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Let's start with the most obvious : I want to meet interesting people, and i'm absolutely not interested in either a professional / customer relation, nor a quick fuck.
Of course this website is about BDSM, but it's a very small part of my life. In a relationship, I spend much more time kissing and having vanilla sex than in BDSM situations, although my state of mind is clearly submissive. I suppose this would change if I met a dominant Woman.
I am interested in most subjects from History to Science and Arts (my posts on collarchat can give you an idea). I like dancing, and travelling, and I'm not a bad cook. Although I don't do much sports (a bit of skiing, hiking and swimming), I am quite fit. Concerning my physical appearance, I can send a picture.
NOW, concerning BDSM...I believe in Female Superiority. I was already convinced of Female Superiority when I was a teenager. I have little experience as a sub (or as a slave during some role plays... always with a girlfriend, not a pro !), but enough to be sure that my nature is submissive.
I feel comfortable and happy with a Woman who can take control of the situation, be dominant during sex, and use me for her comfort and pleasure. This ranges from having me massage Her from head to feet, and bathe Her, to using me as Her footstool (and do the cleaning etc., of course).
However I do have limits, which could be gently pushed.
My experience in being dominated is limited to being bondaged, handcuffed, blindfolded, gagged, objectified, held on a leash and spanked (with life partners, not professionals...), as well as worshipping feet, and massaging, and making my Mistress' life more comfortable in general, which is what a sub should think about in priority imho (I consider cunnilingus as a part of standard sex, not as an act of submission !). Feeling that my Mistress is in control and happy about it is a great privilege. And bringing my Mistress to pleasure is a pride and pleasure.
My only experiences as a submissive have been with novices who were slightly inclined to domination, and it has always been a good experience for both sides.
When it comes to sex, I have always thought about my partner's pleasure first anyway...after all the guy always gets his...
i am appealed by the idea of being dominated by two or more Women, but of course this does not depend on me.
i have topped a few times, but i was less comfortable in that situation. i guess i could learn, depending on my partner's wish.
If you think you might be interested in knowing me, either just for chatting or for dominating me (i don't think online stuff would interest me much...), drop me a line ! ... well, more than one line please.
Thank you for reading.
Best wishes.
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I'm a bit disappointed. Of course I didn't send many messages, so I can't expect to receive too many answers, but there's no point sending messages to people I don't really want to know, or living on the wrong continent.
Oh well, the real world is still out there. A bit dull for the next couple of months, but at least in the real world I don't have to worry about the woman talking to me being a man, for example.
So I guess my next partner will be totally vanilla. And that we'll talk, and fulfill some fantasies... It worked in the past.
In the meantime, I'd be glad to hear about people who want to know me, but I'll mainly use this website for its forum.
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i just reformulated my profile, again. It's not such a simple exercise, to define oneself without being misunderstood (i had no idea what was the difference between what was meant by the words "sub" and "slave" when i got here ... !!!), nor forgetting important things. For example i forgot again to mention i can dance, and cook, fairly well. And for most Women, that's probably more important than knowing whether or not i fantasize about or have lived such or such particular D/s situation. It's all about meeting a new person after all, and things should happen differently.
Oh well, if you want to know more about me, you're very welcome to send me a message !
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