I am interested in control.. taking it, or giving it up. I've been successful at most things I've set out to do, so I have always assumed I'm dominate by nature. But lately, I have been seduced by the idea of surrendering control to someone else, in the bedroom and maybe outside it, too. I just logged into this site to learn more about myself. I'm not sure what fantasy I long for more- a sexy submissive woman I can dominate as well as cherish, or bending over for a hard man to make me his own... What to help me find out who I am?