I have been involved in the lifestyle since I was 20 years old.  I am divorced and looking for my next partner to be into the lifestyle.  I am an educated professional, have kids, in shape and have a variety of kinks.  For me, the appeal to the lifestyle is the control that a partner gives me over her.  I thrive on that aspect.  While I love kinky and taboo, there is no specific kink that I need from a partner.  Everyone is different as is the dynamic between two people.

I prefer to get to know my partners likes, dislikes, fears, passions, fantasies, hard limits and soft limits.  I also like to get into her head and know what she is thinking, what her past is, where she wants to go.  The mental aspect of D/s is where the real passion is...the physical is the gratification.  They go hand-in-hand when you have a successful partnership.

WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR:

I really have a broad taste in women.  I like older and younger.  Just be yourself and have the ability to laugh and we will get along great.  Be able and willing to communicate, be open minded, embrace your dirty thoughts, be able to trust (the right person that is), be willing to experiment and most importantly, enjoy life!