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Update: To quell confusion, I must add, I am searching for an eventual monogamous relationship with a Domme or Switch Lady. It's ok if you like to play with girls too(typical ehh) I'm a very rational minded person, and understand that things do not happen instantly. Dominance is signified by many different things. Patience is one of the greatest virtues a dominant person can wield in my eyes.
Sometimes I feel like a walking contradiction because, I enjoy freedom so much it's hard to relinquish control to just anyone. Trust is paramount in any relationship, and I feel acceptance is a huge part of friendship, and understanding. I'm getting closer and closer to thinking that I'm just kinky, with a submissive side towards certain dominant types. I get tired of all the boxes, and semantics, and stereotypes that people are supposed to fit into. I understand if you identify as a certain type. One thing that irks me about pop culture, is "the game" or "player". This automatically assumes there is a loser, or someone got played. I like to see it more like a dance. Both stay in rhythm together, try not to step on each others shoes to much. If the chemistry doesn't match, then gracefully(as possible) bring the song to a close, until another one. The thing that attracts me most to this lifestyle is, the color, sounds, and intensity of passion that can arise, when playful minds get entangled.
4/29/2012 11:25:48 PM
I am currently dating, and spending time with an Amazing woman, I am just here to chat and learn more kinky things.
6/21/2010 6:24:43 PM

Inhale,Soft arms like velvet rope. Enveloped by benevolence, balanced by intelligence, with always a slight glimmer of hope.

Velvet rope around soft arms, could we ever forget the endless charms? Symbols meekly describe how our minds just simply, imbibe. The spirits, the highs, and vibrational sighs.

Wrapped in entropy, so carefully cottle'd, like a genie in a bottle. The mountainous eruptions, amidst ego disruptions. Replaced by rhythm and time, and shock as timbres swell, and the involuntary notes climb.

The slippery slope, a symphony of sublime, devoid of true meter, and time. Unfolding with a cadence nearly impossible to design.

5/13/2010 11:54:12 PM
Every moment i can, I try to breathe in wonder, and awe. Where intelligence is not nearly as interesting as the mystery. Every blink of my eye I wish to breathe out the excess, the emotional greed, and underlying insecurity that might haunt us all, if even just a little. I breathe in the love, and the faces of those that i hold dearest, because they do the same, and I wish for them to know they help create my world, and I could not breathe easy with out. I let go of the mundane, the disease and mental blocks that keep my mind from being free, even in chains if the need be. I breathe in the innocence that wraps around us all, no matter how grueling the situation may seem. I breathe out any thoughts that I might be better than someone else, and breathe in knowing that I am capable to be just as decent  as anyone else. I breathe out to remind me that there is a world out there that depends on me breathing in, and sharing my breathe, but not too much… I don’t want to fog up the windows.
5/12/2010 2:29:41 AM
There are a myriad of fetishes that i am susceptible too, that are not listed. By fetish I mean sympathetic magic. One is giggles. It may sound silly, but giggles make me melt like cheese... I have a raging foot fetish as well, and love boots, but not as much as clean toes. ;) but there is nothing like the spot between a woman's boobs,  with an open chest... I could nuzzle there infinitely.. The biggest fetish of all is seeing a smile. It can be a mischievous grin, a big blissful smile, or even a small smirk, I like em all.
5/5/2010 11:13:46 AM
Love does not dominate; it cultivates.
Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
4/8/2010 3:36:06 PM
Manifesto Presto. 


I want to be where lust and love converge
where fantasy and reality merge
where yin and yang frolic in an primary moonwalk of fire
bound by need and desire
society has no bounds
for those who live from with-in out
minds hard to define
but when done there is no doubt
to be expertly extrapolating exploration
through what is usual perceived through negative connotation
until the the glove fits
and sharpens my wits
to cut away limbs of decay and disease
never forget to say please
if it will truly appease
hope that i might find half the fortune I've witnessed
and twice the gusto to suspend apprehension
I'm through wishing
on to fruition
3/3/2010 9:42:35 PM
“Humanity has advanced, when it has advanced, not because it has been sober, responsible, and cautious, but because it has been playful, rebellious, and immature.”

Tom Robbins
2/27/2010 9:23:02 AM
get a grip, take a tip from me, mean what you say always. It'll save you the rest of your life, and who knows what else?

You may find yourself in a mired spider web, if you, don't be true. To whatever you do.

You can be in a hustle, or a bustle, but don't lose your pace, it's not always a race.

You can walk a fine line, or one, so hard to define, but don't lose your grace, it's not always a place, but sometimes a face..

or leather and lace.
Yours2Worship
 
 Age: 31
 Harrisburg, Pennsylvania