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drshure

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Where did the CS Mobile app disappear to?
Here’s some background information:
My profile may appear to be new. I've had a CM profile before. I'm for sure not new to the scene.

I'm legitimately single (check), own a house (check), live alone (check), drive a 2013 car (check), I try to speak and write in correct English (check), I don't smoke cigarettes (I do enjoy a cigar especially with some Jameson's 12-Year Old Single Malt Irish Whiskey, I've earned an MBA Degree, have a full time career (check) and have two furry dogs. I’m naturally very dominant; a take charge man. Although I’m dominant I do listen to reason. I've been involved in the lifestyle for just over 13 years. I consider myself a skilled and fair DOM. Although I may push hard against your limits I will ultimately respect your limits. Hey, who doesn't enjoy a bit of edge play now and again?

Although not specifically seeking, I'm very agreeable to a 24/7 relationship especially inside the home and/or at social events. In summary I want a friend, a lover, an equal in the overall relationship, a confidant and very kinky submissive slut in private. I want a lady who knows what she wants and knows how to go and get what she wants in her own unique way. I can be both tender and harsh in one evening. I need a permanent sub, slut and kinkster in my life.

I believe in a healthy balance of vanilla and lifestyle. First and foremost we must be friends. At times you'll simply become an object for me to release my pent up needs, wants and desires. At other times we'll go to our vanilla friend’s backyard, pool and BBQ party where everyone will comment "you two sure look happy". Maybe go check out a local rock bacd at an Irish Pub and when we get home the fun really starts.

After 22 years on active duty I'm now a retired military citizen. I can be sadistic and I can be gentle. I can be cruel and compassionate. I can turn your more sensitive body areas very red and then apply soothing lotion onto your skin. We can watch TV and when the show is over I may forcefully bend you over and take what I need. I can do TPE or we can act like every other non-lifestyle man/woman couple. If needed, on a short-term limited basis, I do enjoy Daddy/sub. We could go to Home Depot and fix-up the house a bit together and later I can rope tie you to the thing we just fixed. I will hold the door open for you and probably pinch your ass as you walk through. I'll hold your hands in public and tie your hands behind your back when we get home. I'll pat you on the back when you did something good at work and I'll slap your ass when I need to and/or you've been a bad girl. I’ll bring you flowers for no reason, go out to a romantic dinner and we'll make love. I’ll also use you objectively for my needs and everything in between. I can provide you with rigid structure, quick dicipline, harsh punishment and satisfying rewards or we can talk until the wee hours of the morning enjoying light touching and white wine. I enjoy light and bright as much as I enjoy dark and taboo.

WHEN WE'RE IN BDSM MODE I want to OWN every aspect of your sex. I enjoy being sadistic, I enjoy being cruel, I will physically hurt you, I'm not poly and I will share you, I will humiliate you, I will degrade you and I will enjoy doing so. No matter what, before, during and after I will respect you. I believe in communication. We need to communicate even when the topic is difficult. Communication is for me essential towards a strong relationship.
I’m very much into mind seduction (not mind games), spankings, the riding crop is nice every once in a while, nipple torture, hair pulling and much more. I do believe to be a fair DOM and hopefully some lady's Master, that after any session I must ensure she comes down and out of "Sub Space" with care, compassion and understanding. I believe the more she gives of her gift of submission the more I need to provide care, comfort and respect afterwards.

I'm 100% heterosexual. I do not require her to be bisexual. However, at times, I do prefer she be at least within the moment hetero-flexible. I prefer that 80% - 90% of our times together it'll be just us two. On occasion, when the mood strikes, we would enjoy a bit of fun swinging. Many scenarios available there.


I enjoy a wide variety of music from rock-n-roll (AC/DC), modern country (Jason Aldean), modern blues (Joe Bonomassa) to old school Kool and the Gang funk. In the kitchen, I’ve become a decent cook. Around the house I can fix most anything including installing new electrical items. I love Sushi, Bulgogi (Korean BBQ) and New York style delis. I’m a bit of a pizza snob and am very selective where I get my pizza from. I love HBO and Showtime shows such as Dexter, True Blood, True Detectives, Homeland, Boardwalk Empire, Game of Thrones, NetFlix's House of Cards/Orange Is The New Black and also the AMC’s Walking Dead. When it’s not 118 degrees outside I love riding my bicycle. I’m the BBQ Grill Sergeant. You should taste my marinated leeks with steak and shrimp?
I love to laugh and do so often. I'm a glass half full kind of person, I stay upbeat. While I do realize life does come with drama I do prefer to steer clear of it and at the minimum deal with it in a rational, informed and calm fashion.

The perfect girl for me is self confident, self supportive, has a job, has a car, has a mind, a delicious imagination, enjoys regular ole normal vanilla activities, isn't into drugs (recreational pot is okay), enjoys many vanilla activities. She should also within reason salivate, perspire, breathe heavily, become excited and gets juicy wet just thinking about and anticipating/participating our favorite and new favorite debaucheries, kinky, nasty, cum soaked, BDSM and sexual activities. I don’t seek a hook-up, aka a short term meaningful overnight relationship. While I’m sure most people will agree sometimes a hook-up is fun and needed what I seek is a committed (yes ladies I used the “C” word) relationship.


There's so much to write and so little room. I do hope what I wrote piques your interest? In general I'd prefer if we emailed a picture or three, exchanged some emails and talked on the phone and then set-up a meeting in a mutually agreeable public place for an adult beverage.

Thanks for reading.
Have a great day,
littlenell
 
 Age: 20
 Berkeley, California