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*I am going to stay away from BDSM for a while* Not a 24/7 type.. Not into titles etc. .. I suppose I am more into the role of victim.. no I don't want to do anything I have not pre agreed to ... I suppose I just like the dynamic that I feel with the roles of victim and a harsh abuser ( a hot and sadistic lady being the abuser and me well... yes the victim) I have explored the victim scenario a few times .. It has been in my mind for years ..but its only in more recent years as I have become more active that have actually sought it out and spoken to/met women that have similar interests. Although, I do have other interests in bdsm. I don't like the D/s dynamic in my head much I think it is partly due to my mindset and partly due to my OCD : ) that I feel the need often to have balance in many things but in this case it is a seemingly intrinsic belief that all people are equal.. with this belief running into thoughts on bdsm dynamics. Interested to chat to anyone that has a view on this? Apart from, and including the victim scenario/dynamic some things I find hot are: Proper restraint Gags Beating (whips crops and all less so canes though hmm) Spitting Pissing Strap on play Kicking Stamping Insulting Shouting Humiliating in scenario Cigarette/ashtray Electrics Prolonged restrain/confinement What am I seeking ? not sure .. mostly friends to play with .. I am not adverse to the idea of a relationship but not actually seeking one Vanilla: Many interests I suppose. But to list a few History Red wine Exercise Talking ( especially with red wine) Beer Flirting Debate Idea Philosophy Happy to chat/talk to anyone men or women and share ideas and good conversation although not into play with men Interesting, intelligent, sadists most welcome
badde
 
 Age: 26
 Houston, Texas