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| I'll start with the conclusion: being kinky is something I do, it is a part of who I am, but it doesn’t encapsulate all of who I am. There's a lot more to me than my interest in "BDSM".
I am looking for more than someone to play with on occasion... someone to develop a relationship with on more than just a sexual level. I am searching for someone who can respect me for who I am, who has respect for themselves, who can enjoy time with me and my friends, who is capable of holding a long term relationship if the time and mutual desire comes, and who shares an interest in the world of kink.
My interest in kink is a very private part of my life and as such, I would be thrilled to meet someone with similar interests, with whom I also share "vanilla" interests, who also can be 'normal' on a day to day basis, someone who I could bring around friends or date and no one would have any idea of our private interests.
I suppose the long-term goal would be to develop a relationship with a woman of fitting the above description. I do have vanilla values about relationships. I believe "vanilla" is the base for all other flavors in this world & no matter how into this you may be, you still need mutual trust, respect, attraction and friendship for anything to work between two people, maybe even more so in this situation.
I am not looking for 24/7 D/s relationship. I do enjoy exchanging power and control during intimate play-time, but I do not have the time or the desire to control every moment of your day. If you expect me to be interested in you, you should be confident, caring, intelligent, and honest.
Again, kink is a small aspect of my life... not my whole life.
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