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I am looking for a sub/slave that understands herself well enough, that she can effectively communicate her expectations, needs, desires, and limits to me.
I know that statement sounds so simple, but I find such a woman very rare.
I am safe and sane and I expect the same from my partner. I will not tolerate drug use, scat play, blood play, or animals.
I do enjoy impact play within reason and all kinds of bondage that makes you go into sub space and me growl in delight.
My desires range from giving playful smacks from a paddle, to thuddy and stingy strokes with a crop, whip, or paddle. Sometimes nipple play, soft and hard, can make me happy. My range of giving discipline is decided ahead of time, but I can be very firm once in that zone.
I do like the power exchange dynamic, of the woman turning control over to me and letting me "drive" so to speak. I have met powerful business in their day time work that desperately needed me to control them in their private time, they were tired of making decisions all day long, and they trusted me to make them for them.
I once sequestered a woman in a hotel room for five straight days where she turned everything over to me, and I pleased both of us, her letting me touch her the way I wanted, and her total submission to me. That was a very special time...
I am physically and mentally dominate and I do not need a T-shirt to prove it. If you want to be a SAM (Smart Ass Masochist), do so at your own peril :} I can train that out of you, and the journey there can be very fun. If you at this moment are saying, right Mr Big talker, well have the guts to say that to my face, and then we will see you eat those words and thoughts :}
If you have read Diane Vera's book or read an article about The Lesbian S/M Safety Manual and the The Nine Degrees Of Submission, then that is a great start. If not, then search for it on the net.
To what degree of submission have you done in the past and where do feel comfortable going?
I want and desire a sub/slave that wants to explore our D/s drive, to push our mental and sexual potential, and to have these experiences bond us together.
Despite the serious nature of this profile, I am a fun loving, humorous Dom, with a sense of adventure and optimism about a great journey that we can have together.
I am very patient with my partner and since I make mistakes too, I hope to find someone that can forgive. I need a partner that wants to work towards better communication and is willing to share how past hurts have shaped their life and how we can work past those issues.
Oh, silence is golden and duck tape is silver LOL
Please be single female and unattached, as I am not poly.
Good luck in your search !
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One and Done.
I had my first date in 6 years last night.
She could not put down the cell phone, while driving and at dinner.
I am a gentleman and am very friend but I am still a Dominate with the attitude when I decide to let it out.
She disrespected me from the get go.
If we ever go on a date and want to be one and done, now you know the nice way to never see or talk to me again.
END OF RANT :}
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I am a older Daddy Dom 58yo with experience loving and having a joyful time with my submissive.
I live on the Eastside, Kirkland, but I am open to anyone in the Seattle area.
I do love and appreciate plus size women. Most of my long term relationships have been with plus size sweethearts.
I do need to impart this story.
Years ago my sweetie wanted to go bra shopping at Lane Bryant and she figured that no man had ever wanted to shop there with her, so she did not ask me. When I found out that she was going, I jumped at the chance! She was shocked but I am not your ordinary off the shelf man :}
It was a Friday or Saturday and the shop was busy but we got there during a lull. A clerk asked her for bra size, and she said 46 DD very matter-of-factually. My mouth dropped to the floor. My sweetie laughed at my reaction. I have spent a lot of time caressing and kissing and sucking her breasts but I had no idea they were that big.
My sweetie said, time to try them on, and I just followed her to the dressing room.
I closed the door behind us in the little room and I sat there with delight as she tried on several bras of various styles and colors.
I could not help myself so I gave my opinions and I also fondled her at just the right moments. We had a blast. The clerk came by outside the booth and said, do you need any help? My sweetie replied, NO :}
I was laughing so hard without making a noise, which is hard to do.
When she was done trying on bras, we left the booth together, her going first with me trailing right behind her. There was a waiting line of women 10 deep at the door of the dressing rooms, single file. Here is this 6'4" big man the size of the football player walking out of the dressing rooms.
I wish I had a video of the shocked looks and expressions as we walked out past them.
We scampered to the car and then laughed our self's sick reliving that moment.
Dusty |
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The fall leaves are amazing, yellow, orange, red, and brown.
The nights are getting crisper and colder.
My arms are still empty.
My heart a void.
I wonder what Spring will bring....
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The blue sky today made me ache for the outdoors, so I played hooky and went to a local beach and watched kiteboarders surf in the windy waves. I really wish I had someone to share that with.... |
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