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Been dealing with getting thru some health issues over the past 10 months and have had to put this side of my life on hold. On the mend and saying hello to the many friends ive crossed paths with on here,
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Shut down my profile for awhile due to severe illness. Im on the mend and decided to open it up once more. Hope you all been well |
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I will be relocating back to Connecticut which I dearly miss. It would be wonderful to meet a sane female to share the new beginning again. I have eliminated all casual play in my life for some time now as it just feels mechanical. If you are in this similar headspace lets talk. |
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After my latest interaction on collarme I thought Id better state this... While Im in the city for another year or two ultimatly Id like to move further out abit more rural. Oh yes we can come in to the city to enjoy things but my soul wants a more artistic rural setting. If you have similiar feelings lets talk. If you are locked into NYC and thats where you want to always remain it would be wasting one anothers time in the bigger picture. |
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I dont know how most feel who are here, but for me I seek that delightful electric feeling that doesnt come often. At times I think it may not be possible on this site but then again delicious accidents happen when least expected (*wink) |
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At present my whips are cased. They will only come out to be shared with someone that has honesty, integrity and there is a bond. No it doesnt have to be a life mate altho Id be open to that. I just will no longer give out a rush to the worthless pieces of arse looking for a bdsm thrill. Trust me there are many. |
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I have just returned from serious illness that might have been life or death. I was blessed and all miraculously turned out well. Thru this time I learned about betrayel and peoples character. I welcome new friends as I am now back. |
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Its truly amazing how many on here ommit that they are married in profile. Always similiar stories, dead end marriage, one day Ill get divorced. Dont you all realize ther than some flesh you have nothing to offer? Especially dignety and honesty! If you were honest and said you were just married sluts looking for fun Id at leeast respect you. But you all seem to play the honerable sub in a bad situation. You are frauds and not worth more than a romp in my eyes, yet you seek to be cherishised as a unique highly regard treasue. Scuse me need to vomit! |
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Just to clear up confusion I recieve. I am open to slaves... just dont want what Ive seen thus far. Im sure there are fasinating exceptions. Just as many females are let down if they seek something meaningful...trust me some males are experiencing the very same thing. Ideally a sub or slave type with a mind and spirit is what I seek but would entertain a switch as my best friend and or lover. Its the deep connection of souls that I miss. The bond of ultimate mutual understanding. As far as sex and play if that was what I was after Id not even have this ad as one dimensional play is available too me almost everywhere I go. Its just too shallow not enough connection. |
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Been going out quite a bit these days socially. An observation with the Dommes and female switches Ive met seems theres just this anger for men dripping from every pore. Oh im sure some male sadists are the same. But this distaste for men is so obvious. Some of the classiest dommes Ive met are quite the opposite. A quiet power with nothing to prove. Just an aura about them I have entertained a fem switch as my lover possibly sharing slaves for the BDSM. But what Ive encountered in this exploration does not appear great. I seem to be using these entries as a diary of sorts. |
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I think I expressed my sentiments on married people contacting me in my profile. Do people not read or just dont give a chit in seeking their own needs? If you cannot give yourself or be available to me get lost. Trust me Id like to use stronger opinions and language but do not want to violate policy on collerme. This does not include married playmates where spouse is on board who seek friendship. Anything other than that id suggest you all find others like yourself and take a look at your selfish, self serving needs and behaviour. Me being disgusted would be understating things. |
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Thought Id clearify things here. I indeed like it rough. Just the way it is. It does not mean I cannot love or value a submissive. most certainly can. Rough does not mean inflict nasty damage, abuse or destroying her emotionally. I guess Im a bit tired with the whiney negotiations in my mail box. Read my profile. If you cant handle whats there why even began the dance. If you are a woman that with the right man you can chance flying then write. If not ADIOS |
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well road has been interesting. met someone who felt drug use with her grown kids was ok. then she wonders why no dominant takes her seriously. learned that in 48 hours. next sub started involvement with me only to have her ex stalk us and commit domestic violence in a club. then refuse to press charges after threats with a weapon. That new begining ended real quick. guess she never cleaned her plate. God give me strength in this lifestyle. |
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There has been some getting aquainted play here and there for me. It is such a pardox at how many submissives can yield the flesh to the most extreme levels...yet lock out intimate feelings. Many confuse intense and sex with intimate. Ideally to have all is the elusive thing. |
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Do all these subs with near zero profiles and no photo expect to get what they seek? Does anyone of quality actually go after them? In my mind zero effort deserves zero rewards!!! |
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Interesting note on creativity. On my road so few subs have it while the fem doms have it it spades. Interesting paradox of sorts LOL |
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I have often thought that an intimate relationship with a dominant female partner might be something that would be unique. A couple like this in theory might be the ultimate understanding between man and woman. And slaves are for the servicing of both. Id be very interested hearing views on such a relationship. |
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I month on collarme.com...oh what a strange trip its been. A few deliteful Emails have arrived..yet most others just make me scratch my head thinking of the games people play and why. Real life can be stranger than any fiction would be an understatement. |
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There is such a radical usage of the term BBW. There is just something I find intoxicating almost on a primal level of a 5'7" to 5'10" woman who is amply curved, large breasted and fleshy. To me Kirste Ally is a classic. Or Anna Nicole Smith before her weight loss ( Altho Anna must have a ballgag to silence that horrible whine) Is it possible that I should change my decriptive likes to simply chubby or plump or maybe rubenesque (SMILE)? I welcome your experiences or thoughts on this as it just varies so much. |
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It is amazing how many no profiles I see. Or is that don't see? Truly makes one wonder what thats all about. Why would anyone want to interact with a blank (Smile) |
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