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*I am going to stay away from BDSM for a while*
Not a 24/7 type.. Not into titles etc. .. I suppose I am more into the role of victim.. no I don't want to do anything I have not pre agreed to ... I suppose I just like the dynamic that I feel with the roles of victim and a harsh abuser ( a hot and sadistic lady being the abuser and me well... yes the victim)
I have explored the victim scenario a few times .. It has been in my mind for years ..but its only in more recent years as I have become more active that have actually sought it out and spoken to/met women that have similar interests.
Although, I do have other interests in bdsm. I don't like the D/s dynamic in my head much I think it is partly due to my mindset and partly due to my OCD : ) that I feel the need often to have balance in many things but in this case it is a seemingly intrinsic belief that all people are equal.. with this belief running into thoughts on bdsm dynamics. Interested to chat to anyone that has a view on this?
Apart from, and including the victim scenario/dynamic some things I find hot are:
Proper restraint
Gags
Beating (whips crops and all less so canes though hmm)
Spitting
Pissing
Strap on play
Kicking
Stamping
Insulting
Shouting
Humiliating in scenario
Cigarette/ashtray
Electrics
Prolonged restrain/confinement
What am I seeking ?
not sure .. mostly friends to play with .. I am not adverse to the idea of a relationship but not actually seeking one
Vanilla:
Many interests I suppose. But to list a few
History Red wine Exercise Talking ( especially with red wine) Beer Flirting Debate Idea Philosophy
Happy to chat/talk to anyone men or women and share ideas and good conversation although not into play with men
Interesting, intelligent, sadists most welcome
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Age: 26 |
Houston,
Texas |
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