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Hetero Female Submissive, 58,  Glasgow, United Kingdom
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 foxifem

 Submissive Female

 Glasgow 

 United Kingdom

 Willing to Relocate

 5' 6"

 58

 Hetero

 Caucasian

 08/31/06

 07/12/20

Actively Seeking:

Dominant Male

 Loves:

 Fine Dining

 Museums

 Musical Theater

 Travel

 Breast Binding/Play

 Massage (Getting)

 Stockings

 Likes:

 Beachcombing

 Coffee Shops

 Movies

 Bondage

 Corsets

 Electrical Play

 Humiliation

 Cooking

 Tolerates:

 Bar Hopping

 Clubbing

 Garage Sales

 Opera

 Shopping

 Exhibitionism

 Munches

 Curious About:

 Antique Shows

 Renaissance Faires

 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Medical Play

 Outdoor Bondage

 Public Play

 Role Playing

 Vacuum Stimulation

 Wax play

 Dislikes:

 Fishing

 Flea Markets

 Gambling

 Hates:

 Raves

 Anal Play

 Cages

 Enemas

 Hoods

 Masks (On Partner)

 Hard Limits:

 Fisting

 Knife Play

 Needle Play

Especially important to me are intelligence, manners, and the ability to communicate one's thoughts and ideas in a concise and eloquent fashion. At the same time, emotional connection is paramount, even at the friendship level.

I have interests outside of BDSM and would be interested in knowing people who have interests other than BDSM as well.Good food, wine and conversation, is a start.  For professional and personal reasons, I will ain from providing personal information,at this moment in time.but I would be happy to talk in more detail if you're interested.

If married attached in any way ..please pass on by.

If bisexual or younger than 53..please pass on by

IM a bbw if this doesnt suit..please pass on by...to another profile

 

Do not think that just because you are a Dominant person that I am to automatically bow down to you.  Respect is earned both ways.

If we have a conversation or two doesn't mean that I will jump and meet you in a week's time.  Safety is always FIRST AND FOREMOST!!!

I am a BBw....get over it

Can I just point out, the following is My opinion, No need for the hecklers thanks.

10 cold hard facts about submission:

  1. If the Dominant wants to collar you before meeting you, building with you, getting to really know you they are a control freak NOT dominant.
  2. submission is inspired not demanded, only the insecure demand it.
  3. Sending naked pictures of yourself to a so called Dom because he demands them is not submission it's feeding his collection of pictures to get off to.
  4. You choose to submit to One and one alone.
  5. The submissive holds the power in a D/s relationship but gives it freely to their Dominant.
  6. There is no place in this life for abuse, everything is consensual.
  7. A Dominant never ignores their submissive.
  8. A Dominant is always in control of their feelings at all times.
  9. Dominance and submission are states of mind not something that is turned on and off.
  10. A submissive is an equal and will always be treated with respect

Facts of a Dominant

1.Courtesy - They have politeness and good manners in the traditional sense of the word and will show this to all they communicate with whether via e mail or within chat rooms.

2.Respect They will always be respectful in their approaches, showing an appreciation of the other and being mindful of how their communication is perceived.

3.Honesty They will be totally honest in how they communicate, ask a question they will answer it in a detailed way, there will be nothing vague. They will tell you their thoughts when required.

4.Integrity They will be consistent in their interactions with you, you will always know where you stand. There is no hidden agenda.

5.Confident Do not confuse confidence with arrogance, they know and understand themselves in all aspects of their life. They will not be boastful but will give their opinions specially when asked.

6.Selfless They will want to know about you rather than telling you about themselves. They will have provided the majority of information for early communication on their profiles so have no need to talk about themselves unless you ask when they will be happy to provide the additional details.

7.Unassuming They do not make a big issue over things, their focus is on the girl not themselves. They have no need of causing or being part of any drama, they will state their opinion and qualify it where and when needed.

8.Knowledgeable I nearly wrote intelligent or educated but settled on knowledgeable as it is more fitting and easier for me to qualify. They understand what a submissive needs, understand the deeper cerebral aspects of D/s, understand it is not just about sex and certainly understand that it is the submissive that holds the power within a D/s relationship and that she chooses to give it freely.

9.Assertive There is a power in how they communicate, it holds the readers attention, makes them want to know more, piques the interest. It is this that gets them noticed, makes them stand out. Not the posturing, aggressive, crass and down right obscene ranting that some mistake for overt misguided displays of dominance.

10.Chivalrous (adj) (of a man or his behavior) courteous and gallant, especially towards women. They do challenge inappropriate behavior, make no apology for doing so and will always do so.

In short they are consummate gentlemen, this is first and foremost and their dominance is an enhancement to this, an important part of the greater whole person. They see their submissive as their most treasured possession, one to cherish and nurture, one to guide and allow to be the best they can be under their dominance. They do not just see the girl as she is but see how she will become. They see her as the yin to their yang.

They inspire submission

This is My opinion...no set routine or agenda a mere guideline for A/all to follow.

 

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Journal Entries:
2/27/2018 4:34:37 PM
'A mediocre Master orders, a good Master teaches, an excellent Master explains, But A True Master Inspires' A sub should have the strength to say 'NO'. Slaves must have the strength NOT to say 'NO'. Which one are you? A STRONG MAN CAN HANDLE A STRONG WOMAN.....A WEAK MAN WILL SAY SHE HAS AN ATTITUDE PROBLEM

9/1/2017 5:16:59 AM
https://vimeo.com/92403817

That  Man  knows  how to  kiss.

5/2/2017 3:10:39 PM

 Am I unusual? ....I seek a long-term relationship rather than a quickie. I actually believe that the best form of relationship comes from intimacy and trust and that can only be achieved within the framework of an LTR.....Am I THAT unusual?

I couldn't ever be a  slave...for to me beatings  are not best for me...yes  for me it is all about  safe sane consensual.

5/2/2017 3:09:18 PM
 
  Few are willing to brave the disapproval of the echoes of their upbringing, or risk the censure of their colleagues, the wrath of their family to seek what is within. This type of courage is a rarer commodity than bravery in battle or great intelligence. Yet it is the one essential, vital quality for those who seek to find that which yearns to be freed from within that can be most painful to free.


we  strive to find one that understands  our individual kink...setting free the mindset to be who we are....acceptance is an aphrodisiac

3/11/2017 9:18:34 PM

**I will view your profile.  When I view it and if your profile isn't filled out, or "Profile can't be found", I am not interested.**  (This goes for the chat rooms as well - I am NOT going to "chat" to someone younger, or play 20 questions with a profile that is hidden/not filled out or has a couple of sentences in it.)  **

 

** Don't expect me to change my life, or suddenly drop everything to cum to you after "chatting" online, or via phone/skype/online, I got stuff going on too. **

 

** If you're really looking for a Nurse,  housekeeper  or someone to just suck your cock, move on....**


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