I believe in “”The ALL”” and the Mind Fuck. The All is where I take a person through sound, smell, touch, taste, or the absence of the above to where that person needs to go. I also believe in the mind fuck where what a person experience is just the side of safe without causing harm, where the boundaries of reality begin to get fuzzy some people call this endorphins others subspace. I like to think of it as a place that you need to go and I will get you there safely.
I feel that as a Dom my plan is to get you close to the cusp or the edge as I can safely, sanely and consentually. There are more things kinky in the world than should be done. I am not a judgmental person. Different kink for different people I say. But I do have hard limits even as a DOM certain things I feel are too hard to control or the end result is not safe. For example, Breath Play I may hold onto a person’s neck as to give the illusion but as to choke someone to unconscious there is just too much that can go wrong even for a medical practioner. Kids, in some areas in the world it is acceptable, but for me that is a very hard limit.
“”Landmines”” I was with a person that I had scripted a play and at a certain point I had the person bound and spent and I walked out of there line of sight for the bases of the mind fuck and tripped a mental landmine. I did not know and neither did the person know of a regressed memory that put something in play out in horrifying affect. I immediately rushed in and comforted and held that person and slowing walked them out of the landmine area. These things happen whether you call it regression or PTSD or landmines it is something that should be planed for.
As a person in the medical field, I know how the body reacts to certain stimuli and am a great safety net for when things happen. I feel that this me an extra avenue of safety for certain play. Now I do have somethings that excite me that I have no idea as to the why, it just does. I like medical play, you would think that someone who does this on the outside would not want to do this with play. I would never take advantage of a patient or want to lose that public trust held by my position. But there is just something that gets me excited to think of caressing a sub with a lab coat and some latex gloves. What can I say I am a weird person. |