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| I am looking for a dom/sub relationship. But I doubt I'll find it in the next year... unless lightening strikes. I suppose you never know. Otherwise, I'm just looking to meet people, say "hi"... see if anyone interests me. I am 30, female, fit as a fiddle. no kids yet. I see a lot of doms here who seem nice but aren't so fit... I'm not attracted to that so much. (I don't need a low body fat percentage, but you need to have a certain "toughness" to you. You can't be a computer-nerd who can't lift a 10 lb dumbell but is a warrior "in his mind." That's fine... for someone else, not me.) I have a full-time career as a professional so I'm not looking to give it all up and be a full-time slave. You can always ask, but unless you'll be putting 100K into my private account each year, I will likely say 'no.' I still might say "no" even if you did. I actually like going to work everyday. I also see people here who are genuinely crazy/warped. People who have become so one-dimensional about the lifestyle that they see everything through a prism of BDSM. That person is not my dom. I have a normal perspective day-to-day. I would like to find someone who is my equal in everything on paper. Equal education, equal professional, equal strength of will. But I choose to submit to. Someone who can get me to submit and be his only. As far as the "lifestyle" goes. I am a highly sexual woman who completely enjoys pleasing a man, giving oral sex. It is hard for me to let go and "receive pleasure" because a lot of time it is hard to believe a man enjoys giving me pleasure. However, I have had occassion to know in my bones a man is enjoying giving me pleasure and I feel comfortable to just "enjoy it." Maybe that's why I get so wet when a man is tying me up or taking me or ordering me around. I know for a fact he is being pleased by my actions and that makes me ultimately happy. One caveat. I hate breast bondage. I have really super big breasts and I can see where doms would just want to purple-ify them. No way. Hard limit for me. I can't stand the thought of harming them by stretching them. Not that it would hurt, but i'm very consious of my age. When you have big breasts gravity is enough of an enemy, i don't need ropes or zipties helping them out. Stay away if you can't deal with that. (I don't mind slapping or whipping, wax or seeing red stripes/welts.... it's a mental thing with anything that could stretch them out that freaks me out. No go.) If you need someone who will give you their entire body, I applaud you, Sir. It's good to have life goals... but that is not me. Also, if you are a dom and you're offended by the litany of demands a "so called" sub just whipped out (pun intended), then realize that I am looking for a NORMAL person who has a dark side. Someone I can go to Aruba with, see an opera, go to Starbucks, have my colleagues over for dinner, walk the mall. watch Scrubs, brush his hair, brush my hair. Have beautiful vanilla sex (which I would call making love with lots of wonderful eye contact and kissing in missionary position)... and perhaps once to three times a week explore the side that gets me most wet (the restraints, rape scenes, gags, forced felatio... yada yada). Like I said, I've been on this earth 31 years and I doubt I'll find what I'm looking for (a good partner on and off scene who isn't kookoo for cocoapuffs) But why not try, right? I'm the complete package so I want my parter to be too. I am finally free enough to give my complete heart, I want my partner to be similarly unencumbered.
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Now I am in guam. A land of sunshine and beauty. Beautiful water and beautiful people. And lots of men with tattoos. 3 of my favorite things. :D I love being attached to a ship. I love working with civilians. I love it all. I absolutely love the fact that the job is very busy. |
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Still in Japan. This country has taken a liking to me!! It just won't let me go! I have had a change of plans. I will be living in Guam for the next few years. :) A friend once said that anywhere the coconut palm grows isn't fit for human habitation. I thought that was particularly true.
I'm off to hop on a plane to the P.I. to help drop off food and supplies for the typhoon relief effort.
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Still enjoying Japan. Will likely move to the east coast in November. :) Can't wait! Still looking for someone special who I can connect with on all levels. I think most people are missing a widget or two. Actually, I'm not the most interested in meeting people for brief interludes. That seems to only bring me heartache. So, if you'd like to get to know me as a friend and such, then hit me up. I'm friendly. :D |
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| Age: 28 |
| Dana,
Kentucky |
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