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I'm new to the the area from the west coast and thought I'd check out what the city has to offer in terms of the BDSM scene.
My personal interest is mainly in dominance/submission, power exchange, and minimal bondage and/or pain. I'm not interested in anything involving scat, urine, anything illegal, extreme pain, leaving marks that are either physical or emotional. This is about exploration and having fun on the edge; I'm not inerested in falling off that edge.
That being said, most of my experience has been in leading younger men, so that is where my comfort level is, for now. I think it allows for a natural D/s situation just by virtue of the age difference. Down the road, that may very well change for me, but at this point, it is what I am interested in exploring again. I am not interested in a strictly sexual relationship, but that obviously would be a part of the whole package. Nor am I interested in a one time encounter, there are providers out there for that sort of thing. Also, I am not interested in finding multiple situations, just one great situation with the right chemistry.
For me, this is about the mind connection between two intelligent people who gain excitement from having their limits pushed outside of the societal norms. I am not interested in ordering you around 24/7 because you can't think for yourself or babysitting you because you don't have the maturity to act like an adult. While playing online can be fun from time to time, it is not ultimately fulfilling for me, and not what I am looking for.
I hope the above gives you some insight into what I am seeking here, and if not feel free to ask questions.
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