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| Ok so I have two reasons for being here, two things I'm looking for that, other than both having their roots in kink, are worlds apart.
Firstly I'm looking for someone that has a life and mind of their own and still has room for some kink. Someone that even as a sub or slave I can respect and whose company I can enjoy. Seems to me thats the fun, that during play (and yes this is play for me, the icing on the cake, I make no apologies for that)...that during play you get your kicks putting your opinions and feelings and desires to one side for my pleasure. Without that life and mind of your own I'm dominating an empty shell, and where's the kick in that? And how can I push your boundaries or reward good behaviour if you don't have a mind for me to get inside? For that reason this side of my kink is more interested in spending time getting to know someone who's strong enough to have serious sub or slave tendencies and yet still have a life of their own.
The other side of my kink is almost the polar opposite of that, it's selfish, superficial, utterly abusive and seemingly likely to cause offense to many of the people its aimed at. I make no apologies for this either, there's no accounting for kink and if you're still reading you were warned.
For a while now I've been searching for something quite specific from younger subs interested in slightly older guys. I occasionally feel the need to look for a treat for myself. It takes the form of a hot young thing who would enjoy being used and abused on an entirely one off or very occasional basis (I'm talking over the course of a long weekend up to one week). I'm happy to spend time getting to know someone for the obvious personal safety and security reasons but this is definitely not about the respect/relationship stuff I talk about above. This is as I say a special treat to myself, and the need for it comes and goes. It's entirely about the filth factor, and humiliation and degradation. Think cheeks constantly streaked with gag tears while being used, left naked, bound, blindfolded and plugged on the bare concrete floor of the cellar when not, sleeping on the floor at the end of the bed etc. I'm sure there would be the odd tender moment, but on the whole it would be hard use. At the end of all this when I'm truly finished using you you would be cruelly dismissed without mercy. I may be interested in further contact if you have been particularly impressive, but as I say any further play would be very occasional at best. The key word here really is used. Not much to ask of a total stranger eh?
I also freely admit that when I'm particularly feeling the urge to find the second part of my kink a lot of younger subs and slave girls will receive a message that is basically a cut and paste version of the second part of my profile. It's important to me that this is achieved through good old honesty and plain speaking, it could easily be achieved through falsehoods or coercion, the right person will prefer the cards laid on the table this way, and there's only so many ways you can ask a question as plain as that.
So there you go folks, clear as mud? Respectful, abusive, longterm, something for the weekend...
How does it leave you? Curious, angered, hot, cold?
Feel free to let me know either way, whatever it is you're going to get an answer.
ICO
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