I go by "Æthel," which phonetically is pronounced "A-thul."
I’m many things, but some of the more pertinent would be dominant, sadist, voyeur, exhibitionist.
I enjoy inflicting pain on those who appreciate it, but I also revel in pleasure filled writhing, and the unabashed expression of bliss on a partner’s face.
I’m more than that of course, having deep roots in art. I’m also a photographer and a film buff.
I’ve practiced BDSM mostly in private, one-on-one settings. I’m currently looking to expand and be a touch more social. Hopefully, I can meet new people and join in with community activities.
Socially, I’m a bit of an introvert, but given time I can become much more gregarious.
For those wondering about my name or some of my photos, I have spiritual ties to certain animals.
I enjoy physical affection and am currently interested in finding a semi-regular cuddle partner, this can be completely platonic and separate from the other types of play I’m looking for.
I'm understanding of boundaries and limits. Safewords are always respected, of course. If you have any questions feel free to drop me a line.
Update: I’ve been starting to explore a submissive streak I’ve noticed within myself. So I’m also interested in finding a soft domme to help me explore that aspect of myself. At present, I’m looking for scenes involving praise, and affection, maybe something akin to the sweeter versions of puppy play.
Also please note I'm married but we're ENM