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EmptyEyesDarkMODomDraco023

I am not looking for anyone to own me. Lets get that out on the table. I do not want anyone who has co-dependency issues, nor do I want to have to deal with possessive pansies that get upset when I cannot and will not give them the exclusivity that they so desire. I do not want to be your girlfriend, I do not want to be your slave.
What I do want; someone who is open-minded and fun. A person that can accept that I do not want to be with them 24/7 and that I am going to be talking to and possibly playing with other people. Somebody that understands that kink can be separate from sex.
3/20/2010 7:11:11 PM
One more thing. If You want people to respond to your emails... L2 grammar.
3/20/2010 6:52:22 PM
I feel like a certain part of me is dying. It is like a plant with out sunlight or water. Slowly it withers away. You can tell, when it is dead, that it was once beautiful and vibrant. Now, however, it is a far cry from what it use to be.

Where is my sunlight? Where is my water? I am so tired of withering.


12/14/2009 4:13:16 PM
Golly, It has been quite some time since I have been on here and to be honest I can understand why. A mailbox filled with so-called "Doms" Who most likely didn't read my profile and gave only my photos a second thought.  Here is what I say to you...

Go find a stupid little barbie doll bitch that wants to spend your money and call you daddy and only lets you skim the surface of soft limits and leave me alone.

That is all, thank you.
5/4/2009 6:14:51 PM
Honestly, these people that try to establish a connection with me haven't a clue about how to go about it. Do you really expect me to get on my knees and play along with your whims? Ha, please don't make me laugh. You wouldn't know Dominance or Sadism if it bit you in the bum. Go away, you bore me.

I am starting to think that I am doomed to never find what I am really looking for.
1/30/2009 11:43:11 AM
Have you ever been ripped off by someone? Not monetarily but your words and thoughts ripped away and used as if they were their own? I have. Some bitch on this website stole my entire profile info section and is pretending to be as articulate and intelligent as me when she is probably a big fat dude who is partially retarded!

You know who you are take that shit down NOW!
1/29/2009 1:01:11 PM
there is something to said about being completely shaven and wearing no panties... me likey.
1/26/2009 10:20:02 PM
Did I have a good time last night? Oh my god yes. Did I get taken from the depths of pain and to the brink of ecstasy? Yes. Did I miss it? Terribly. Would I willingly ask for it again? Yes but under one circumstance... it is in person.
1/26/2009 8:11:09 AM
Please don't send me messages asking that I elaborate on my views on the "lifestyle" or asking me to explain the things I want as a sub and from my Dom. Yes this is a BDSM website and I understand that we are all looking for those aspects in our lives but they are not the most important things to me. I want connection and conversation first about EVERYDAY life not about relationship and bedroom topics. When you walk up to a girl in a bar do you say to her "do you like it doggie or missionary? would you mind if i tie you up and spank you?" NO you don't. Is it so hard for you to message me with casual conversation or asking me a question perhaps that isn't related to what makes your dick hard?
1/24/2009 8:19:37 PM
Ok here is the deal... don't contact me if in place of actual information about yourself you have one of your "clever" little short stories on your profile written in the third-person about a little subbie girl looking for her perfect Dominant man and how he is charming and firm and gentile but stern. Give me a friggin break ok? If I wanted to read a damn story I would get off the computer and go pick up a freakin book or dial my grandfather and listen to him talk about his "back in the day" stories.

Get out of here and don't waste my time with that crap.
1/24/2009 11:37:03 AM
Is it so wrong that I want a Daddy Dom but I don't want to be kept as a pet? I don't expect him to take me in and spend money on me but if that is something he wants to do fine. I'm not a gold digger and I will not do anything for merchandise or money. Those things are not important to me but I don't want to deal with a bum.


1/23/2009 10:17:18 AM
I dislike when people send me a message telling me to prove myself to them. Why should I prove myself to someone who just happens to send me a message? You read my profile I laid my cards on the table, by taking the time to contact me shouldn't you be the only to prove yourself to me? I'm not running around sending random people messages asking for them to take me in.

God, who do you people think you are?
1/21/2009 11:49:38 AM
How dare you go making demands of me when we have only been speaking for a few hours. How dare you make comment on my financial situation. $15 for a webcam is "dirt cheap" Well I have news for you buddy, when you are a working college student who is living paycheck to paycheck that $15 will dictate whether or not you are going to eat for the rest of the week. I survive off or water, carrots, and PB&J part of the time because all the rest of my money goes to books, gas, and other scholastic expenses. For you to be so pompous and say "$15 shouldn't be able to break someone" I have to say you are insensitive and clearly have never had to struggle in your life.

Therefore, you can kiss my ass and go have fun spending your money and being a dickhead.

k thx, bye!
1/20/2009 9:24:22 AM
Can you trust someone who messages you without a profile photo? Most times I realize that some members here have careers that could be jeopardized if they were caught here so anonymity is obviously a fair defense. Other people I am realizing it is because they feel they are not aesthetically pleasing. I think the best thing to do is get the looks thing out of the way. If a person is too shallow to disregard your looks from the beginning then what makes you think that they will do the same after a few emails and an hours worth of chat? Most likely it will be a huge waste of time because they will block you from their messenger because you aren't as "hot" as they had envisioned. I know this is harsh but everyone who has had this happen to them knows its so fricken true!
1/20/2009 8:03:03 AM
Dross (inferior, an impurity)

Zero (nonentity, nothing)


Does that answer everyone's questions?
Though my name would imply I am inferior it would only apply to my Superior which is my Dom.

ergo: not you
1/15/2009 6:34:40 AM
I absolutely "love" (harsh sarcasm noted) how any random guy who likes rough sex and being sadistic to his women would label himself a Dominant. That is probably the funniest (more sarcasm noted) thing I have ever seen, especially on this site. Boys, just because your like your cock sucked and you like to smack your girlfriend on the ass and tie her up and order her around does NOT mean that you are a dominant MAN. If anything you are a little boy trying to make yourself feel like a man by belittling and abusing your women. This isn't the site for you because any experienced sub/slave will be able to see right through your poser ass.
1/14/2009 8:48:51 AM
I am not your sub or slave therefore do not refer to me a such when you message me. If you feel the need to call me anything just call me Dross for gods sake. I hate that just because I have submissive labeled in my profile you so called Doms/Masters think that you can treat me as if I am inferior to you. Also don't send me a message asking if I like to suck cock. Because that isn't a) any of your business and b) relevant to strictly "friends" conversation. So get a clue read my profile and pull your head out of your ass. I am already involved with someone that means I am not interested in being with YOU!
1/13/2009 12:15:54 PM
I just recently had someone message me and dare to insult my friend just to make a point about how I "look good".

He seemed to think he was complimenting me but it offended me because he was just judging another person based on her physical appearance.

Way to go, guy!
1/11/2009 10:01:17 PM
"my subs must be physically fit."
 
so... i am able to jog a mile without getting winded. I can mountain bike, hike, and snorkel all without feeling like I want to die afterward... yet I am not 110 pounds. Does this make me unfit? Apparently because I am not a waif many people believe I am unfit or fat. That is hilarious considering I out ran a 103 pounds broad at the park today. But I'm the one that is unfit. HAHAHAHA

ok.

perhaps you  "Doms" should be more specific and says "I want a skinny bitch".
mmmk? thx, bye
1/9/2009 10:46:00 PM
Apparently people have a hard time reading profiles. It is so annoying. Honestly how about no one write anything on their profile then everyone can aimlessly email each other and piss each other off because we are all approaching people without the foggiest idea of who they are or what they want.  yeah great idea. NOT.

Seriously read people's profiles don't just send an email about yourself and expect a response. It's very offensive.
1/9/2009 5:25:10 PM
People who judge others based on appearances alone disgust me. This type of spiritual constipation is why our society is so screwed up when it comes to relationships and love.

One might think that because I am bringing up this rant that I am ugly or fat or something of the like. The main reason I bring this up is because I meet so many wonderful people here and other places who are terrified to show their faces because they fear somehow that they are not good enough. This just proves that these assholes looking for a hot body are choosing to throw away solid companionship, late night talks about philosophy, mornings conversing about heart-felt matters over coffee, etc. for someone with rock hard abs or big boobs.

Chances are that your Bombshell bitch or Absent-minded Adonis are going to get up and leave for the next hotter piece of ass that walks by. You people have my pity.

So please grow up. Looks fade and beauty is only skin deep. Judging someone based solely on looks is no different than judging someone based on race or creed. If you are one of these people you should do well to pass my profile right on by because your heart is far to ugly for me to give a damn about you.
4/11/2008 9:40:35 AM
Why does everyone act as though a simple message sent reading; "hey sexy. wanna chat?" is really going to catch my attention and compell me to respond. My name is not "sexy" or "pet" or "girl" or anything of the like. If you want to address me you may refer to me as Dross, that is perfectly fine by me. Just because I may appear to be a submissive in your eyes or even a Dominant does not mean that I do not have a name or should not be addressed with a name. It is not until you have proven that you are worth my submission will it be alright for you to refer to me as anything other than my name.

Until that day comes please do not push your misogynistic mumbo jumbo onto me and expect me to roll over and take it.

Strong mind, strong body, stronger will.
SilentSpark
 
 Age: 21
  Ohio