I define myself as a lover. Not the sort your mother had in mind, but a lover first and foremost. The term dominant seems one dimensional but that certainly applies as well.
I am subtle, well educated, and a world traveler.
My erotic tastes range widely and any one of them can come into play when I sense the vulnerability and passion they arouse in my partner. I feed off that passion and it inflames my own. When I am in the presence of feminine surrender, my imagination can lead to some very interesting places. Over time I have learned to stretch my own limits as well as the limits of my partners. You might say I like to play on the edge.
I believe that the hand of a firm practitioner upon the mind, soul and body of a willing submissive can transport both to unimaginable heights.