it has.  This includes relationships. 

Not everyone is suitable to deal with a high intensity relationship. When things are going right, it is satisfying and pleasing. 

When things go wrong, it is addictive and destructive,a good therapist is recommended 

I won't compete with your past but I can affect your future.  If you keep popping out of sub space, is it cruel to kick you back in?

If your body still reacts and your mind screams no, do you think you will ever agree to the word. Again? 

If a 30 something ego thinks that I should be grateful, the reaction to the 21 plus is comical.

The 70 something grumbles away but show a much higher degree of submission.

A house full of lesbians, doesn't make me one.

While I have had multiple dommes as a submissive in my life. It doesn't mean I want one to keep. Teaching  a few lessons doesn't equate to wanting one in my life. 

Why do I play the long game? It easy to strike when the iron is hot when the wow effect is there. I play it slow because time has a way of revealing the truth. I know how disruptive my influence can be. I never take on those who are already involded. Why spend the time? I call it bdsm self pleasuring.  Fun but it never goes anywhere.  There are a lot of kinksters who would love to chew up your time, knowing that time and effort isn't going anywhere .

Over stimulation has some odd effaspects on a person.  Some become extremely angry and slashes out any attempts to calm a person down.

Some become these little creatures that just look for sexual play and they will happily play with themselves until they fall asleep.

Some will become snuggle bugs in blankets and soft toys. 

Some will just sit quietly desperately trying to process what they have gone through..

Some will just cry uncontrollable. Some cry happy other cry angry. 

Insert people are like a box of chocolate.. 

Screaming. Crying  pleading  attempts to bargain so many dark secrets, it spews out everything that it is and everything that it wants to be. So much anger and hate spews out. It quiet amazing what is bottled up.  While giving this kind of experience is amazing, it the what happens afterwards that you got to look out for for. Spoiling a mind has it pitfalls

If there is no struggle to be at feet of someone. Does the spot have any value.

If the things in your life are not acquired without struggle, do they really have value? 

If you want the easy way, I am not for you. 

If you know it all, there is no room to grow.  

Nothing public it says.. I laugh..

You running around being kinky and sexual active at work is the normal concern?  Really? Do you think I am stupid to allow negative things happen in your life?  

Why do I want what is mind being disadvantage at work? 

Taking a person back to school to take management course. Getting it a tutor to improve thier skill levels Is more my speed.

There a bit of ground by my feet. To most people it just a nondeive piece of dirt. It has no meaning to them. To the person who put in time and effort into being able to say that is my place under those feet. It has meaning and an extreme value. 

So when a person see a kneeling person at my feet. This doesn't mean that anyone is allowed at my feet. With a sense of value comes a zero tolerance to those who disrespect the spot.  Anger arises and issues start to form. 

If you going to recreate the Marlin Monroe train grate event with wind blowing up a dress.  Having lotions for the private bits is important.  Wind chafing privates should be a part of the scene.  

Why are you walking funny?  Why didn't you tell me during? The answer isn't I was having fun and didn't want to spoil it.  Not an acceptable answer..

I am not for you, if I can not bring out the best in you.  While yes I can degrade you to point where you have zero value. Destruction is easy. Creativity is much harder. 

If I took the easy way and made you submit through sexual or pain techniques. Do I really have you? Or did I just make you addicted to what I can do?

If I can not influence you from any where in the world. I am not for you.

If I can't make you value  that  little patch of ground at my feet, I am not for you.

I am not your fodder for your role playing games..

I always warn those who want to tangle with me.  You would think I would delight in those who want to experience what I got to offer. The stuff I do is addictive.  Eyes wide open. Open handed. Hard path.

If we are successfully in what we do, we leave a positive mark on the souls we touch.

So why don't i have my own dungeon, a gathering of like minded people? Good question. The stuff I do is like an art form. The relationships I build are like gold to me. I tend to amplifier a person's tendency to be who they are. How to dress and how to act become like a dance between the souls.  There is something comforting in know how to behave, how to dress and how to act. When your in a great relationship it is amazing 

So why no gatherings?  Instead of creating one owns thing or own art form people tend to copy. Instead of being inspired and doing things that expand and strengthen the relationship. It becomes a 50 shades of copy cats. So many people want to have a sexual tiger by the tail but don't understand the work involded to get a person there. Even the most broken person  can be absolutely amazing. Even in a wheel chair. 

Nothing more sickening watching others use your skill development with someone amazing and have it reduced to some cheap pick up line. 

Some interactions will leave a impression like a foot print on a sandy desert. Hard to see soon to be forgotten. 

Others will leave a permanent mark even tho you haven't met.

The no test.. red flag..

If you say No and No isn't respected. This isn't one you should be tangling with. 

Shouting your opinions only works if someone listens.

Sorry but if you want to lead in this relationship, that position is already filled already.

Yes, I am more than capable of finding a nice place to eat.

If I am capable to make you walk funny the day after so taking care of food needs is pretty simple.

I have had very large people in my life. While making them drop weight is easy.. it keeping them loyal afterwards which is hard.