DreamShado		DreamMaste		dreamsofu

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Switch although more submissive than dominant. Seeks long term relationship with partner who happens to be kinky and enjoy exploring various aspects of bondage, kink, and role play. I am otherwise vanilla in all aspects of my life and seek similar. Graduate level education, intelligent, cute, curvy, outgoing, easy going, career oriented, but also quite the 1950s housewife (if you so desired). Love to cook, clean, and pamper my other half. Enjoy chivalry and want someone who is financially sound/stable. Most likely will not relocate. Will consider anyone between ages of 27-35 and 5'8" or taller. Seeking friends as well. I will reject all friend requests if you never even wrote a message to me.

3/4/2010 3:28:22 AM I haven't met the right person yet, but I have always wondered how it would feel like to entrust someone so much I know they wouldn't truly hurt me.

10/19/2009 11:31:45 PM Here is a contending list from the messages I got: 1. Witch Fairy - okay hmmm, i don't know what exactly this would be but okay... 2. Secretary- with tight skirt, tights, and tight white shirt (literally stated this way), and glasses is a must 3. Jeanie- from I dream of jeanie, I actually am digging this one, best suggestion yet! i would need a blond wig though! thanks to the person who suggested it... they said its totally submissive! I am digging it! I loved watching the reruns to that show as a child. Cmon, anymore? Also, I am looking for a suitable costume for work too.

10/18/2009 1:50:33 PM what should i be for halloween? any thoughts? My Costumes of the Past: -Witch -70s hippie -Bumble Bee -Pirate -Angel/Fairy -Mouse -Japanese School Girl -Native American Princess -bride I seem to enjoy being the submissive, cute, femmy type more so than the evil witch.

9/19/2009 2:39:28 AM Long hours, but what a rewarding job!

9/5/2009 4:15:23 PM Thank you to everyone that tried to save my SD card! I really appreciate all the comments I received. Unfortunately, it appears that water got into it and thus "corrosion". There is 1 company on the Internet that has a track record for repairing damaged cards (water damage), but they charge $995. Talk bout robbery.

9/5/2009 3:58:16 PM I came back from my trip and what a wonderful time. I got super tanned. Now I just need someone to show it off to =X

9/5/2009 3:57:22 PM A dom messaged me today and asked me if I was interested in him. No I am not interested in a 40+ year old dom. I politely replied and said thanks for the message and stating that I was not interested. They wrote back, "Your loss Miss NIKKI 19". Now, cmon, if you are going to reply and say something bad instead of saying I wish you the best, at least get my name (or login name) and age right.

9/2/2009 3:00:30 AM Totally not related to BDSM, but is anyone an expert in recovering SD flash drives? I am saddened by my card dying on me and am quite desperate to get it to read! Please help!

8/21/2009 5:48:09 AM Thanks for all those that responded to my earlier post. I enjoyed reading your comments and learning more about everyone thinks. I would love to make new friends and chat with those of you with more experience in the lifestyle. I liked many of the responses. Here's one. "I have always felt a Master is not only the owner, but a great motivator, guidance counselor, father, mentor, protector, and much much more. I have felt that a true owner guides in the best interest of the girl in question, not always in his best interest but what is best for her to follow. That is he is devoted to her, earn his keep with his interest, dedication, communication, care, and a firm hand as well as a gentle ear to all her troubles for she will never face anything alone." Other than that, the weekend is almost here and I am going on vacation! :) Will be tanning, snorkeling, going to the spa, and having a splendid time. I'll miss CM, but internet on cruise ships are an arm and a leg.

8/21/2009 5:18:24 AM Received multiple emails by an individual who claims I don't have morals. Who are you to judge? Also, just because I don't show an interest in you in any non platonic way does not mean we can't be friends. "Right so that would be why you just took it right out of your profile there." First, what exactly did I change in my profile? I did not change anything in terms of what I want and I am not here to insult anybody. Why can't I have my preferences for friends that are my age or of similar interest? or a potential partner that happens to share similar cultural background as I do and/or values? "You try way to hard to be socially correct. You need to learn some actual morals and stand up for them and believe in them, not just go with the flow of whatever everyone else considers acceptable." Second, I state exactly how I feel. I am proud of who I am (vanilla or not) and do have strong morals and values . I love my friend and family and stand by my convictions. I don't "go with the flow".

8/13/2009 8:08:47 AM Had a very negative conversation with ********** who accused me of being an "outsider". I was told that a feminist cannot be submissive. I disagree with his comment. Any thoughts?

7/29/2009 6:09:12 AM Question: Is it possible to trust someone that revealed to me they previously cheated on their other half?

7/19/2009 10:11:50 PM I've chatted with various folks from the chatrooms this past weekend. It seems that there were a few people who were genuine and friendly and the rest were a bit off and in many cases quite rude. First, just because I consider myself more submissive doesn't mean that I want to listen to some random stranger call me a b-i-t-$% and order me around. Buddy, you don't even know my name, how do you expect me to listen to you if we don't have any established trust. Second, I've had several super old folks message me wanting some cyber sexing- sexual conversations. So, by nature, I consider myself a bit dark on the sexual side, but that doesn't mean my fantasies involve men that are more than twice my age. Haven't you guys read my profile? I can't be attracted to hairless, greying, seniors. I think of my grandmother. (sorry just not my cup of tea). Third, for those that have pressuring me for photos, and videos, and writing rude comments to me when I say no, that's just not nice. Lastly, I don't like the confrontational aspect that I've encountered by some I've spoken to in last 24 hours. How about a hi, how are you? Not, "do you have a master?" "i love asian women they are so submissive". When i asked this one particular individual from India more about why he lives in this lifestyle and the power exchange dynamics between him and his other half, there was really no explanation (I'm here to learn folks more about how the lifestyle is like in every way) and he just got upset at me for "sounding intelligent". Talking in circles and saying "I $#%#!# a Chinese bit%% that's their every and that alone is their benefit". Sorry but not only does that sound stupid, but it shows zero on the measuring scale for intelligence (and intelligence to me is super sexy dominant). Just had to let this out. I wish people who tried to chat with me or request things at least take the time to read my profile to learn who I am or what I want/why I am here. There was one particular person I enjoyed talking to. Very open and explained a lot. I learned a lot and it helps that they display a genuine desire to get to know me and the kinks I happen to enjoy.