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Honesty has never been a problem with me. So it's easy to decribe who I am and who I am seeking.
I am Dominate by nature. Not because I have anything to prove or insecure in my being. I am looking for a sub who will be my partner, not my door mat. Someone who believes in spirituality and of a higher power. Who is aware and feels that energy within and around her, and who will incorporate that aspect in our every day lives, as well as within our relationship. In the long term, I'm looking for an eventual LTR, and possibly more.
I am an intuitive, romantic, sensual, sexual, caring and protective man to the one who gives herself to me. I want my woman to appreciate and value that. Never take what I give for granted, for it is *indeed* a gift. I will assure the same.
Being such a being, I want her to be the type who accepts and enjoys that attention. I'm not into Poly and I don't share. What and who is mine, is mine. No one else's. Heart, mind, body, and soul.
My belief is that to be a good sub, one needs a good Dom/Master, and vice versa. Without the two... without that balance... there are only 'roles'. However, *with* that balance, there is harmony and wholeness.
The lifestyle is to be a part of the relationship, not the main reason for it. There are many other things that are a part of life and relationships 24/7 besides the kink. Let's discus them. It's a rare beauty to have in life one who loves you, adores you, protects you, trusts you, appreciates you... and to have the other who lives for you, breathes for you, desires to please you, and who wants to make you happy.
The best woman for me would be one who is inexperienced or curious. Let's face it; sex and kink can be found down at the local bar. I want more. I don't want a woman who's been with 10, 20, or 30 others. The one who is perfect for "me", is the one who I am perfect for "her".
Domination can be achieved with love and caring, yet with definite roles of authority set. To Dominate the heart and mind, leads to the Domination - and complete submission - of the body and soul.
I want it all... heart, mind, body, and soul. I want our adventures to be a part of a loving relationship, to enhance and complete it. Learning, growing, and bonding tighter and tighter as time goes on. The joining of hearts, minds, bodies, and soul... that's how I envision our relationship. I seek the 50's household, with a blend of modernization. I am not into BDSM communities or munches. For as I've said, what we share is ours and ours alone.
Do I peak your interest? Let's talk and get to know each other. If no romance is destined to be we can always be friends. You won't find a more loyal one. I'll send photos if you send. Politeness counts with me. If you're not interested in even being friends, don't be rude. I despise rudeness and dishonesty. If you're not interested tell me!
Take care and good luck in your search. Be careful out there. It can be a crazy and dangerous place.
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Greetings, to whomever may read this.
I haven't been on here a month yet, but have met a few interesting people. It has me viewing this site positively.
Still tho, it's kind sad to read some of the profiles of members who say that they have been in an abusive relationship. It is equally sad to see that some seemingly attempt to create a relationship within the lifestyle, rather than creating the lifestyle within a relationship. A spiritual love, caring, understanding, trust (which is 'earned'), communication, compatibility, and honesty are important building blocks in *any* relationship if it is to last. It's a foundation. The stronger the foundation, the stronger which is built upon it.
SBSM, in any of its various forms, degrees, levels, and depths, is born -- built upon -- such a foundation. And it is really just all about who we are as individuals. The bottom line... and final out come... is all about what we're looking for I guess.
There are quite a few fakes on this site, as everywhere else in this world. Whether they be someone who tries to portray that they are someone they aren't, or down right spammers, they are easy to spot. I won't say how, for I don't want them to possibly read this and change their behavior. But I *will* say that my background in criminal justice *does* help in this area ;). Being intuitive, and seasoned in the school of life, helps as well. Those people need to take their fake persona's and scams elsewhere.
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