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I do not understand what exactly qualifies someone as being fake on here. I mean obviously there are some men who impersonate women and vice versa and I understand telling those people that they are in fact fake. But beyond that how is "fakeness" determined really? I mean I've been accused of being fake a few times because I was disinterested in the men messaging me and told them so. Apparently because I still have standards it warrents fakeness? Yeah, maybe I overembellished in my profile. I do have self respect and I'm an intelligent woman. I want a man who is the same. I do not feel like every single man in this world is better than me. I do believe it varies from person to person. I also believe respect is something to be earned as opposed to something granted to you at birth. I want to serve under a man who proves himself to be a better person. If you think I will have any respect for a man who sends a generic two line message where every other word is spelled incorrectly, then you are not looking in the right place. I do not find it respectable nor desirable when men can not spell simple words. That goes for women too, but I have more experience and problems with men. So yeah, if you send me two lines that you could not even bother to spell the words correctly, I'll ignore your message. If you message me again, I'll ignore it again. Continue to message me and not let it seep into you're overly thick skull that I am in fact not interested, well then yeah you will get a piece of my mind. And do not feed me that, "well I took the time to message you, you could at least take the time to write a simple no" line.That pisses me off even more. Wow, do you want me to show gratitude to you for not being able to spell 7 words in a row correctly? Or maybe you wanted some appreciation shown for your ever so creative messages? I do not waste my time in general for that kind of ridiculousness, except for right now of course. Anyway that might be a little off track. Back to the whole fake thing. So yeah people accuse me of being fake, but in reality I am pretty honest about what I ultimately want. I do not string along men I am not interested in. I always thought pretending to be interested when the interest is not really there was being fake. Perhaps I was wrong though?
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