Saving this for Thanksgiving :)
I prefer the lighter side of things here, not a lifestyle.
Im 6-1, #190, brown hair with a greying mustache. I am a non-smoker and she must be too.
They say BDSM isn't about sex but for me it pretty much is. Being dominant sexually stimulates me as does the infliction of mild to moderate pain. I will give a sub enough rope to either do the right thing or otherwise. I do not enjoy, no would they, me micromanaging things. I do like smarts and find it a great contributor in a woman being sexy. I like spanking a sexy lady. I like a busty woman as long as they are natural.
I am very patient and caring to those that are close. I have strong hands and enjoy making use of them with the right person. I like the sensual side of things. The sting of my hand on your ass followed by a soothing touch. The pressure of clamps on your nipples followed by the vacuum of my mouth.
Stealing a quote: "Just because I am a gentleman does not mean I won't spank you."
A pessimist is a man who thinks all women are bad. An optimist is one who hopes they are.
I know this profile is thin, but would rather discuss things and let you make a choice based on that versus those dreadfully painful profiles.
Photos are available to those that ask.
I took a quiz that determined the following:
*Exhibitionist / Voyeur 39%
Im not real sure how much credence this has, but its interesting.