I'm finally figuring out what I want after months of reading profiles here. I need to update my profile but to summarize: I want a sub or slave that I can take care of: security, stability, structure in exchange for what I need in return. That would go beyond sex into domestic service. I've borrowed from some of the profiles here. Here it is from the woman's perspective: 

-I am a romantic person and seek that within the relationship as well as love.
-Yes I am your property unless dismissed but I still want affection and love,
-I want us to be mates, not just property and Owner.
-I am NOT your doormat and in the end you will have the last and final word but I will tell you my opinion.
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-Not about the kink, more about the servitude.
-I like to clean, like to cook, like to accomplish tasks. I love to laugh, love to sigh and love to feel that feeling when you belong.
-I am not into extreme kink or bondage, I am into extreme servitude and placement.
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-I am an easy going girl, affectionate, honest,
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-i want someone who respect me as well as care for me

I've been asked how I got started with this. Well, it was purely accidental and started with a "vanilla" relationship. 

A former girlfriend started making requests and it was obvious what she wanted. Having intentionally saved "kink" all these years, I was definitely curious  so I happily went along to see where it would go.

She said things like, "slap my ass, hard!" or "pull my hair and make it hurt!". Good taste precludes me from sharing the rest - lol.

Then she started asking "I know you like dresses, should I wear one tonight"?"Or "Should I wear panties or not?"

It didn't take long to see that what she wanted. She wanted to give up control in the bedroom and even some control in other areas. I've never been the same.