|
|
|
|
A bit about me:
I do not need the interests and labels on this site, but I use them to tell others a little about me in order to gather others with similar interests around me.
I don't particularly care what the label is, because it is just a clumsy outline of me that I use to help someone feel comfortable enough to talk to me and figure out the rest for themselves.
It is impossible to know someone from a handful of paragraphs, regardless of skill in arranging words; so I invite you to peruse what I have written here, the kinks I have selected (and not selected) and decide for yourself if I am interesting enough to contact.
I have met my share in person. Some did not meet my criteria, others I did not meet theirs...but the majority connected and we are friends today and still keep in touch, if not something more once in a while when it works out.
I am open-minded, easy to talk to...someone to reveal your innermost desires. I will listen, respect, and never judge...regardless of my limits or taste. I have enormous self-control and am about as honest, sane and stable a person as you will meet.
If you are only looking for a beating, look elsewhere. For me, BDSM is very sexual...I do not separate them.
There is so much to BDSM; a never ending supply of experiences and new areas to explore. Regardless of what I have seen or done, I am ever thirsty for more. In my professional or personal life, I never stop learning and BDSM is no exception.
I am married to vanilla and will not be changing that in the foreseeable future. She has no interest in this lifestyle and knows she is not capable of fulfilling this side of me. I am only looking for no-strings-attached BDSM relationships...short or long term. I make the perfect play partner for those in-between partners, or those just starting out.
Being able to enjoy many aspects of BDSM, I am able to adjust my style to fit the scene or the person I am with.
I am a member of Albany Power Exchange, a local non-profit BDSM group.
My ideal person:
To start, just by being here, your sexuality is very intoxicating.
Absolute Requirements in no particular order
• You must be intelligent.
• You must be attractive. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder; I am not looking for a model, but you need to have curves in the right places.
• You must be clean.
• You must be disease free.
• You must be able to articulate your desires, needs, wants.
• You must not use drugs or be on drugs while we are together
• You must be discreet
Desired Attributes:
1. Lacking in drama, baggage, and general ridiculousness
2. Prefer a sense of humor...dry, witty, or otherwise.
3. Deep desire to submit, serve, and please.
4. Open-minded and curious of most aspects of BDSM
If you are still reading this, meet the requirements I have outlined above, and have aching needs that need attention, reach out to me so we can start the process of getting to know more about each other.
Mr. J
|
|
|
|
