doodi

i seek a loving long-term Female Head of Household relationship (hopefully leading to marriage).

(i like kids,), i am in good physical condition, college educated and have a good professional career.

i am intelligent and enjoy polite discussion and debate about various topics including world events to issues within the relationship and everything in between. while in my future relationship we will discuss issues, there will be no doubt that the Female is in-charge. another way of thinking about it, is that if She allows it, we vote on decisions. it's just that i get 1 vote and She gets 10 votes:)

it's not as if my ideas aren't logical, rather i find Female-led relationships much happier and more harmonious. Female-led decisions typically turn out the best for the relationship as a whole, while male-led decisions are often centered on the male's needs and wants only (and most of the time he won't even realize it).

i'm a highly capable individual, in fact my future Wife will find me to be a valuable and productive partner and will have me oversee the implementation of many of Her decisions. an analogy would be that the Female is like the "ceo" of the relationship and sets the overall direction and i am a "middle level management executive" underneath Her. i would be responsible for carrying out the mission statement and overseeing it's implementation and completing the hard work of making it happen. i'm sure that i will have tasks to do that are needed for day to day household upkeep but my future Wife will see that i am very valuable beyond just domestic chores.

most importantly is that one of my inherit traits is the great joy i feel waking up each morning with the goal of making life easier and happier for the Female in my life. when She is happy, then i am happy:)

to the outside vanilla world, we will be seen as the most loving and happy couple around (which we will be). everyone will want to know the secret to our perfect relationship:)