I'm a married male in an open marriage who's wife understands and encourages me to find the play I need, since she does not share those cravings. Yes, you can talk to her if you wish to verify. I consider myself more sub. But one of my past Domme's found me to be a very good Dom as well. I currently own a female sub who has been in my service for over a year. I'm seeking those who enjoy using their human toys for pleasure. A Domme who can use me to satisfy her desires. Or, a female sub who craves to be used and rewarded. Male partners will also be considered. I seek frequent encounters as opposed to one night stands, in order to grow with my partners. Frequent encounters can provide gentle pushes past comfort limits as my current property can attest to. I am not into "'heavy" pain or torture. Limits are ALWAYS discussed AND adhered to. I crave encounters which culminate with orgasmic release for both ... with my partners being totally drained before my needs are finally met as well. In "scene", you will be used. But you will always be respected and cared for as my sub. If you seek a truly loving and honorable Dom, you owe it to yourself to meet me for face to face chat over drinks or dinner to discuss future possibilties. And if you are seeking a male sub, you would not find a more obedient one whose only desire whil I'm under your control is to bring you the pleasures you need for total and frequent release.