For those of you who need labels for everything: I am a Dominant, a Master, a DaddyDom, a Top, a Sadist, a Fetishist. I choose the title of "Dom", since these are, and I am, dominant personalities. I am quite skilled in that capacity.
Personality-wise, I'm fairly WYSIWYG. However, please don't let my relaxed nature lull you into a false sense of security. I promise that you would be very hard-pressed to find a more sadistic Dom than myself. I like ropes and electricity and things that go FWAP. I also am a healer and have a great deal more knowledge of the human body than the average bear; to know how to hurt is to know how to heal.
I do have a submissive 24/7 D/s partner. No, she will not submit to anyone but me. If and when we play with others, she will either co-sub, or she will co-dom as part of her service to me. I've given up trying to explain our dynamic to others; apparently it's too complicated... apparently it's not black and white enough to be programmed, categorized or easily referenced.
Since I'm getting back into the swing of things (pun intended), it might be nice for me/us to find a submissive "friend with benefits", at least for now. Bi females are preferred, of course, somewhere in the general Ellsworth area. She and I will play separately from time to time, and she will also play with my submissive and I from time to time. If you're interested, please inquire within.