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| Hi,
I am about to move into the Manchester and Liverpool area from the frozen north of Scotland and I am looking for a play partner with the intention of it becoming something more.
Firstly I want a play partner that is compatible with me on a social and personal level. I want someone who I can chat to and someone that I enjoy spending my time with. Because of the dynamics of this sort arrangement I consider it to be up the upmost importance.
In terms of me, I am a sporty individual who has been involved in sports for a very large portion of my life, I also enjoy spending time outside, I am also an animal lover (if you have a dog I may spend an inordinate amount of time making a fuss over it). I enjoy books, I am forcing myself back into the habit but I enjoy the old Sherlock Holmes short stories or the Game of Thrones series (original I know). I also enjoy a good quiz and an open debate, I am not afraid to have a point of view put to me and give someone the chance to change my mind. I am also into my films, and will wax lyrically about some of the films that I have watched and am more than happy to be given recommendations, there is no such thing as a watchlist that is too long. Music is also a big part of my life, I used to play the bass guitar (insert crude and probably unfunny joke about finger skills.)
Now onto the serious issue of why this post is up, I don’t really fit into a single box and I am not a huge fan of labels but here goes, I would probably describe myself as a dom/rope top/slight sadist. In terms of impact play I actually enjoy most ends of the spectrum, a lightish flogging to a really heavy canning, for me it is more about the reactions of the sub. I enjoy what I am doing but seeing the results of ones actions.
I also like rope, in fact I like rope a lot. I am coming along as a rigger and really enjoying my journey. I am slightly unsure how to describe my style of rope, I would say that when I am enjoying myself I get lost in the rope and it does become quite an intermit tie. However one of the most important aspects of my rigging is the level of intimacy that you can get from rope, if the connections there. I am also slightly sadistic in the way that I run my rope, the occasional quickly run rope and take down stuff keep me on my toes and put simply I just really bloody like it.
The next big aspect of my kink is chastity, specifically chastity belts and chastity devices. The idea being out and about with a women in a nice 50’s dress who is also wearing a chastity belt is something that I think is really fucking cool. This leads me into my next big kink, degradation and humiliation. I mean what if someone finds out about the chastity belt under your dress. I also like the idea of diaper humiliation however that is more flexible. I am not into age play or littles, if you are great but it’s not my kink. The orgasm denial is something that I would like to explore further, for instance a vibrator concealed on my subs person (I think we all know where) and I have the remote. That is something that I think could be an interesting, especially if you are the one ordering the coffee.
Restrictive clothing like hobble skirts are also a bit turn on for me, along with anything that restricts the submissive movement. I also enjoy pallet wrap for a similar reason.
Well that is enough about me, now what do I look for in a partner. Someone outgoing and into actually being outdoors and being sport is a plus. Ideally you would have some level of independence, I am not someone who becomes insular when you in a couple, I believe that just because you are in a relationship you should not stop having your own interests. The age bracket I am looking at is actually fairly open, just no more than 10 years older than myself is probably my maximum and I am not interested in anyone younger than 20. I am looking for someone who is relatively local but locations is still slightly up in the air.
Importantly I am would like to give anyone I play with references. Both personal and people that I have played with (though that is not a huge list). I will also like anyone who I play with to give me references. If you are new to the scene that is ok, but if you have been around for a while then I would like to have at least one reference, either personal or a former player who is on the scene.
If you have got this far, firstly well done, give yourself a biscuit, secondly if you think this applies to you then message me.
Fridaybass
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