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| I am a successful professional and am looking for the same - nothing is sexier than a smart, capable, career-driven man. I'm intelligent, thoughtful, witty, and quick with sassy repartee. I have a fulfilling vanilla life with friends, family, and hobbies - it would be even better with D/s. I'm looking for a monogamous LTR with a chivalrous man who treats me like an equal in public and professional settings, but knows I like being dominated behind closed doors. I'm not into being a slave, TPE, or doing your laundry.
For me, D/s works best when it's balanced by intimate vanilla. It's important to me that a partner and I connect on everyday levels beyond enjoying the same kinks, and that we share a sense of humor. Being playful is part of what makes D/s fun. I believe that the best relationships, both vanilla and D/s, are built on mutual respect and trust. I also believe that respect and trust are earned (not blindly given or demanded) and depend on open communication, especially within the power exchange that makes up D/s.
I trained in martial arts for 5-6 years (though you wouldn't know it if you saw me in heels and a little black dress). Since I became too injured to train, I've been looking for that dynamic more in relationships. Without realizing it at the time, the discipline and physical intensity of training and competing gave me my "fix" and I wasn't actively searching for BDSM in my personal life. Anyways, that's likely enough information to go on. If you think we might be a good fit, say hi (though it helps if you have something more to say than a 1 line greeting).
If you're not from the New England-ish area, thanks for the interest, but I'm looking for an in-person connection. If you're married or have a girlfriend, thanks for the interest, but I'm not looking to be someone's spice on the side.
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