I am looking for a submissive who wants someone to whom they will offer some control over their life. I do not want someone who does not want to think for themself. Despite a power exchange situation, communication is still important, and expressing concerns and issues when they arise is important for any relationship. There will be times that I am wrong. If you can't tell me that, you are not helping, and being an unhelpful submissive is just rude.
I am a graduate student, living in pittsburgh for a few years now. I have had a few relationships which had solid kink elements to them, and they were far more interesting than any vanilla I'd had. I have enough going on that I am not looking for a 24/7 power exchange, I could not do it justice on any number of levels, but I am certainly up for seeing what happens. I enjoy bondage, rope as much as possible to try and avoid the bruising that cuffs can lead to (our private lives will, as much as possible, remain that) with predicament bondage when it can be managed safely, spanking (barehanded primarily, but if you want to be spanked with implements, I'll oblige), humiliation (mainly hidden public activities, remote control items in particular), but I know there are so very many other things to try, and as I prefer happy submissives, I'd indulge your interests as much as I could. I do not want to damage you, or injure you, but pain can be an important part of punishment (or occasionally part of the fun). Limits and tolerances for pain are part of why communication is important.
In normal life, I enjoy parkour, martial arts, and yoga to stay in shape. Reading in spurts (sometimes a book a day, sometimes I just won't be reading anything), good tv shows, and the occasional video game (really anything with an interesting story can suck me in).
I have a car, and am willing to travel to an extent, but if you are over 2 hours away, I'm doubtful. Still, if you're interested, sending an e-mail can't hurt, and we can see where talk takes us.
In simplest terms, I'm looking for a decent girlfriend who is a submissive with some thoroughly kinky characteristics, and interested in a limited power exchange relationship.
