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Im a BBW goddess just beginning to embrace my inner bossiness. Im kind, compassionate, intelligent, and have a great sense of humor. Im seeking arelationship in which I will make the rules andmy guywill follow them because that is yourhis nature. I dont expect you to pay my bills. (But, hey, if you really want to......LOL ) Im interested in leading the relationship, making the rules. If all you care to know of me is how Im going to fulfill your kink then we are probably not going to be a good fit. Showing interest in me as aWOMAN first rather than how I will discipline you will be a plus for you! If you dont understand that last statement, you should probably drive on. Since there seems to be confusion about this particular point, I wanted to add a littleclarification. As a dominant woman, I do have expectations of a man who contacts me here. I expect an initial email that tells mewhat attracted you to my profile (besides the fact you think Im pretty, thats sweet of you to say, but Im so much more than just a pretty face), why you think we would be a good fit, something about yourselfas a person(vanilla interests, i.e.books, music, food, etc) andpreferably some questions that you have about me AS A WOMAN not as a Domme! Oh, and how about your name? Im amazed at the number of emails I receive here that dont even give me that simple, basic piece of ination.Imagine you saw me in a bar and wanted to get to know me. Would you immediately be asking me questions of a sexualnature?(If so, youre absolutelyNOT someone Id be interested in anyway!) Or would we be discussing music, food, travel,our life histories? This is what I mean when I talk about finding out about each other on a personal level. If I dontlike you as a person, theres no way in hell were going to be discussing anything sexual!In addition, I expect this to progress along very vanilla lines. Emails lead to instant messaging. Instant messaging leads to phone calls(so if youre not in a situation to share your number within a couple of days if youre local and within a few days if farther away, please dont waste my time or yours).Phone calls should then be on a fairly regular basis (if there is a mutual interest)and I will expect youto do most of the calling, at least in the beginning, otherwise how will I know if you are truly interested in me? In my experience, when a man is truly interested, he is doing the contacting.And when you say you will call, Iexpect you to call. Even if its just to say you dont have time to talk right now. I consider that common courtesy. A female led relationship is a new idea for me so Im still fleshing out what appeals to me. Im not seeking hardcore bdsm. A couple of things that do interest me are orgasm control and tease denial. I do seek a man, not a sissy (its just not my thing), who is also seeking an LTRthat will befemale led. I have no interest in cuckolding since I am looking for a committed, monogamous relationship. I wouldnt rule out spanking for discipline but its something I would have to grow into and I dont want it to be the focus. I am seeking aservice oriented submissive. One who is naturally uxorious (I LOVE that word!) If you love to serveyour ladyby pamperingwith long footrubs, massages, and are very oral wemay be a very good fit. But for me the RELATIONSHIP will always be the focus, NOT THE KINK.Thus the termfemale ledrelationship! Drive by (one liner) emails will be ignored or at most receive a smartass reply. I took a lot of time and thought to compose this profile because finding the right man is important to me. Please show me the same consideration. A little about me I love the beach, animals, reading, music (from the Beatles to Maroon Five, Linda Ronstadt to P!nk, Jason Mraz to Joshua Bell) and travel. Ive lived in many different places, including three years in Germany. Ive recently been to my first local BDSM events and look forward to exploring my interests in that regard. Thanks for taking the time to read my profile and I look forward to hearing from you if you think we may be a good fit. If you are married, Im not interested. Please dont wastemy time. Vee
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Oh my fucking god! I actually just had a user here tell me he had reported me to MY local authorities for 'suspicious' activities. All because I had the unmitigated gall to ask him to tell me something about himself and what he was looking for BEFORE I agreed to call him. There are some seriously messed up people on this site. Don't get me wrong, I don't have any worry that the police are going to come knocking on my door and arrest, it is just that someone is that messed up to even threaten that. What a total douche! lol
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I may come across as hard to get, but that’s because I’ve been through a few things, seen a few things, been there and done that. You told me that you’re different, but I won’t believe you until you prove it. Words don’t mean a thing, actions are everything. |
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I am selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes…I am out of control…and at times, hard to handle. But if you can’t handle me at my worst, then you sure as heck don’t deserve me at my best. ~ Marilyn Monroe |
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The stars are always there, even in the daylight. Sometimes we just can't see them.
~Marian Keyes
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She was like the moon. Part of her was always hidden away.
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I love this quote. So true.
"We are all a little weird and life's a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love." ~ Theodor Geisel (Dr. Seuss)
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HOW TO TREAT A WOMAN: Wine her. Dine her. Call her. Hold her. Surprise her. Compliment her. Smile at her. Listen to her. Laugh with her. Cry with her. Romance her. Dream with her. Encourage her. Believe in her. Cuddle with her. Pick her flowers. Hold her hand. Write love letters to her. Tell her jokes.
HOW TO TREAT A MAN: Show up naked. Bring a belt.
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| Age: 27 |
| Orange County,
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