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While I am looking for connections in the lifestyle, most importantly, I am looking for a special person or group where I can grow emotionally. (please, read the fine print at the bottom!!)
I have been described as a fun and intelligent person. I have an extreme interest in (mostly Western) philosophy and the visual arts… which is also my field of work. I will not bother (or intimidate... lol) you with degrees, languages spoken, etc. Be aware though, that you MUST to be able to talk intelligently about anything, politics, science, aesthetics, ethics, logics. Ideally, you would provide new insights. The path to my body goes through my mind… a long way through my mind. Maybe this is too challenging for the vast majority of Doms/Tops… or any men for that matter LOL. Be that person and the rewards will be beyond your imagination.
I am looking for that person or persons who can see beyond what is already available and demand that I meet challenges to the "unexplored" and presents me with the rewards for that effort.
Clearly, I am not your plain vanilla (pun intended!) submissive or bottom. I know what I want and I need a capable Dom/Top to help me in the journey that I expect it will never end. Over the last few years, I met some faux Dom/Top... I can spot them from the first line... interested in themselves rather than the achievement of a Janus-like unity... two sides, different, but held together in a unique unity... one cannot exist without the other... separate them, and the magic will end.
I live rather than play my role of submissive/bottom, but only for the people who earn and deserve such a privilege. Once the door is open, there have been no limits that I have not overcome with the help of a skillful partner.
I am interested in experiencing, or at least meeting someone, who would not exclude a priori a polyamorous or an open relationship. I do not mean to say that I would exclude a monogamous Dom/Top, but he needs to be open to the possibility of polyamory. Why should we limit ourselves and the people in our lives? This is, of course, a two-way street. If Sir wishes to venture into polyamory, I would happily follow. We can discuss this further, if needed.
Oh, I almost forgot… music is a strong medium for me. It helps me establishing and deepening connections, besides bringing to the surface strong emotions. I cannot envision any scene without the right "soundtrack."
To summarize… Personal development through masterfully and, why not, painfully, guided exploration... mixed with laughter, hyperboles, and good music… that is what I am looking for. Can you please help?
Some fine print now...
I am a relatively visible figure in my profession and I have to take extreme precaution in order to keep my lifestyle opaque to the space where my public persona operates. An initial, and possibly prolonged, if it needs to be, contact by which trust is established is a must for me and needs to happen on my terms. I am sorry, but I cannot compromise on this. I will not accept friendships or chats. Only messages on collarme.com, we will then move to emails, and/or phone calls before meeting in person. This is the reason why there will be no pictures of me here. Rest assured, I take care of my body. I am 5”3’ tall and weigh 120 lbs and physically active. I quit smoking a long time ago, do not drink (ok, maybe some glass of wine here and there), and exercise regularly.
I realize my profile is somewhat arid and intentionally "soft." However, I think the door crack is wide enough to see if you are interested. More once we start getting close....
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