I was a dog, but because I was really good, they moved me up to human being status. - Booga (Tank Girl)

Im Benji.
Vanilla basics
- Student (environmentalanimal science)
- Mediocre musician
- Spent most of my 20s either travelling or saving money to travel
- Probably never growing out of my altpunk phase
- Bleedin heart lefty

Kinksexuality
Im a bisexual, ethically non-monogamous (but open to monogamy) submissive, I swing from bratty to obedient depending on who Im with and the vibe of the scene.
Gender...is just a social construct, and I have no idea what I am. Genderqueer, non-binary, someone whose definitely feels more Fem than masc. Im still working it all out. Theyhe pronouns, I guess.
Trust, communication, aftercare, respect and consent are non-negotiables.
I dont think BDSM has to include sex.
Interests change and evolve, and there have always been a lot of them - puppy play, humiliation (something I have also felt the need to push to extremes) and watersports are a few favourites. There isnt much Im not open to trying with the right person.
Currently have a growing curiosity about chastity, edgetaboo play and cuckold.
The fetish list below is a bit more of a window into things.

Looking forlife
I guess above all Id love to find a partner, a lover, a Dom, ongoing play partners friends...someone who I can relate to both in and out of kink - a boy can, and will, dream of being collared.
Id love to try and become part of the scene, living in and out of Brisbane for the last couple of years has made that tricky (as does time around my current work and upcoming study).
I dream of living in the forest with friends, lovers and animals.

Not - non-binary. Not a cis guy.