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| Not really sure what to say... I'm a recent college grad that just joined the scary real world workforce. My relationship with the BDSM community is complicated. I love being dominated, tie me up, cause me pain, I love the poetry of the power play, the fight for control. Normal life pales in?comparison?to a good D/s relationship. Here is where the hard part comes in though, I am also an extremely?independent?person. I am the type to take control over and lead a group, especially in academia, I guess it comes with being a Scientist and the nature to question everything and push limits. Because of this all the play I've ever done has been solely behind closed doors. its not to say I am not willing to give new things a try, just that it is hard to balance my real-time work/research personality with the one that comes out to with the man willing to force me to my knees at home. I need someone who is willing to work with me around this, or come up with some way to let me be who I am for my work and school, but somehow balance that with a relationship. My bestfriend swears to me that she could only every see me as a Domme, ?if that can convey any information, but, again she only sees who I am in my non-sexual life. Is there a man out there up for the challenge? Just remember, I do still need the ability to do what I love, or an relationship will be going nowhere fast.?Thank you for your interest, if you have bothered reading this far. If you want anymore information you're just going to have to ask me privately. :) |
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