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| Welcome to the House of Robert Filmer.
Female required as trophy/doll/project. Ownership, control and personal development/training. Enquire within. See journal entries for further details.
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Update January 2024:
Moved to new home in South East London. Still seeking. |
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I bought a house by the beach in December. The weather today on the beach was finally truly 'Spring' like, almost a summer vibe, and the house is flooded with sun. There were even a few surfers out. I am looking forward to getting the wetsuit on soon, and getting back in the waves. |
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My kink aesthetic in brief: classy but depraved.
My play tastes include: breath play, the belt, water play, spanking, restraints, blindfolds and collars, corsets, high heels, denial, anal, discipline (especially of the hands and feet), breast-play. More generally, I love to take it slowly, and to work with atmosphere and the mood of the moment. In my experience, the d/s dynamic is 80/90% a mental game, a process, not a label.
I am somewhat sadistic, but I am NOT into the very extreme 'brutalist' (nails through the tits, etc) end of the spectrum. Very rough 'play', graduated pain and so forth are a different matter.
I have a strong preference for lean, slim and well presented body types, but no set
preferences in terms of height, age, nationality, etc. I have enjoyed intimacies with a broad range of women, and have significant experience as a 'bull'.
I have a slim, lean, toned body, a classic swimmer's physique. I take a lot of exercise, and always have done. I lift weights, row, run and body surf.
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I have arranged my life and finances so that I no longer 'work' for a living. I have significant 'net wealth', and an income to go with it. No debts, no dependents. I have the time and resources to travel, write, enjoy life. |
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Interaction:
I am happy to talk via email here, or on protonmail. But this profile is ONLY a means to the ends outlined. I will want to move reasonably quickly to phone, and then to discussion about a meetup if the online 'vibe' is encouraging. As we know, online is rather one dimensional and low bandwidth, and it is ONLY when we get to the meet in person stage that anyone can tell if the dynamic passes the 'chemistry test'.
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"Wanting a guy to do all the work during sex isn't being dominated, and doesn't mean you like BDSM - it just means you're lazy and boring in bed".
Ms Carter Cruise, on Twitter, 30 January 2017.
File under: Pillow Princess. |
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'She wanted a storm to match her rage" (George R R Martin, A Feast of Crows) |
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Another quote:
" Darling, I am not worried about impressing you; I am worried about YOU impressing me." |
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I am very fond of that JL Godard phrase " if it's all in the story outline, why make the movie ?"
Talk about limits and stuff ? Of course, always.
But online chat/fapping about your bucket-list of 'do me' desirables ? No thank you. |
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A little more about me. I come from a services (Navy) background on both sides of the family. So it's not suprising Im into order, discipline, service. But this is mixed with a history of music making and the arts. So I draw on both - rules and improv. Im very verbal, old school, and articulate. |
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A few more keywords about me & my tastes: classy but depraved; elegant but perverse. I'm rather sadistic, but I am also a gynophile. That said, objectification and 'misogynistic' play ? Yes please. In general terms I 'get off' on control and the power dynamics in d/s. |
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A household in the tradition of Robert Filmer, first modern patriarchal thinker. House ethos: ownership and control, structure, stability, security. D/s training & development. |
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Modern Romance:
X: Give Me A Blow-job ! Y: Could You Be A Little More Romantic ? X: Give Me Blow-job In The Rain |
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