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Looking to make friends, network, and find models. Also looking for play-mates for non-committed play but not ruling out longer term relationships. I am a fan of science fiction, fantasy, horror, and comedy. I have publish a few short stories and did the cover art for a sf anthology book. Besides writing, my favorite artistic hobbies include photography, sketching, painting, and computer graphics.


I have to admit that I am not sure where I fit into the D/S picture. My relationships have been with with fairly regular girlfriends who indulged my interests. It is likely that I am between worlds here being too kinky for regular woman, but perhaps not 24/7 enough for hardcore D/S submissives. I am also not the financially well off "daddy" that some are looking for. With that said, I am still hoping to find some friends, play partners, and maybe some steady companionship. My strength is more in the visual and physical aspects of fetish. I certainly do some role play, but I do not generally like bossing others around. So if you want to network, chat, make friends, play some, model or need some pictures for yourself, then drop me a message.

I seem to be one of those people caught between worlds. All of my relationships so far have been been with open-minded, BDSM-curious, but inexperienced partners. The relationships were good and I enjoyed them greatly, but there always the sense that I was too kinky for them. Complaints would usually come up that we did too much BDSM play. All my partners seemed to have found other more main-stream people, that worked better jobs, and were not as kinky, if at all. I'm not sure which was the more important to them. So, I think that maybe I should seek out a pre-kinked partner. But after reading stories and profiles, I don't think I am interested in the 24/7 master/slave lifestyle that many are looking for. I do love to play, but for me it is a form of adult play. Once playtime is over I don't want to boss anyone around. They are my equal. Thus I worry I may not be kinky enough for partners seeking relationships on these kinds of meet-up sites. Sadly I am in a rural area where it is difficult to meet up with enough people in person to find that chance ideal match.. Thus it seems that I drift between worlds not quite fitting into any of them.