I am a sub. No doubt about it. I do however have a mind of my own, opinions that matter, ideas I indulge. I love the lifestyle but also have a lot of accomplishments thus far. Currently i am unowned.

I have recently been asked the questions: What is a Dom? What is a sub? What is the nature of a D/s relationship to me?

I've had quite a while to ponder these questions and develop a conclusive answer. One I had not considered before. I'll start with the D/s relationship. The nature of the relationship between a Dom and a Sub consists of a few things in my mind. Honor (both), Loyalty (sub), Respect (both), Understanding (both), Obedience (sub), Gratitude (both), Shared interests, and Sex (obviously). But most of all, and in fact most important, Trust. Without it, the relationship can be as dangerous as base jumping.

My opinion of what a Dom is has changed recently in light of new understandings. I now believe a Dom should be caring, willing, stern, rough, kind, aware of his desires, willingness to take his desires, efficient in receiving what he wants, and treating his sub as something materialistic in his life he values - thus obtaining all the responsibilities that go with any new item.

My opinion of a sub is that she should always be aware of her Dom's needs and desires and willing to try any task at hand, in turn when out of place - corrected appropriately.

Be eager to learn new things and feel safe enough with her Dom to let him know when something has gone too far.

All in all i believe this relationship surpasses love. It is a other worldly, passionate and important lifestyle that contains matters of human frailty and human strength.

I AM UNDER CONSIDERATION.