I just received what I will loosely describe as an "interesting" message. The sender, who claims to be a female dominant, states in her profile that one of the reasons she are here is for conversation. Her message, the content of which I will not post here, expressed her apparent contempt for me or perhaps for something I have in my profile or elsewhere.

However, I am writing about this for another reason. She is blocking messages from me! That is very courageous of her, isn't it?

Assuming that I did not act rashly and send a snarky reply and, instead, asked her to please explain what she was reacting to that was so awful that it prompted her to send me her message. As has happened in the past, even the most careful of proofreading is not free of mistakes. Perhaps she saw a typographical error that I have missed or she may be misreading what is there. Either way, I have little or no way to find out since she has blocked me from contacting her.

If I were a submissive and I learned this about a woman that I was interested in being my dominant, I think I would begin to doubt if I wanted to pursue a serious relationship with her.

Barring any new evidence and/or communications from this person, I will just chalk it up to experience and move on.

This is reposted with their permission from crucifiedslaves profile journal here on collarme. It is one of the best descriptions of slavery and slave ownership I have read. I would be hard-pressed to write anything better.

What Slavery Means To Us . . .

In the final analysis, slave ownership is a selfish and one-sided institution that exists solely and exclusively for superior beings to exploit inferior creatures for their own personal sake and benefit.  People here at Collar Me who say they want to be slave owners, but who talk about wanting a friendship and sharing a relationship with their slaves, just aren't taking that institution seriously and only want to play at owning slaves rather than living the lives of real slave owners.  Slaves aren't friends, companions, or lovers.  Slaves are inferior life forms, naked animals, beasts of burden, and pieces of livestock in human form that serve, function, and perform in whatever manner is required so that their owners can enjoy an enhanced and more comfortable lifestyle at the creature's expense.  Real and true slave ownership becomes life's greatest luxury only when the slave owner adopt the attitude that they've taken a slave creature into their home so that they can literally take total possession of a human body and make use of it in any ways that suit their needs, satisfy their desires, and serve their purposes.  THAT is what REAL slavery and REAL slave owership is all about.

When people take the two of us into their homes as slaves we don't expect them to care in the least about our thoughts and feelings.  Our minds shouldn't matter to them at all.  We're there because those people want our bodies and for no other reason.  We're there becase those people want bodies to do their hard labor for them, so they can sit back in leisurely comfort and enjoy their free time while the two of us sweat and toil on their behalf.  We're there because those people want bodies they can impose their immoral, indecent, and perverted sexual urges on without having to ask if it's alright beforehand, and without having to offer any appologies afterwards for the vile and obscene things they imposed on our naked flesh and exposed body parts.  We're there because those people want bodies they can humiliate, debase, torment, and torture for no reason at all except the personal satisfaction they get out of venting their cruel and sadistic urges on a living creature, the personal gratification they get out of exercising power and authority over something alive, and the personal enjoyment they get out of making us suffer simply because they feel like doing it.  Labor, sex, and torture are the only three reasons for wanting to own a slave, and the only three reasons for bringing a slave creature into your home is so you can have in your possession a body that can do that work, provide that sex, and endure those tortures.  THAT is the harsh reality of slavery and the two of us understand this and accept it as the reality that has to be faced when we give ourselves to people as slaves.

Lets face it, you can't really be friends with someone who has forced you to scrub their toilet with your bare hands, beaten you to welts with a whip, or made you stick your tongue up their buttholes.  You can't sit down with some for a friendly drink and idle conversation about politics or religion after that person has spent all day fisting your ass, spitting in your face, and dragging you around at the end of a leash like a whipped dog.  When people step on you and grind you into the dirt under the heels of their boots you fear them, you respect their authority, you come to accept the fact that you're their inferior, and you simply can't relate to them any longer as an equal.  Slavery, by its very nature, forces a huge seperation in status, stature, worth, and value between slave owners and the creatures they dominate.  Once you've licked someones feet, and showered in their piss, you just can't relate to that person as an equal ever again.  Once a person is dominated by another they can never again view that person from anything other than a subordinate position.  My husband and I realize that and we find it hard to understand how people here at Collar Me think that when the chains come off, and our clothes go back on, that everything can revert back to how it was before we started.  It can't and it shouldn't.

So, we are seeking people who are REAL and SERIOUS slave owners.  We are seeking people who want us ONLY for our bodies and who don't give a damned about our minds.  We're seeking people who want us for THEIR purposes and who give us orders not choices.  We're seeking people who know that once they've had us we'll never be able to relate to them as anything but slaves ever again and people who want it just thata very way.  If you are serious about slave ownership then we would like very much to get to know you better and we hope you'll contact us.

Alli

You may be deeply submissive. You may be quite masochistic. However, if you do not see your desired or sought-for relationship as Alli has described above, then you probably should not describe yourself as a slave.

Here is another tidbit from Alli:

"Mercy is the refuge of the weak, and pity the crutch of the insecure."

Two important qualities a slave must have:

1. The slave must be able to listen intently.
2. The slave must obey completely once she has become her Master's slave.