Been here about 3 months and we can not believe that there are so many people here some like us check activity very often and yet other then reading profiles none seem to want to have an honest simple conversation on any topic. I know that most ladies here are sick and tired of lame approaches and rude introductions and  pictures of naked people ( not a bad thing ) but doesn't anyone want to have a plain old fashion conversation ? with out pressure for anything except intelligent chat.

It's becoming very apparent that there are alot of shall we say " not honest" types here, which in turn has caused a wide "jaded and skeptical" attitude among folks here. All we can say is here on this site words are safe and can only hurt those that rush into things without using sound judgment. So this being said dont be shy reach out to a possible interest but do not rush, take the time to learn who your talking to, dont get caught up in the eye candy and erotic profile is about trust and honesty and this takes time.